Family & Relationships - 28 September 2006

My boy friend and I have been going out for 8 months and every has been amazing. He rescued me from an emontionally abusive relationship.
The only negative aspect of our relationship is that he is really jealous and doesn't want me to go to clubs or hang with my girls. but Iv'e always dealt with it.
But lately It seems like I am always mad at him and he doesn't really give me a reason when i think about. I can't see myself without him so why am i feeling this way?

2006-09-28 15:49:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is this girl me and her have been friends ever since like 1st grade! But when we were in the 6th grade she started to hang around this other girl (Which she thinks she is pretty and better than everybody else) . So now when we be in school in the morning time she be talking to me, and you know acting like we best friends! When another part of the day come and she gets around the girl who think she is pretty and her lil friends she acts like she don't me! Well she don't be talking to me, she be all up in their faces. Is she a fake or what?

2006-09-28 15:48:47 · 13 answers · asked by trey songz wife 2 in Friends

I chose redhead because I'm one hehe

2006-09-28 15:48:03 · 29 answers · asked by Browneyedgirl1975 2 in Singles & Dating

is anyone happy with their marriage/ EXCLUSIVE relationship?

2006-09-28 15:47:34 · 20 answers · asked by Dre 3 in Marriage & Divorce

O.K. im a sophomore in highschool and I am thinking about asking this girl to homecoming. We are friends, and she is really nice, she's the kind of girl that might say yes just because she doesn't want to hurt your feelings. We talk a lot and i'm not completly sure what to think, i don't know if i should ask her or not, i don't want her to say yes when she really doesn't want to. Does anybody have any advice.

2006-09-28 15:47:18 · 4 answers · asked by Aks 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a really good guy-friend. We get along really well, and all that. Lately, though, he started acting like a jerk so I ignored him. But yesterday, he told me that he's sorry and could I please talk to him again because he didn't like the ignorance. I ignored it at that time, but then, when he was about to go home, I gave him a hug and I kissed him on the cheek. Today, he didn't say anything about it, but all of his friends are telling me he likes me, and when I talked to him (about 15 min ago) I asked him whether there was sumthing wrong. He said that it was a bit awkward (the kiss), and then I asked him whether it really was. He stayed quiet for a bit, and then said, "Well, not really, it's okay, I'm sorry I said it was awkward, it really wasn't." And then we kept talking, and when I told him I had to go, he asked me not to hang up. Should I go back to being just friends or should I tell him that I kinda like him myself? Please help. I can't stop thinking about him or this.

2006-09-28 15:47:16 · 19 answers · asked by Smiley 2 in Singles & Dating

one day to live and you could only spend that day with one person who would it be and what would you do?

2006-09-28 15:45:20 · 15 answers · asked by Lindsay 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I are together for 9 months.I want to move in with my him. I read that a high percentage of couples that live in together before marriage end up failing.My mother told me:"if you want to marry him, it's a mistake to move in. "So, what do you think? Should we move in together I am 27 and he is 30

2006-09-28 15:44:38 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

have had a crush on a friend at work for several months. He asked me out on a date a few months ago, but I said "no". I guess I was scared because we're friends and work together. He doesn't work with me anymore, I still see him almost every week and we hang out together and I want to date him. Did I miss my chance? WIll he ask me out again? What should I do?

2006-09-28 15:44:26 · 12 answers · asked by tipple 1 in Singles & Dating

A month ago after my ex bf and I brokeup I went out with this guy that I use to have a crush on. Anyway I dumped him on the date b/c it was akward and I only like him as a friend. And that same day he cried when he got home. I have that affect on alot of guys I make them cry. Almost every bf I had I made them cry. Is there something wrong with me? And I let them down easy by saying"I think we should see other people,I'm sorry, we can still be friends".

2006-09-28 15:44:23 · 22 answers · asked by Steph1490 4 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I are together for 9 months.I want to move in with my him. I read that a high percentage of couples that live in together before marriage end up failing.My mother told me:"if you want to marry him, it's a mistake to move in. "So, what do you think? Should we move in together I am 27 and he is 30

2006-09-28 15:44:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

When I do ask them for money, they always give me 20. But it's my senior year of high school, and I do want to go out with my friends more than they are accustomed to. Please bear in mind that I'm literally a nerd and that I've neevr really had a boyfriend(my parents are very strict, conservative Indians). They tell me that my job in life right now is to focus on my studies, go to college, and then get married to the guy they pick. However, I do want to have some fun. I don't feel guilty about asking them to pay for AP fees, SAT fees,(school related fees) and clothes( I don't spend a lot on clothes--I usually only buy clothes during massive sales). But when I ask them fro money to go out to dinner with my friends, I feel bad. Granted, I only ask maximum once a week, and they never complain. But I still feel bad. How much is it okay for me to ask them in a month?

2006-09-28 15:43:47 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

it seems that ppl r either mean to me or they r humoring me if they r nice. but its just mock nice. like i said they're humoring me. i have never done anything wrong to any of these people, im not a grouch, infact i keep smiling and pretend evrthngs ok that way ppl don think im a cry baby. i dont act " quirkily", or frankly, and diff than other people. is it just the zit on my face they dont like? i keep trying but it seems pointless how can i be somebody you would be honestly interested in being friends with?? can smbdy explain plz? NO sarcastic or fake answers, PLEASE. and thank you all.
also, when these ppl r unfriendly, i start to become shy and akward, not myself that i think is fun to be with, and its like an onging circle cuz ppl prbly dont like me even more when im akward and they think im wierd when im not im just nervous i guess. i really dnt kno what to do!! help!

2006-09-28 15:43:37 · 4 answers · asked by 4theband 2 in Friends

Example: My b-friend and I went and bought one at the adult store.We had fun using it at first but then in the middle of our bussiness it got stuck in me and it hurt baaadd.It took a while for my boyfriend to dig in and get it which was also very very painful.I couldn't walk right for about a week.I had to go see a doctor and explain what happened..Imagine that!!Its kind of funny now that I think about it but at the time I thought I was never going to use another toy ever again

2006-09-28 15:43:00 · 5 answers · asked by Belanova 3 in Singles & Dating

If I caught my gf in bed with another man, I think I would torture him and make her watch. Nothing against him, I'd just want to make her feel guilty for being the cause of his pain. I wouldn't want to kill him though. How bad would that be?

2006-09-28 15:43:00 · 7 answers · asked by three6ty 4 in Singles & Dating

of the outcome?
I'm an African American young lady & date a white guy for about 6 months.When we were together, it was nothing but wonderful.... Unfortunately, he broke up with me (via email) when his parents found out I am African American. In public he was always very affectionate, polite and fun to be with. Once his parents found out (they lived in a different city), he just threw everything away! The first time he declined a gathering, I knew we had problems. Why couldn't he just be "Man" enough to say, I love her & that's it! Why live your life for your parents? They assumed I was living off him, but I have a very nice position with a corporation & my own money!! I never asked him for a dime! His parents refused to see me as an individual, some who loved their son...instead, they choose to see me a "Black" person out to get their son. Tell me, why must it be this way? I'm now afraid to open up my heart and allow it to feel. I've moved on, but can't forget this person!Help.

2006-09-28 15:42:33 · 9 answers · asked by breaker_1020 2 in Singles & Dating

I have posted before about how hubby and I started exposing me to his divorced friend out of pity. This definitely "helped " him and turned me on. Has anyone else done this before? Do you think you may want to try? I realize this is not everyones lifestyle but repsect mine as i respect yours.

2006-09-28 15:42:07 · 9 answers · asked by sarah l 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-28 15:42:05 · 2 answers · asked by outgoingelena2006 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my best friend is popular and me, well not so much. she has friends that are popular and mean. and i want to hang out with her without feeling in-the-way.

2006-09-28 15:42:02 · 9 answers · asked by krissy_nick 1 in Friends

2006-09-28 15:42:00 · 12 answers · asked by 16 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Maybe it is everyday stress that is getting to me or my Parents getting old and ill or my not finding love or not having children or not having very many friends or being too shy or having bad self image...Whatever the case, I need encouragement to keep going on right now.....I know a lot of you are really good people and I just thought I would ask for your help tonight. Thanks.

2006-09-28 15:41:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm just wondering as my GF is a virgin and I am just wondering how I can ease any pain or make it more comfortable/bareable for her.

I guess what I'm asking is a 2 part question

1) does it hurt for a female when they have sex for the 1st time?
2) can anyone please give me some advice as to how I can make the whole experience more enjoyable and comfortable for her?

Genuine answers only please.

2006-09-28 15:41:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

why do they always go for the looks of a guy and his money and all that very superficial stuff?
aint right. aint fair.

2006-09-28 15:40:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He does not have a job, comes in and out whenever he wants. He leaves the house all day and doesn't come home til late or whenever he wants or is just always in and out. I pay most of the bills. I want to leave, but I'm scared, I wonder if I can handle it on my own, but then again I was on my own when he met me then he moved in w/ me. We moved to a new place since then. This is my first child and I wonder if I'm doing the right thing w/ my decision. Been with him for 3 1/2 yrs and it hurts to think if I have to leave him. Nobody's perfect, but should I be putting up w/ his crop. He's irresponsibility, no job, hanging out all the time, coming home late night or leaving late night, sleeping til' noon. He's 27 and I'm 26. I don't think he's cheating, but then again, I never know. That's the last thing I want to worry, besides all these other things that bothers me between us. I'm unhappy and getting depressed. I need some good advice and a good friend. Thanks in advance!

2006-09-28 15:40:05 · 32 answers · asked by alloutoflove 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

After two years together he broke up with me and went back to an ex-girlfriend the very same day. After they were together less than a month, he started calling and saying that he couldn't stop thinking of me and never stopped loving me... but he never left her. Now, two and a half years later, he prank calls me on a regular basis. He either makes noises or says nothing (31 times a day is his record). He didn't seem like an idiot when we were together so what is up with this? I know I can keep ignoring it and I'm sure I could change my number but why should I have to suffer? I'm not the immature a**hole! Are there any women out there who have had a similar experience? Any guys out there who have done it themselves? Why?
Just in case you are wondering- yes, I have filed reports and told him to stop.

2006-09-28 15:39:48 · 20 answers · asked by - 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-28 15:39:17 · 11 answers · asked by Aks 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm tired of the sports cars and how fast they can go because honestly, sports cars are tight on the inside when it comes to room. Plus, if I go to a club or whatever and pick up some females it's uncomfortable for them to ride in a sports car. Not even that really...maybe I just want to get groceries or something. I need available spacing and you can't get it from a sports car. Plus, I'm getting too old for that speed racing thing. I'm 29 years old. I need something pimp like. Chrysler 300's are nice. What else?

2006-09-28 15:39:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-28 15:38:44 · 5 answers · asked by Matt G 2 in Singles & Dating

if you do, how do you do it? how do you keep up?

2006-09-28 15:38:35 · 26 answers · asked by ♥2323vsb 2 in Family

Would you date a guy who is not white? Lets say blacks, Asians, Hispanics etc. Or do you have a preferred ethnic group to do so? If yes or no explain please.

2006-09-28 15:38:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating