have had a crush on a friend at work for several months. He asked me out on a date a few months ago, but I said "no". I guess I was scared because we're friends and work together. He doesn't work with me anymore, I still see him almost every week and we hang out together and I want to date him. Did I miss my chance? WIll he ask me out again? What should I do?
2006-09-28 15:44:26 · 12 answers · asked by tipple 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You certainly didn't miss your chance. He just asked you for a date, right?? The two of you still hang out together and he still likes you... that seems obvious.
It's not like the two of you were dating and something happened. I would say things still have potential for looking bright!! But if you want the chance for romance, you should take the initiative. He probably won't ask again.
Time to pour on those feminine charms, girlfriend. :)
Don't just ask him when your hanging out. Meet him somewhere cozy yet casual. Make sure he catches the passing breeze of a sweet perfume your wearing, and then tell him...
When you do, I would also tell him why you said "no" last time. Tell him you've really been thinking about it and him. Smile, bat those eyelashes, make sure to say your sorry if his feelings got hurt, but that now your ready to give things a try.
He won't feel like his pride was wounded so much and now you'll be the girl he wanted to go out with asking HIM for a date. Trust me... unless he's already hooked with someone or some other major issue, he'd have to be a fool to not accept a proposal like that from you. =)
2006-09-28 16:01:47 · answer #1 · answered by Lady_Knight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing by saying no when you worked with him. Your instincts were correct, good for you! Now that you don't work with him, YES! Ask him out. He will say yes because he still shows interest in you by hanging out with you ever week. See, a lot of times when guys get turned down they either totally write you off or take what they can get (hang out with you). By now you should feel comfortable with him to ask him out. Best of luck to you!
2006-09-28 22:48:57 · answer #2 · answered by altruisticind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie,why don't u ask him out? or start a conversation about when u work together and how u always worried about dating people u work with.And drop a few more hints and see if he ask u since u don't work together now.Or just wait and see since u spend so much time together maybe he thing u just want to be a friend.So u need to drop him some more hints u would like to try more.
2006-09-28 22:52:26 · answer #3 · answered by motherof319662000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is 2006, if you want something and it's available, then you go for it. Here's what I think, you should ask him out this time, being that he asked you before and you told him no. He may be hesitant to ask you out again, in fear of being rejected. I say go for it girl, ask him out, before somebody else, beats you to that, "second chance at romance"! Do it ASAP, good luck!
2006-09-28 22:49:19 · answer #4 · answered by A_WWE_FAN_4LYFE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he's already asked you out once,you know that he did it for a reason,ask him if he'd like to go out sometime and see where it goes,if he is too busy or has other plans than you will know he isn't interested anymore.If you really like him don't let him get away.
2006-09-28 22:47:41 · answer #5 · answered by ///\oo/\\\ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could ask him. If you said no the first time he asked, he probably won't ask again. You need to make the move.
2006-09-28 22:47:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he might still like you, but doesn't want to be pushed away again. Smile at him, try flirting, then see what he'll do.
2006-09-28 22:48:18 · answer #7 · answered by maya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might ask u again, and if he does say yes. aand 2, u might of screwed it up. but i wouldnt think u did. and 3, if your anxious to go on a date, ask him yourself. i know its hard, but once hesays yes, youll be happy, good luck too. : )
2006-09-28 22:47:07 · answer #8 · answered by megan r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confess you made a mistake..and take a risk, ask him.
2006-09-28 22:49:55 · answer #9 · answered by afskjdsgflhf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
instead of waiting for him to ask, why don't you ask him to go out?
2006-09-28 23:02:07 · answer #10 · answered by shay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋