i'm a straight married guy.....married for 17 years....i've always loved wearing lingerie......once, a year into our marriage, she caught me wearing lingerie.....she freaked out but nothing ever came of it.......i love wearing my custom made silk string bikini panties to bed......when she's asleep i cuddle her wearing only my panties......once, while she was in a deep sleep, i took her hand and softly placed it on my member and the silk panties.....it was such a turn on......i know i'm tempting fate because one day i will slip and something will happen and she'll find out......question is.....i'd like to tell her of my lingerie wearing habit but i'm affraid i will lose everything.....the relationship, the kids, the house everything......i dream of making love to my wife only wearing lingerie......how can i easy my way into this.....should i drop hints or just come out and say it, or should i get solo counselling......HELP!!
2006-09-27 07:54:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
is it sexy lacy stuff-and our you her size i hope? be nice to have twice the lingerie.
2006-09-27 08:06:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 10:33:43 · answer #2 · answered by erlebach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she freaked out the first time she's probably gonna freak out again. I know if i caught my husband wearing lingerie i'd tell him to get out. I think that if you wanna save your marriage than you better put your lingerie away. I think that any man who wears any type of womans clothing is GAY!!! If you wore these lil sexy panties before you met your wife you should of told her in the beginning of your relationship. I think you better think about your family not your lil sexy panties. But if i were you i'd come right out and tell the truth. You better make sure she is sitting down when you tell her. Good luck with whatever you decide to do. You need lots of it.
2006-09-27 08:25:46 · answer #3 · answered by BadAssGirlINWV 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Just tell her straight. Be nice, though. She probably already knows (most wives do know things like that, they just don't admit it) and she's probably not talking about it because she knows it bothers you. But just be truthful, tell her that you wear lingerie and that you like it, but no matter what you will always love her. She will probably be very happy you finally told her.
2006-09-27 08:03:04 · answer #4 · answered by Rogue7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should give her a fashion show of the latest lingerie from Victoria's Secret
2006-09-27 08:21:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should have been honest about it in the first place. She loves you and will probably understand.
2006-09-27 07:56:26 · answer #6 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry can't help. Freaked out.
2006-09-27 13:10:12 · answer #7 · answered by Pencil 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why hide it, if it turns you on your wife will be the one benefiting from the results...............Lucky her...........
2006-09-27 08:00:58 · answer #8 · answered by T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋