okay so heres the thing.. my parents found out i've been skippin school with my bf and now i ain't even allowed to see him or talk to him besides in school. we are still 2gether but both our parents don't wanna let us be. we both agreed to runaway but we are only 16 .should we runaway just to be happy?we don't have a job,car or anything. what should we do 4now to get out of our houses?
2006-09-28 05:02:05 · 11 answers · asked by unknown 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
plus i got home from school and my "dad" started choking me and said he would like to kill me NOW tell me WHAT CAN I DO.
2006-09-28 05:22:54 · update #1
u been naughty, inform the police and ask forgivness fgrom ure teaxchers
2006-09-28 05:04:31 · answer #1 · answered by tariq k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely run away with him. Why in the world would you want to spend time actually studying and getting an education, when you could be out on the road, carefree, with your bf, with no stupid parents telling you what to do? Dont worry about the fact that you have no money, no place to live, no car, or any skills to get a job and support yourselves. After all, you have each other and your love. Besides, having a job would be boring, probably worse than school and parents, since you would have a boss who would force you to do jobs you didnt like, and it would just keep you two apart. So go ahead, hit the road, live like you havent a care in the world, and dont forget to not tell your parents where you are, since Im sure they would be worried. Besides, you could always earn some spending money turning tricks at Truck Stops along the way.
Good luck!
2006-09-28 12:14:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be stupid! Running away doesnt accomplish anything and it will only make things worse. Take responsibility for your actions cause I have lived on my own since i was 18 and it is a very hard world. If it’s meant for you two to be together nothing will stand in you way in the long run. Trust me there is no reason to rush things. Your 16 and I thought the same way you did at that time and now im 22 and have realized its not the end of the world. It will only make you stronger and if it doesn’t work out there are so many other options. Just trust it’s not the end of the world. Go back to school cause if not u will regret it later.... Word of advice grow up and take responsibility for your actions cause right now your acting like your 12!!!
2006-09-28 12:13:54 · answer #3 · answered by ..... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a serious question? You want to run away with no where to go, no car, no jobs, no money??? Do you know where you'll end up? ON THE STREETS.
What can you do to get out of the house? Finish school, maybe go to college, at least get a job and a car. Grow up a bit before making such a big choice. It's not a good idea, I left home at 14 but it wasn't a smart move. I was being abused though, it wasn't because I was denied a boy. You need to get yourself grown before you try to act like it.
2006-09-28 12:11:21 · answer #4 · answered by musicpanther67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first of all your parents only want whats best for you and they want you to get a good education.How do you expect to make it on your on with no education? Workin' at Micky D's? I think not . If you want to be treated like an adult then act like one and keep up with your responsibilities.Remember boys come and go but your parents will always be there through the good and the bad.Love and respect you as much as they do.
2006-09-28 12:08:13 · answer #5 · answered by lisa 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Finish school at least. It's ridiculous. You can't get anywhere in life without your diploma these days. My sister ran away to a nearby city to be with her bf, left school. And now she regrets it. I think you should just hang in there, quit skipping class and prove to your parents that you can and will be responsible and get your priveleges back. Maybe transfer classes so you can be in more together. Hang out in mutual crowds after school, so your parents know your with other friends as well.
2006-09-28 12:05:43 · answer #6 · answered by MaNdYb 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its a very bad idea to run away your too young and nieve and Don't know enough about life yet. My parents would be mad if i skipped school too, Maybe if you get your act together they will be okay with you seeing him again.
2006-09-28 12:17:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety you are just 16.....
wait for some time...running away aint the answer...talk to your parents...let them know abt your feelings...talk to them ...talk to them calmly...if you cannot face to face talk, write them a letter expressing your feelings...
Assure them that you are willing to attend school and not skip it...
trust me ...regardless of how it feels right now, school is a little more imp then the boyfriend...
when you are like 30 years old and broke, may be the school diploma would help ya a little more then a boyfriend...
trust me ...complete your education...its for your better life...
And, besides, you are allowed to see your bf in school...one more incentive to go...
wid time, your parents would understnad and they would start to appreciate your love...
your parents dont want to stop you from dating..they just dont want you skipping school for it...
Talk to them ............................................................
And dont run away....wid no job and no car and no house...how many days do you think you and your bf could servive working at a MacD;s !!!!!!!!!!!!
think reason. and then act...
2006-09-28 12:12:19 · answer #8 · answered by cuteniceprty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
TAKE YOUR PUNISHMENT. THINGS WILL GO BACK TO NORMAL SOON ENOUGH. LISTEN TO YOUR PARENTS THEY KNOW WHAT IS BEST. SKIPPING IS NOT IN YOUR BEST INTEREST. DO NOT MAKE ANYMORE STUPID DECISIONS, LIKE RUNNING AWAY.
IT IS A COLD CRUEL WORLD OUT THERE.
2006-09-28 12:08:15 · answer #9 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finish ur studies,u r 2 young2b thinkin dat way,u planning2run away wat if a few months down the line u break up?wat then?think of the future.
2006-09-28 12:12:37 · answer #10 · answered by soft heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋