A month ago after my ex bf and I brokeup I went out with this guy that I use to have a crush on. Anyway I dumped him on the date b/c it was akward and I only like him as a friend. And that same day he cried when he got home. I have that affect on alot of guys I make them cry. Almost every bf I had I made them cry. Is there something wrong with me? And I let them down easy by saying"I think we should see other people,I'm sorry, we can still be friends".
2006-09-28 15:44:23 · 22 answers · asked by Steph1490 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You make them cry because they're sensitive and probably like you a lot, there's nothing wrong with you!
2006-09-28 15:47:05 · answer #1 · answered by Me Being Me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe there's something wrong with both (you and the guys you select as b/f's). You are afraid to commit to one guy. The guys you select are ones you know you do not want a long relationship with, but who like you. Be up front with them at the start. If you're "letting them down easy", they wouldn't be crying.
2006-09-28 22:50:41 · answer #2 · answered by Rex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he was just a Wussy.
You might as well get used to treating boys like S H I T because that is obviously the way you are heading and you will be unhappy in later life until you learn a true life lesson, and that will only come with experience
2006-09-28 22:47:57 · answer #3 · answered by froggy010101 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it seems you are waiting for some kind of prince who will come for you and take you to a world where everything would be the way you like it and everyone would just adore you.
but in reality there's nothing like that. you might meet a prince but everything being just perfect is not a possibility. in reality, you can meet a person who you think is not upto your level(may be , calliber) - might be the prince whom you are looking for.
well, keep doing that and all you will need to do is compromise later in your life with somebody and finally, be with one(somebody just normal)
conclusion :- try to works things out instead of just getting rid of the person. relationship is like a cart are we are like tires. as this cart moves on its path(life) both the tyres are worn equally (though in different senses) that means both the indivuals in a relation have to sacrifice something or the other to keep it running.
in otherwords, if you think "you'll get somebody in your life who will be what you want in every sense and you won't have to sacrifice anything"then thats unreal.
imagine, a guy who is crying for you what he can do for you, if asked to.
2006-09-28 23:29:05 · answer #4 · answered by i don know y 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow! A city full of girlie-men!
You must be quite a woman to have that effect on all your men!
Obviously, the problem isn't you. Its the men you pick or the men that are attracted to you. They must get their hopes up and can't handle it when it doesn't work out.
Keep looking. You'll find the right one. Good luck!
2006-09-28 22:50:44 · answer #5 · answered by ssbn598 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not sure I would say there is anything wrong with you. I would however rethink dating someone unless you actually like them in that way, to just go out with a guy is called using them and no one likes beign used. if a guy asks you out fine, but before you are his "Girlfriend' you should have feelings beyond friends.
2006-09-28 22:48:35 · answer #6 · answered by daggermouth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. I don't believe you're THAT precious.
2. EVERY guy???
3. There are only three women ON EARTH I would ever cry over, one gave birth to me, the other two are none of your business, but let me assure you......you AIN'T one of em!
2006-09-28 22:52:53 · answer #7 · answered by eyeque195 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To tell you the truth, us guys do actually have feelings, You may be one of those ladies that guys just want to be with, ( Their probably crying so you'll feel sorry for them and change your mind).
2006-09-28 22:48:58 · answer #8 · answered by Sentinel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the middle of a date, not a good idea. Men's ego's need to be stroked. Try to be more sensitive.
2006-09-28 22:47:12 · answer #9 · answered by Jennifer J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now there is nothing wrong with you either you date alot of sissies or you are all of that and they don't want to see you with anyone else
2006-09-28 22:47:09 · answer #10 · answered by tpchick22 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋