My boy friend and I have been going out for 8 months and every has been amazing. He rescued me from an emontionally abusive relationship.
The only negative aspect of our relationship is that he is really jealous and doesn't want me to go to clubs or hang with my girls. but Iv'e always dealt with it.
But lately It seems like I am always mad at him and he doesn't really give me a reason when i think about. I can't see myself without him so why am i feeling this way?
2006-09-28 15:49:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because you are a drama queen
2006-09-28 15:52:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well there could be several reason but most important is the fact that you are a female has a whole lot to do with it. We sometimes go through changes and they effect everyone around us. You should ask yourself what is he doing to make you mad. He has to be doing something. It might just be some little something but you have to take care of it cause if you leave it there is a chance you can ruin what you 2 have going. It sounds like to me you need to find out for yourself what is bugging you and then maybe you can figure it out.
2006-09-28 22:56:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He "rescued" you from an emotionally abusive relationship? Then you weren't really saved, were you? The only person who could have rescued you was... YOU. And now you're involved with a jealous, possessive, nutcase. So you haven't been rescued. You've gone from one bad relationship to another. You need to end this one and take time to be on your own. Concentrate on school, career path, and improving your self-esteem. Then, and only then, will you finally be able to enter a healthy relationship. Good luck.
2006-09-28 22:54:24 · answer #3 · answered by mJc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is abuse, and one of the first things an abuser does is isolate his victim from everyone (family and friends). I think you are resenting the fact that he has cut you off. Think really hard before continuing this relationship, I don't want to see you get hurt.
2006-09-28 22:57:07 · answer #4 · answered by jbpammy004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound insecure...espcially with the "he rescued me " bit. You need to look deep into yourself...do some soul searching. Are you sure this guy is any bettter?..why is he so jelous?..That sends red flags all over. He is insecure about himself too, and will likely bring that on to you by trying to control things over you. Be careful...I've been there...done the councilling sessions for it. It's not a good place to be. And likley will get worse with what he ccontrols over you
2006-09-28 22:55:27 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! One emotionally abusive relationship to the next, huh? leave him he won't change.
2006-09-28 22:53:13 · answer #6 · answered by bukkake 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you bi-polar cause I get like that too but I have social anxiety and I get emotional alot and angry for no reason at all! might want to ask the doc.
2006-09-28 22:53:12 · answer #7 · answered by ///\oo/\\\ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like he is also abusive! I think you are in an unsafe environment!!
2006-09-28 22:52:23 · answer #8 · answered by trey songz wife 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From one abussive relationship to another..you sure know how to pick them princess
2006-09-28 22:52:35 · answer #9 · answered by Lily 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
because your letting him emotionally abuse you and control you..you have no outlet to express yourself hence this is why you asked here
2006-09-28 22:53:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋