Family & Relationships - 27 September 2006

I love him so much sometimes it hurts, but I just get the impression that he's being distant and not as nice to me anymore. We've been together for 18months and he says he loves me but it's not the same you know? There'll be loads of rude answers I know but can someone please come up with something to help me!! I'm scared I'm losing him. Thank you so much xxx

2006-09-27 07:55:50 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

why is it bad thing that i am getting this abortion...i KNOW i cannot take care of this child properly, it would suffer a life of poverty and depression and i would be stressed and his dad would be too. why put a child through that torment?!? if i know i cant take care of it, im being responsible!!! id rather bring in my baby to a world of proper financial care and fruitful-ness! **** you all who are calling em a"murderer" if YOU got in MY exact situation, you';d consider otherwise. as far as adoption..WHO THE HELL ADOPTS now a days?!? HOW MANY CHILDREN are being tossed around because no one wants them!? why bring another lost soul into this ****** up world?!? tell me why this is such a 'bad choice" how am i being selfish when im SAVING a life from sufferage!?!!

2006-09-27 07:55:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-27 07:55:34 · 9 answers · asked by enav 1 in Singles & Dating

Doing a piece for a website and i want to know what is men think about? 10 words,

good luck

2006-09-27 07:55:17 · 3 answers · asked by ohhowdareyou69 1 in Singles & Dating

I've had a great experience with guys..and I know this one is worth the trouble. I've tried talking to him, but he's extremely shy, but I've seen him stare at me and smile at me whenever I look at him. So what else can I do to try to move the spark an extra temperature?

2006-09-27 07:55:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a friend that I've known for ten years(yes since we were teenagers). She recently met a guy online and the first time she met him she let him stay with her at her apartment for a week.She scares me, because she has two kids under the age of five and I worry for her safety.
Also, is it really moral to jump into bed three hours after meeting someone and then allowing them to slug around at your apartment all week.
I think this guys a loser.

2006-09-27 07:54:18 · 15 answers · asked by *nevermind* 1 in Friends

2006-09-27 07:54:09 · 8 answers · asked by giggsy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm a straight married guy.....married for 17 years....i've always loved wearing lingerie......once, a year into our marriage, she caught me wearing lingerie.....she freaked out but nothing ever came of it.......i love wearing my custom made silk string bikini panties to bed......when she's asleep i cuddle her wearing only my panties......once, while she was in a deep sleep, i took her hand and softly placed it on my member and the silk panties.....it was such a turn on......i know i'm tempting fate because one day i will slip and something will happen and she'll find out......question is.....i'd like to tell her of my lingerie wearing habit but i'm affraid i will lose everything.....the relationship, the kids, the house everything......i dream of making love to my wife only wearing lingerie......how can i easy my way into this.....should i drop hints or just come out and say it, or should i get solo counselling......HELP!!

2006-09-27 07:54:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-27 07:53:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need some advice. I need to know how to get a divorce from my ex without him. B/c he will not send the papers back.

2006-09-27 07:53:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What are the mannerisms, behaviourisms...etc of middle class people?

2006-09-27 07:52:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex left me because I was not meeting all his needs. We grew apart after ten years and he decided he was not happy. He had an affair and is now moving on with this woman. This almost destroyed me - it has been six months but I am getting through all the pain, anger and disappointed. My question is...I know how this impacted me and our son...I keep wondering what he is going through? Does the dumper go through as much pain as the person getting dumped?

2006-09-27 07:52:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

making love, sex, whatever you want to call it?

2006-09-27 07:51:52 · 12 answers · asked by Cassandra 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-27 07:51:52 · 8 answers · asked by cstrive2002 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just had a newborn baby by a guy that I have been dating 4 about 5yrs.I have a 1yr old son by another guy.My newborns father has been there since my son was born.We fell in love when he was born.He always wishd my son was his so we tried and just had r daughter.for some reason during my preg we didnt get along b/c he wantd 2 do whatev.He knows he treated me wrng.We talked about marriage then things got worse.I let him do whatever b/c i felt like he didnt want me.Well now she's here and he was still actn a lil mean,well some1 tried 2 cut his throat n a club he go 20 stiches.Then he calls me & tries 2 b nice.I told h/what goes around comes around. He's sending mixed signals.He's the type 2 say you feel what he really feels but his pride is out this world. But Ive done nothing but be a good woman no matter what and he knows it but he knows im extremly hurt.Will he ever come around.we had got a lil cool & then I had a flash back and we had a bad argu.

2006-09-27 07:51:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-27 07:51:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I think people who say that you should wait to get married to have sex are ingorant idiots.
They think that if you wait, it'll be more pleasurable and you avoid getting diseases. Do married couples have immunities all of a sudden?
What do you think?

2006-09-27 07:51:09 · 10 answers · asked by fespinal4444 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend and co-worker seriously flirts in a sexual way with men at the office and online while at work.
Her husband is also a very good friend of mine. Should I tell him???

2006-09-27 07:50:32 · 24 answers · asked by *nevermind* 1 in Friends

2006-09-27 07:50:28 · 6 answers · asked by Perfectly Flawed 5 in Family

i dunno what ta do . . . and im like super nervous to ask him . . . can i write him a note?. er have my friend ask him?.

2006-09-27 07:50:11 · 7 answers · asked by hOlLiStEr8hUnNeH 1 in Singles & Dating

i am 19 years old..and about 10 minutes ago my father who left me and my sisters at the age of 4 who hasnt call us or seen us or even given us a card just called me..?!?!?!? After 15 years....he acted like nothing had ever happend!!! and here i am just quite as hell and in shock ..all i could say was...uhah ehah fdkasdf....bye...what am i suppose to do? he as 3 new kids .......my head hurts....

2006-09-27 07:49:54 · 9 answers · asked by nothing 2 in Family

2006-09-27 07:49:39 · 27 answers · asked by Mary Smith 6 in Marriage & Divorce

She has her own computer and I have mine. Is there any way to find her personals site from my computer? She wants to find a woman for a first time sexual experience and I just want to ease my mind that she's not looking for another guy. I am trying to trust her but this sounds fishy to me. Please don't give smart*** answers. I would like some helpful answers. Thanks.

2006-09-27 07:49:34 · 7 answers · asked by johnsmith2965 1 in Singles & Dating

In a dream:He was with my friend a nd her boyfriend,walking, and he grabbed me and hugged me,(I was wearing a skirt)and he put his hand up my skirt and grabbed my butt,he said "I thought you liked me"and I said "Ido but i am wet and a guy cut me" I kissed him on the cheek and he wasn't paying attention and walked away.

2006-09-27 07:49:26 · 8 answers · asked by princessjoe17 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-27 07:48:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I still got my hair, I still weigh the same I did at 18, I got my degree/profession, and a business on the side. A 911, and a MBZ.

I'm not looking for a trophy wife, a fling, lust, etc, but I feel like for the first time in my life, I really am in love(for months now), and this woman I have met transcends every woman I have ever met.

I don't think I really could have appreciated this person at my level of thinking/maturity when I was 25-30.

Please advise. Thank you.

2006-09-27 07:48:20 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

His first name is Camran & his wife is Haleh & they have 3 children ( Negar, Nena, Dariush )! They came 2 France in 1980!!!

2006-09-27 07:47:49 · 1 answers · asked by James Bond 1 in Family

i've been in love with my teacher
he is now 37
i am almost 20
actually i wouldnt say i am gay
but this man i really couldnt resist
and somehow we had relation
for over than 4 years since i was 15
ok i was way too young to know the right from the wrong
but i never stopped loving him
evetually we broke up
then he got married a couple of weeks ago
then he called me telling me if i want him back
and he loves me though he got married (from a woman)
i know he just want to have fun
but should i keep that
or do what my heart and mind tells me to do
and that is to be wise
and realise he will just use me
and i shouldnt see him again
even if its not for me
but for his wife that havent done anything
need ur help

2006-09-27 07:46:21 · 10 answers · asked by alexandre 3 in Singles & Dating

I DONT NEED TO HEAR THAT I NEED HELP, I AM SICK AND TIRED OF SKANKS f*%#ing my man, so i am goign to tell them that i have been in contact with HIV, and tell them to get tested for their own sake. And I already gave my man heck, and im moving soon anyway, so is that a good burn or what??

2006-09-27 07:45:37 · 8 answers · asked by Marijane Justina M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Where have all the smart girls gone ? I hate it when girls play stupid and are in fact highly intellegent ! Those are the girls that gives the men the image that we are somewhat inferior to them. Why do they do that ?

2006-09-27 07:45:07 · 23 answers · asked by Elizabeth T 1 in Singles & Dating