I have posted before about how hubby and I started exposing me to his divorced friend out of pity. This definitely "helped " him and turned me on. Has anyone else done this before? Do you think you may want to try? I realize this is not everyones lifestyle but repsect mine as i respect yours.
2006-09-28 15:42:07 · 9 answers · asked by sarah l 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If I understand this correctly, this is a sexual setup? Well, I think that it has to be a mutual decision between you, your husband, and his divorced friend as to how this will be. As long as you are all okay with it, then I don't see what the problem is. Lots of relationships are "open" these days. I have done that before and I don't have any regrets about it.
2006-09-28 15:46:02 · answer #1 · answered by sxysparkler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't say that I would ever want to try it, much less consider it and my husband has some pretty hot friends. I am trying not to be disrespectful, but I fail to see how this "pity sex" is good for anyone. How low does your self esteem have to be to use sex as a pick me up? And then, what is your husband actually thinking of you? Because I"m sure when you are getting along...it's "oh, she's hot"...but the minute that first argument about this comes along, you are going to be his little "wh@re". Think about it honey. This situation has so many things wrong with it that I don't even know where to begin. I think you rushed to open Pandora's box without stopping to read what's inside first.
2006-09-28 15:53:57 · answer #2 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a male. and single as well and in no way would i ask no woman to do that a real man dont from your typing seem,s you.2. have a open marrage well to each his own . my opion?
2006-09-28 19:48:50 · answer #3 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have helped many of my Friends but not the same way. What is good for you is not GOOD for me; so I pass on this one.
2006-09-28 15:46:24 · answer #4 · answered by lousylaus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking of respect......What has this done to your self-esteem? How do you feel about yourself once you are finished? Do you actually feel good about what you have done?
2006-09-28 16:25:08 · answer #5 · answered by Faith In The House 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if I was married but you and your husband are in agreement so it isn't cheating. As long as you are okay with it.
2006-09-28 15:43:58 · answer #6 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband is pimping you out to this guy. I wouldn't stand for it.
2006-09-28 15:46:23 · answer #7 · answered by blondee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, no that is strange, but to each his own, I guess.
2006-09-28 15:45:42 · answer #8 · answered by Sentinel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah no,and no way.
2006-09-28 17:52:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋