He won't let me being too friendly with men and believe the thing called "friendship", cos all of my male friends just want to eat me or steal me away.
2006-09-28 04:11:17 · 28 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is what he thinks
2006-09-28 04:11:47 · update #1
But it's true that some of them do like me
2006-09-28 04:15:16 · update #2
I need your serious answers pls!
2006-09-28 04:16:14 · update #3
Your a pretty girl..guys want pretty girls ..sometimes they'll do whatever it takes to get her..I think his intentions are good, because he is looking out for you. but at some point he has to realize YOU have to be able to look out for yourself. Without trust you'll have a mess of a relationship...You need to be smart about your guy friends intentions...He needs to work on trusting you...
2006-09-28 04:27:42 · answer #1 · answered by roy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No I don't think he is! Being TOO friendly with anyone of the opposite sex, when you are in a relationship, is off limits. He is probably right about the eat me or steal me thing anyways! Be friends with him! Good luck, and take care. Seriously!!
2006-09-28 11:17:16 · answer #2 · answered by me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's controlling for all the right reasons. Try to reassure him once and awhile and stop being so friendly with other male friends. Having a fear of losing you isn't a good enough reason to dump him. Good luck.
2006-09-28 15:20:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you have said, (and assuming he isn't the crazy-jealous type) he doesn't sound controlling but more like scared of losing you. This kind of comment doesn't come out of nowhere, he's already seen something to make him think that. I suggest you try to resolve this issue soon, cause if you don't it might cause bigger problems in the long run. . .
2006-09-28 15:18:54 · answer #4 · answered by Leroy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it's kinda controlling.....but at the same time, we dont know you as he may......so he could be trying to protect you from getting hurt. I've known some friends who had no choice but to try to protect their girlfriends, sometimes even the girlfriends protecting the boyfriends......because they would be the type that let others walk all over them, and wind up getting used.
2006-09-28 11:13:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dunno if you saw my other answer about your friend.
My birthday's the same day as hers... 10/6. On 10/7 me and a ton of my friends are going to this karaoke bar on 7th Ave and 8th Street called The Carriage House. You should take her there.
Then we could meet in a public, safe spot. I think you're a really awesome girl and I'd like to get to talk to you more.
And yeah, he sounds like he's very controlling... moreso... usually people who are really worried that their boyfriend/girlfriend is going to cheat... are usually the ones who've cheated themselves.
2006-09-28 11:26:47 · answer #6 · answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's an insecure wreck. I had one of these for 5 years. Soon, itll be your female friends,too. Ditch him. You dont need anybody laying down rules for you. You probably wont even listen to your parents and they love you,why listen to some guy who dosent?
2006-09-28 11:14:18 · answer #7 · answered by TrofyWife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes hes is! He seeems like one of those types of guys that are ust too insecure. You should talk to him about it. if hes like tis I think he just doesnt trust you or why else would he be worried. OR he thinks you might leave him for someone better and is scared.
2006-09-28 11:15:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
your male friends want to "eat" you??? I mean, your really pretty and all, but thats a bit extreme!
discuss this with him and if he does not ease up, then end the relationship and find someone who will trust you and let you live your life on your terms.........good luck!
2006-09-28 11:14:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u have a very jealous, insecured, and controlling man. it is a very unhealthy relationship. it should be base on trust and love. u need to get out of that relationship.
2006-09-28 11:21:19 · answer #10 · answered by island j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋