Me and my husband has ben together 13 years we have 3 beauitful children but lately I have been talking to another man and I have felling in love with him. No I have not slept with this man, we just have a really good time together. My husband and me just dont have fun or he does tell me he loves me or anything at all. He's become very boring.Please help I don't know what to do.
2006-09-28 04:46:03 · 15 answers · asked by rivasw2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
MARRIAGE IS A HARD COMMITMENT TO MAKE, YOU SHOULD HAVE MADE BETTER CHOICES. NEVER GET INVOLVED WITH ANOTHER RELATIONSHIP UNTIL YOU COMPLETE THE ONE YOU ARE IN.
AND GROW UP FOR GODS SAKE, LIFE IS HARD, MARRIAGE IS HARD DEAL WITH IT AND QUITE ACTING LIKE A SCHOOL GIRL.
2006-09-28 04:51:10 · answer #1 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
u know it's so sad to see a woman who has given up on her marriage of 13 years beecause of a problem so minor as boringness !!! u have a family for God sake not to mention one on the way. all u need to do is spice up your marriage a little. lingerie, a romantic night out without kids, do something spontaneous and different in the bedroom or someplace else, if u know what i mean ! anyway, ther are lots of women out there who's marriages are being destroyed by abuse, husband cheating,drugs, alcohol, mental abuse, and u just cuz he's boring. u should feel real guilty right now. u are only thinking about yourself and not even trying to give your husband a chance to change a little bit. Everyone gets stuck in some sort of rut every once in a while, but by all means u don't talk to another man cuz of it. work on it with your husband, u made a committment to him and to your family. they don't deserve this betrayal.. think on that !!
2006-09-28 12:08:41 · answer #2 · answered by just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the other guy you have a family it is a little late to be scouting for new pleasures. Have tried initiating fun in your husband? Some guys just get in the rut of watching football and drinking beer. I think that if you took the initiative you could potentially break him of his boringness. When you decided to marry him he must have been less boring you just need to rekindle that flame and things will become great between you two.
2006-09-28 11:51:21 · answer #3 · answered by Paka 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is a choice. Love your husband. You vowed to do it, didn't you?
Go back and do the things you did when you won his love. You just need to rekindle your love.
Your kids need their real dad. That's a priceless gift. I ought to know. My parents divorced when I was only 8 years old. I never got over it, and never will.
If you've got to look for greener pastures, can you possibly put aside your selfishness temporarily and think of those beautiful children? They'll be grown and grown before you know it. If you rob them of their dad, you'll pay for it through them the rest of your life.
2006-10-01 17:11:14 · answer #4 · answered by delmaanna67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sincerely believe that a stud service should be available for women in your situation. I don't like the idea of women leaving their husbands but I can sympathise with a woman who wants to sleep with other men to add some fun to her life.
I would be delighted to provide that kind of discrete service. Good luck.
2006-09-28 11:58:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you need to cut off all contact with other man bc of coarse you like somone when u spend time with them.
Second you need to start spending time with your husband and recindle the feeling s that caused you all to get married.
Third seek marriage counseling bc if your married then it has to be worth it.
God bless and always pray bc God is always listening!!
2006-09-28 11:51:52 · answer #6 · answered by leenabootie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you want love - a lasting relationship, commitment, and family, or do you just want to date people?
Sorry, but that's the decision you have to make.
Work with your husband on the relationship.
Good luck.
2006-09-28 11:49:27 · answer #7 · answered by American citizen and taxpayer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to make a decision about your husband and family before considering the feelings about a new man
p.s. i'm psychic and i can tell you it wouldn't work out with the guy you've 'totally fallen in love with'
2006-09-28 11:55:49 · answer #8 · answered by ooh baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ever happened to your marriage vows? What you have fallen in love with is the attention....Put your energy back into your marriage and work on repairing it. Marriage takes work and you owe it to your husband and your marriage to work it out.
2006-09-28 11:52:44 · answer #9 · answered by ladysteelersince1976 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you already have 3 kids its a little too late to notice you are not in love don't you think ??? r you really going to leave you're kids without a dad just cuz you think you like another guy who you don't even know about think about it. its youre kids youare taking about here and theire future!!
hope you amke a good choice good luck girl!!
2006-09-28 11:52:12 · answer #10 · answered by *********** 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋