Family & Relationships - 28 September 2006

My mom thinks that I'm going out with my guy friend and no matter how many times I tell her that we're not she still doesn't believe me. She's even told him to leave me alone twice and it's really starting to piss me off. Ive asked her why she hates him so much but she just says she doesn't. Obviously she doesn't like him cuz why would she tell him to leave me alone. What can I do or say to her so that she leaves me alone and stops giving me crap?

2006-09-28 15:23:05 · 4 answers · asked by ALL SMILES :D 5 in Family

I am a senior in High School, and never had a girlfriend. I am not sure what girls want in a guy. I am pretty shy and reserved. In terms of looks, I am no Brad Pitt but I am not bad. Any advice?

2006-09-28 15:22:46 · 17 answers · asked by mike 1 in Singles & Dating

we have been broken up for 4 months. we never stopped talking to each other or hanging out. its almost happened a few times, but we manage to stop.

2006-09-28 15:21:21 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-28 15:21:01 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I want to make sure, since I am legally inept, that I am not getting myself into something I should have a lawyer for. We already share time with our child but will this stop me from moving out of state if I need to? Grant him anything specific?

2006-09-28 15:20:56 · 18 answers · asked by daisy 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend tried to tell me that the way you dress makes a big difference in if a girl wants you or not. I told him that's b.s. because if your conversation, charm, etc. is good enough you can look like a bum and still get any female to be by your side. Even a drop dead gorgeous type. I dress any way I want to and I still holler at the ladies regardless of what I look like because frankly I don't give a damn. He's always like you can't wear that at the club with me. He's real self conscious and I'm not when it comes to clothes, fashion, color coordinating and all that garbage! What do you think? Clothes make a difference to a female yes or no?

2006-09-28 15:20:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is this one girl in my US History class that i think i like, but i have been having trouble creating conversations to get to know her better. the best conversation i have ahd with her is how we both like starbucks coffee. i was able tobring it up by asking my theacher if they had starbucks in the early 1900's and somehow i was able to get into a conversation with her. help!!

2006-09-28 15:18:20 · 19 answers · asked by me, myself and I 3 in Singles & Dating

He always locks his cell phone when he gets home. We almost had a divorce over him being sneaky. How can I make him listen to me w/o yelling @ him cuz that's all I do. He said, 'He's going to stand his ground"! I found **** on him before with his cell phone. I figured he would unlock now but he's not. Help.......

2006-09-28 15:17:53 · 12 answers · asked by Tyff 2 in Marriage & Divorce

no, I am not gay.

I am a 40 year old (non virgin) that has been in so many bad relationships, I don't want to face another let down or heart break. There has to be some woman out there without major baggage and problems and one that wont lie or cheat on me....I don't know, maybe I am destined to be alone feeling sorry for myself for rest of life?

2006-09-28 15:16:39 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i dont know but i think that is happening between me and my best friend what should i do?

2006-09-28 15:16:26 · 13 answers · asked by mexicanangel0108 1 in Friends

2006-09-28 15:15:35 · 4 answers · asked by Kathi T 1 in Family

2006-09-28 15:15:33 · 4 answers · asked by boyluvr26 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a boyfriend he is in prison and i miss him terribly i want to be faithfull but it is hard since he will be locked up until 2012. Anyone please give me any advice on what i should do.

2006-09-28 15:14:58 · 19 answers · asked by MOM 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Should a 13 year relationship end over a one night stand? But can I ever trust him again? Confused and hurt. Makes me think about doing the same thing so he can see how it feels. But can I live with myself?

2006-09-28 15:14:15 · 23 answers · asked by nclaura402 2 in Marriage & Divorce

there is this girl in my algebra class who I like alot, but don't know if she likes me back. How do I find out?

2006-09-28 15:14:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i dont know if he is gay but he showed me his ball hair

2006-09-28 15:13:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Any kind of answer would help.

2006-09-28 15:13:04 · 15 answers · asked by Liz 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-28 15:12:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i have alot of friends but only 20% of them are guys....i guess its because im shy becouse i never talk to them...Im not sure why but if i dont talk to them than they dont talk to me......Im not sure if its because im shy and i barly talk or what....Maybe i need to stop being shy.....what ur opinion

2006-09-28 15:12:04 · 11 answers · asked by javontedonely 2 in Friends

theres this kid i like in one of my classes how do i tell him

2006-09-28 15:11:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was with this girl for about a month and a half. i broke up with her and then realized i still liked her, so when i went to get back with her she said she was wit some one else. i recently talked with her and she admitted to stilll liking me. her and her new boyfrend are getting serious and i need to get her back. ps, we are in eighth grade and her new boy is in 9th.

2006-09-28 15:10:43 · 8 answers · asked by Da 1 and Only 1 in Singles & Dating

I stole $200 off my parents and they found out about it today. I feel horrible and I know no matter how many times I say I'm sorry, it won't fix it. They grounded from seeing my boyfriend for a long time and I went off on them because of that. I don't know how to get their trust back. This isn't the first time this has happened. I'm a horrible daughter. But I really want them to be abe to trust me again. I love my parents and don't mean to ever hurt them. I just don't think they'll ever trust me again.

2006-09-28 15:10:21 · 11 answers · asked by Kaci Loves John 2 in Family

I know there are sooo many of these questions out there...and part of me believes that if one has to ask....then the answer is already there...but, I am truly heartbroken over the following:

I am with a sweet, nice, funny, and supportive as can be man and we have been dating for the past five years after meeting in college. I have a great career and have always known what I wanted in life...the typical Type A.

My boyfriend is a polar opposite...more of a free spirit, spends all his money, has nothing saved...doesn't know what he wants to do...maybe go back to school...was laid off of work...has had a very difficult time finding a job (almost a year now)...

I love him so much, but I (selfishly) feel that I don't want to be taking care of him and having to help him figure out what kind of job he wants, editing his resume, and trying to help him learn to save money...he and my family have said that he's not good enough...Is there hope, or is it time to move on?

2006-09-28 15:09:46 · 12 answers · asked by missy202 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm homeschooled my friends say he likes me

2006-09-28 15:09:33 · 4 answers · asked by Yankeelvr3xoxo 1 in Singles & Dating

Husband of 11 years is suddenly accusing me of having an affair.

2006-09-28 15:08:55 · 21 answers · asked by WENDY P 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

her sister told me we deserve each other.i am wise at handeling money.my girlfriend is not.she is always broke.what did her sister mean by this remark that we deserve each other.was she trying to be smart?

2006-09-28 15:08:01 · 10 answers · asked by joejoe 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it, b/c they are quick to go out with white men because they're white?

2006-09-28 15:06:49 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Due to the ever-increasing divorce rate, people should not get married but rather stay single and only live in partnerships.

In the modern world the marriage is just proven as divorced phenomena, it seems that people get married only for divorce. Some general people to high standard people, who are not content with their marriages, seek for a way out from this boundary despite the fact that they feel extremely restricted and encounter the unsatisfied relationship. Therefore, this essay will explain the fundamental reasons for why people should not get married but rather stay single and only live in partnerships.

First, remaining with a partnership relation is always better than getting married in order to have own freedom. From the time of birth, a person always seeks freedom because there is nothing more important than freedom. Even animals seek freedom: they want to get out from the zoos or the cages. Marriage is a boundary that people cannot get away easily from, despite one’s desperately willing to get out. In fact, when one engages or involves in marriage one’s freedom is swept away. Even though divorce can make them free from the paper or law, backward people (people from backward society) could not get divorced because of someone’s threatening or they also might not know such law is existed which can make them free from this boundary. As a result, they must live with one’s husband or wife whether or not they feel so miserable and sometimes desire to commit suicide. Therefore, remaining only in partnership is always good since law cannot bind them; furthermore, a person living in partnership has more choices out of life than a married person does.

Next, in order to be free from law and losing one’s own property only remaining in partnership is the best way. Once a person gets married generally, one’s property becomes the property of couple or both. Thus, taking advantage of it one’s who is not the real owner of that property can file for the divorce hoping he/she could gain half of it. Whether or not its lawful the owner could not restrain it from being divided. On the other, being only as partnership the property is always in the secure phenomena. Indeed, it doesn’t bring the shame to related family and to society though they break up as such event sometimes would bring shameful circumstances to family and society.

Finally, although opponents assert that marriage always secure to women in some countries including Asian countries such as India, Nepal, Bhutan etc. it is often domination to women because those women, who lost their husbands, always are forced to wear white cloths; it means that they could not get married again, and also they are even treated as bad as imaginary witch; saying that their husbands pass away because of their evilness. Other reason why marriage is domination to women is, they have to write Mrs. whereas men don’t demonstrate their title that other could know whether they are married or not. Therefore, marriage is harmful to one’s life, family, and society.

In conclusion, as the marriage is restriction, domination, freedom loser , its always better to stand far apart from marriage. To be exemplary or good family in the society love is extremely important rather than only sign paper that might contain numbers of conspiracies. If fact, if people do not be aware of all these things more suicidal cases, crimes, discriminations, and peace-less atmosphere will increase rapidly.

2006-09-28 15:06:26 · 9 answers · asked by heaven137000 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This is not a discussion on whether ghosts are real, I don't care about that.

I'm watching Discovery's "A Haunting." This ex-Ranger and his wife SEE freakin' ghosts. They are *obviously* not friendly. They have a young daughter and an older (8ish) son.

The son sees the same ghost as the Dad. These people REALLY BELIEVE THERE'S FREAKIN GHOSTS IN THEIR HOUSE.

So what do they do? They hire a ghostbuster. After the mom has her hair pulled, their son sees a ghost, the adults see a ghost - weird things constantly. Then, baby daughter starts "having trouble sleeping," and INSTEAD OF GOING TO A HOTEL, they have ghostbuster set up video. And she finds out that an evil presence is threatening their child. So here's what I want to know. (assume it's real)

1. Do you leave or keep your family in perceived danger?
2. WHY would someone not just LEAVE - if they REALLY believe what they're "seeing?"

2006-09-28 15:05:58 · 6 answers · asked by tagi_65 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have a bf that i have been with for a year and wen i met him i was with another guy that i cheated on to be with the guy that i am with now. i was with the other dude for five years and we had a baby boy that was born premature and died a wk and 1/2 later i was devastated after the lost because that was my first child and i wanted the baby really bad. he sent me back to my mom house when i got pregnant and really didnt even talk to me during the whole pregnacy. after the baby died thats when he started tryin to be with me agian but i felt like i had to get revenge for all the hurt and pain that he caused me. i still had some feelings for him but didnt know how to really let them go. i brought those feelings into the new relationship and they may have caused some problems because my new guy caught me with him on two different occasions. it caused him to lose some trust for me and i dont want that because i want him and not my ex.i need to kno how to gain his trust back..please help

2006-09-28 15:05:30 · 10 answers · asked by toya1jolly 2 in Singles & Dating