I have a really good guy-friend. We get along really well, and all that. Lately, though, he started acting like a jerk so I ignored him. But yesterday, he told me that he's sorry and could I please talk to him again because he didn't like the ignorance. I ignored it at that time, but then, when he was about to go home, I gave him a hug and I kissed him on the cheek. Today, he didn't say anything about it, but all of his friends are telling me he likes me, and when I talked to him (about 15 min ago) I asked him whether there was sumthing wrong. He said that it was a bit awkward (the kiss), and then I asked him whether it really was. He stayed quiet for a bit, and then said, "Well, not really, it's okay, I'm sorry I said it was awkward, it really wasn't." And then we kept talking, and when I told him I had to go, he asked me not to hang up. Should I go back to being just friends or should I tell him that I kinda like him myself? Please help. I can't stop thinking about him or this.
2006-09-28 15:47:16 · 19 answers · asked by Smiley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
During the call, he was talking to me really nicely and as much as I like him, I also don't want to lose him as a friend. And I'm thirteen, so the oral "idea" is just disgusting.
2006-09-28 15:54:43 · update #1
Last thing I'm adding is this: he's seriously starting to care about how I feel, like whether I'm angry w/him or not. He was staring at me all through class, and during lunch, he tried to talk to me about and well, yeah. And I really want advice, as I'm not the most outgoing girl you know. Please?!
2006-09-28 15:58:05 · update #2
Tell him you like him...
I had a situation alomst exactly like this with my friend Chad...
I liked him a little, but was still kind of in love with my ex. Me and Chad would always kiss (cheek) and hug and we were really close..like I could tell him anything, yanno? And then I found out he liked me...and I kinda liked him too, only I didn't make a move.. I waited and waited for him to make the move..to ask me out, confess he liked me, anything..and it ended up that another girl asked him out two weeks later, and I lost my chance. It was after that that I realized how much I loved him. You can't be that close to someone without loving them. I wish that I had done something more cause we were literally made for each other.
Since then though, we've grown apart..we hardly talk anymore, and just act as though we never knew each other. It makes me cry to think about what I missed out on with him, and how stupid I was...
2006-09-28 15:59:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorta in the same situation and what I did and I am not saying its right for you but I put it all out on the table. I would tell him.. hey look, your a good friend of mine and I feel I can talk to you about things and I have alot of fun with you and during our friendship I have felt something a little more and like u a bit more than a friend. But no matter what I dont want to lose u as a friend and if things can not be more than I will accept it and we stay the way we are. ( something like that ) put it in your own words. If u know u can trust him on your friendship then why not say something. He will never know u really like him. Maybe he is thinking the same thing about you but dont think u like him. Guys are strange!! No matter what we will never understand them :) all u can do is try and hope for the best. But just remember there are plenty more in the sea and if he is really your friend he will always stay by your side no matter what the situation is. take care and good luck :)
2006-09-28 22:55:54 · answer #2 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion i would tell him that you like him and you have fun being with him. sometimes guys have that feeling. We ( us women) get the feeling most of the time. Just take the time and talk to him about how you feel about him. And ask him the same thing.
2006-09-28 22:52:11 · answer #3 · answered by Saira S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remain in touch with him and keep assessing him. BUT, don't be in a hurry to get physically involved with him. A little more time will tell you if he is sincere with you and then you will be in a better position to reveal your heart to him if you so desire.
2006-09-28 22:56:29 · answer #4 · answered by BGL G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
isn't there a place where the teenagers can go to discuss their minutae in excruiating detail amongst themselves? Honestly, the 12, 13,14,15,16 year olds recall ever subtle nuance, every detail, every intake of breath....and no one else cares. Not one damned bit.
2006-09-28 22:50:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you like him I think that you should tell him. If he was acting kinda quiet after all this happened, he prolly likes you to.
2006-09-28 22:51:42 · answer #6 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
communication is the key. i think by the sound of things he like you. i dont know about most but i like a girl that is up front with me. i think it would end will if you would tell him.
2006-09-28 22:52:02 · answer #7 · answered by OB the Wolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends are always better than boyfriends. Not only that but if he likes you he will tell you.
2006-09-28 22:51:12 · answer #8 · answered by bukkake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him as how you feel for example if you feel like a friend act like his friend if you feel you want more than that talk to him as more any ways good luck!!!
2006-09-28 22:50:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he likes u go 4 it
2006-09-28 22:50:40 · answer #10 · answered by fadlfkasd 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋