Im 16 & i live in a small town & things get spread really fast around here & everybody in my family thinks its wrong & most of my friends they wouldn't like not like me cause of it but they would think i was hittin on them...i found out that im bi i had x-perienced with a girl when i was 12 & i liked it & ever since there i have been liking girls & i recently told mi x/mi best friend that i liked girls & ovbisley he didn't care but i feel like im living secretly i hate it...what should i do? im plainin on moving ta florida next year with my x so maybe i can meet new people & i can be with girls & nobody will know & it won't get around to mi family...im just confused because i don't know if maybe im not bi & its just a stage or i really am
2006-09-28 05:05:59 · 12 answers · asked by CuTiE WiD A WhOle LoTtA Bo0ty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im into my religion im baptists & same sex stuff is a sin like im not all like worship him worship him & all perfect but i love my god for dieing on the cross for me & he's always there but i also don't want to b a bad person to him cuz i want 2 go 2 heaven like i do swear & **** so im sinning there but being bi or w.e is worse
2006-09-28 05:14:18 · update #1
You still have time to experiment and find out what you want....there are people who are 40 that are just now realizing that they are gay...don't waste any opportunity...have fun...enjoy...
I don't think you should tell your family if your bi...but once you become (if you become) gay then that's when you should tell.
People just need to mind their business, you don't have to tell everyone...They don't need to know....
Have fun :) and keep it to yourself....
2006-09-28 05:29:18 · answer #1 · answered by fatiegurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, this is all just part of growing up and figuring out your life. I know it is confusing and kind of scary but it is normal. Take your time and experience life and figure things out over the next couple of years and then when you feel like you have a better handle on who you are don't be afraid to be you in front of the whole world. The people who love you will accept you for who ever you choose to be and what ever life you live.
2006-09-28 05:13:10 · answer #2 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay your at that stage of deciding where you want to fit in. You can still be social and fun but in a sensible way. Friends are a big influence so if you like sport join a sport team and you may find friends there. When you do socialise and you find that you are making friends with boys in particular, dont get carried away. Focus on Studies and education and later in life you have time for boys.
2016-03-26 21:24:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait until you move. Moving away from a small town and people that have known you forever is an eye opener, and you will find that people in larger cities are more accepting of different lifestyles. You are young and have plenty of time to explore your options. Good luck!
2006-09-28 05:10:57 · answer #4 · answered by me! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so young to be considering moving out with your bf, and to be overly concerned with your sexual staus.....you are what you are..."what other people think of you is none of your business".....I am unsure of where I heard this but it is soooo true....as long as you are O.K. with who and what you are, who the f*ck cares what others think...stay strong, live your life, be the best part of Creation you can be.
2006-09-28 05:17:17 · answer #5 · answered by l00kstwice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you like girl's thats okay that you that have to love you regardless for how you are stop hidding it because its best for people to know better than it spread around
2006-09-28 05:10:33 · answer #6 · answered by Shanta e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life is full of secrets, u should open ure eyes
2006-09-28 05:09:32 · answer #7 · answered by tariq k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all should live the way we feel.
2006-09-28 05:17:12 · answer #8 · answered by Rinchen Tsering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ny is better
2006-09-28 15:55:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are who you are!
2006-09-28 05:09:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋