i met a guy that i was very very attracted to just a week ago today.. the night i met him at the bar we just kinda kept looking at eachother until we finally talked and then on saturday we saw eachother again at the club and i gave him my number. well sunday night he called me and wanted to hang out but i didn't really want to because i didn't feel good so monday he called again and wanted to hang out so i did. we went for a ride on his bullet bike, went to his house, cuddled up on a love sack & watched a movie. we didn't do anything extreme we just kissed a little here and there and it was cute, so here's my question-- do you think after just that amount of time i could already feel something for him and have it be right? i can't get him out of my head and that has never happened in this short amount of time, so please give me some good advise!. serious answers please
2006-09-28 04:53:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you can know in an instant. You are old enough to know the difference between something real and a 16yr olds infactuation. I knew it was right the second I was introduced to my boyfriend and I waited 5mo to tell him that I loved him because I knew that it was perfect, and didn't want to take any chance of messing it up. Don't let him know how strong your feelings are yet tho because he may not be as intuitive as you. He probably likes you but guys are a little slower on the up take if you know what I mean.
Good luck I wish you the best! :)
2006-09-28 05:04:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is a scientific study which shows the similarities between a schzofrentic patient and a person who is in love. For the first nine months of a relationship you could be having the feeling that you are totally and completely in love. However, after nine months the true feelings are going to be coming out. I would give it some time before you make a decision on whether or not you love him. You are going to see more of his personality and everything after some time. So, good luck!!
2006-09-28 12:12:05 · answer #2 · answered by nice_guyminnesota 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok first of all I agree, I met this girl one time and it took like days before we were in dreamland with each other couple of weeks later it was over (we ended it mutually) it hurt but I am fighting back. If you feel you have made a connection, then see how it progresses from month to month, maybe you have actually stepped in to your destiny, and if so nothing will stop you from spending your life with him.
To go back to your question, 1 week is more than enought to like someone, but take it nice and slow and you will bare the fruits of the relationship.
Good Luck, fingers crossed for ya. xx
2006-09-28 12:17:51 · answer #3 · answered by Mr Y! Answers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somebody's smitten! eheh heh heh
You’re definitely attaracted to each other & so far things are going great. Sure you’re feeling something for him. You like what you see and you’re excited about the future. But I wouldn’t call it much more than an endorphin rush this early in the relationship. Both of you are still exploring; getting to know the other; and, on your best behavior. You really don’t know enough about him in this short amount of time to call it anything close to love. Just relax (I know, easier said than done) and enjoy getting to know him. An LTR will develop if it’s meant to happen.
2006-09-28 12:09:21 · answer #4 · answered by Celt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in this crazy world anything is possible, however that doesnt mean you should put all your eggs in one basket. Give it a little more time befor you take that leap. And if your not a paitient person just put him in a situation that could bring out the person he really is.
2006-09-28 12:07:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to start with that spark and apparently it's there. Consider that if he and you had a little kissy time and he didn't push the issue beyond that, he is probably interested in getting to know you. Good for you both. Go for it.
2006-09-28 12:01:57 · answer #6 · answered by randyken 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Time is not a factor, when miracles happen, you just know that it is happening, and you cannot delay it, it is like the forces of nature. Enjoy!
2006-09-28 11:58:08 · answer #7 · answered by fatboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
experience makes the difference.
2006-09-28 12:07:38 · answer #8 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not, i think it sound like you are having the time of your life. good luck
2006-09-28 11:56:54 · answer #9 · answered by ABBYGIRL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time is not what determine what's right it is your heart and how you feel
2006-09-28 12:03:37 · answer #10 · answered by Kay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋