Ok, so i have been wit this guy for 7 1/2 years (off and on). He has been good to me and bad. Same with me. We tried living together 3 times... Now in the 3rd. Things have gotten bad between us. We can fight and call each other names one day and be lovey dovy the next.. Do i leave him?... The catch is I am now 2 months pregnant!
2006-09-28 04:42:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave. I think you knew the answer to this question after you moved out the first time. If you don't get along why raise your child in a hostile home. at the very least BOTH of you should go to couples classes,parenting classes and marriage counciling and then get married if you are going to stay with him. Do what you think will be best for your child. You are in quite a situation now either way you go, but your child can still come out of this without the pain you have suffered. Take a long hard look at how you were raised.Maybe if your parents had done some things differently you would not be in the situation you are in now? If that is the case, which,it usually is, do not make the same mistakes they made for your child. Just my two cents. Take it or leave it. Either way I am going to pray for you and your child. God bless.
2006-09-28 04:49:48 · answer #1 · answered by gc_manager 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like a very dangerous relationship. Sometimes when we know someone else innately, it is so easy to push their buttons and bad things happen. If you do know each other that well but don't respect each other, then leave or learn to trust and respect each other.
2006-09-28 11:49:52 · answer #2 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the thing is to find a balance between both of you. It must be a little give and take for a couple to work. Why do yee row, is it over small or big things? good luck
2006-09-28 11:44:34 · answer #3 · answered by ABBYGIRL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes leave him this is going no place fast, you don't need a husband that will just fight with you. He can still be a great dad, just not married to you. Raising a child alone is not that bad.
2006-09-28 11:45:14 · answer #4 · answered by Ames 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn well yea you being pregnant kinda make things hard see if you werent pregnant i'd say leave the loser cause you 2 obviously arent compatible but anyway try to make it work between you 2.
good luck
2006-09-28 11:46:43 · answer #5 · answered by scynthiafrancois2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
figure out WHY you are fighting and see if it is worth it. if you can be happy with another person or happier then leave the guy you're with and go to another. but every relationship is going to have hard times and good times. =]
2006-09-28 11:48:30 · answer #6 · answered by trish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have thought about that long before you got knocked up. Obviously you two aren't compatible at all. Love doesn't solve everything.
2006-09-28 11:44:14 · answer #7 · answered by camus0281 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heres the thing you are like you name 2sweet to be with him. i know you pregnent and i dont mind that i have had a few really bad relationships and i want to find the one if you rare interested email me no_name69130@yahoo.com and ask for my phone number
2006-09-28 11:47:39 · answer #8 · answered by unkown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and u wanna leave him now?tell him about youre pregnancy.if u don't he will hate u for the rest of youre life.maybe this was missing from youre relationship with him,a baby.think about don't make a decision when youre mad.go and tell him
2006-09-28 11:50:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey u pussy cat, ur avtar is awesome, how u doin baby
2006-09-28 11:43:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋