I have been dating this woman for a week. We have seen each other every single day since last Friday. We are going out again tonight and tommorow night. Given the intensity of the relationship- and how much we click, is it too soon to ask her to spend the night. I'm not talking about sleeping either- I want to make love to her so bad I can't stand it. Any thoughts?
2006-09-28 04:55:31 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well you certainly are off to a very intense start. I think if she is as interested in you as you are in her, then it would be ok to invite her over for a night cap and see where the evening goes. Just go in with an open mind that she may not be as ready as you are.
Also, make sure that you approach her with lots of romance- take it slow- It would be ok for her to pounce you and rip your clothes off, but it would not be o.k for you to be that agressive. Good luck. Stock up on condoms.
2006-09-28 05:01:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Often the intensity of the infatuation at the start of a relationship is only an indicator of how lonley the both of you were before you met, not a measure of how the two of you click. I say have a sleep over time wasted is time lost
2006-09-28 05:05:03 · answer #2 · answered by Mr K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Society places so many limits on sexuality. If you jump into bed too soon, you're easy. If you wait too long, who are you satisfying? Not yourself - that's for sure. You are waiting because of the notion that ya'll might be labelled "easy" if you jump in with both feet? Keep it between yourselves & don't worry what anyone else thinks. If you both feel the same way, then why wait? We are not guaranteed tomorrow - go for it & make yourselves happy. Good luck & I'm happy you've found someone who makes you feel so good!!!!!
2006-09-28 05:10:31 · answer #3 · answered by pumpkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're making this too fast.
You will break up as soon as you have her.
Try to pace your self, keep the dates apart so you're seeing her only once or twice a week, and wait till 2 months or so till you get in bed with her.
That will make you feel alot better, alot worth for waiting.
2006-09-28 05:05:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if you ask her over for the night, I bet she wont be thinking you'll just be sleeping now will she? Only way you can find out what happens, and for you to get what you want, is just ask. I'll be crossing my fingers for you :)
2006-09-28 04:59:57 · answer #5 · answered by Bastard 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait, If she sleeps with you so soon. She probably sleeps with everyone that soon. Let her make the decision.
2006-09-28 04:58:47 · answer #6 · answered by Patrick 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey, go for it. Ask her, if she is not comfortable she will tell you. She may b3e feeling the same way.
Make it a night she will never forget!!!!!
2006-09-28 04:59:59 · answer #7 · answered by Joy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's the only one that can answer that. Just be careful you don't mess up a good thing.
2006-09-28 05:07:25 · answer #8 · answered by marie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, seeing as I know your "girlfriend",I would go for it--I would also bring a video camera and ALOT of condoms!!!!
2006-09-28 08:37:37 · answer #9 · answered by angelofdreams19881 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both want it, then it's never too soon. Go for it.
2006-09-28 04:57:46 · answer #10 · answered by T.G. 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋