I have a friend that I've known for ten years(yes since we were teenagers). She recently met a guy online and the first time she met him she let him stay with her at her apartment for a week.She scares me, because she has two kids under the age of five and I worry for her safety.
Also, is it really moral to jump into bed three hours after meeting someone and then allowing them to slug around at your apartment all week.
I think this guys a loser.
2006-09-27 07:54:18 · 15 answers · asked by *nevermind* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If she's really your friend, then you should say something to her.
Of course, that's no guarantee that she'll actually DO anything as a result of the conversation, but the welfare of her kids might be at stake and she should at least hear the opinion of someone she (ostensibly) trusts...
Good luck...
2006-09-27 07:58:48 · answer #1 · answered by Silver 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would not say she's a slut. who are you to judge what she does? youre her friend. so be a good friend, and stop judging her. let her know youre concerned for her kids, and her. i would also express your feelings to her about this slug she is seeing. be careful how you tell her. she can either take your advice or leave it. i will tell you this though, most likely she won't listen to you, some people have to live and learn. just be there for her when this loser hurts her and don't be the type that says i told you. just be there for her.
2006-09-27 08:03:07 · answer #2 · answered by lidakamo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are perfect for each other ....
some girls and guys have to pay for there mistakes in life and learning is also something that happends, not being mean but she may need a slap in the face; her kids be takin away, pregneat, a std, something more serious but you can put a stop to this and talk to her that is really all you got , tell her your feeling, thoughts emotions and if she doesnt grow up just hope nothing happends to her and especially her kids.
2006-09-27 09:19:58 · answer #3 · answered by on roller coaster called LIFE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant think too highly of her as a friend and have that attitude about her. If you really think she is a s-l-u-t,and him a loser----sounds like a perfect match. Too bad about her kids. You really want to be of help-offer to take the kids from time to time--give them a break.
2006-09-27 08:02:46 · answer #4 · answered by patlrussell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A s-l-u-t and a loser sound like a perfect match.
You might call Child Protective Services-- it almost sounds like child endangerment. It's true that child molesters seek out single women with kids and pretend to have a relationship with her, when they really just want easy access to the kids.
2006-09-27 07:59:44 · answer #5 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would just report her to child services.
The same thing happened to someone I know, but this guy was insanely jealous and threatened physical harm on her IN FRONT OF HER KIDS.
It doesn't matter if you don't want to get her in trouble, the most important thing is the kids.
2006-09-27 08:35:45 · answer #6 · answered by germaine_87313 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend is thinking with the wrong part of her body. She needs to use her head.
She's an adult, and can do whatever she wants. Her children cannot.
I would have to say something to her about putting her kids in harms way.
2006-09-27 08:00:06 · answer #7 · answered by Buffy Summers 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of friend are you? Why are you posting this mess on yahoo instead of being at your friends apartment making sure she and the kids are alrignt? Woe to the people you call friend.
2006-09-27 08:00:48 · answer #8 · answered by datingyoungincali 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like a scary situation to me. She should not put her children in jeopardy. It sounds as if she's desperate for male companionship. But unless she asks for your opinion, then don't offer one. She's already allowed this to happen and won't appreciate your input.
2006-09-27 07:58:58 · answer #9 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u think right!! u r totally right! the guy is a loser and your friend is nuts!!! there are so many cases of robery, crime and God knows what!!! what was she thinking?!
look, help her somehow to get rid of that guy... who knows what he is thinking and y the hell she left him stay at her place, plus having 2 little kids...! really weird and very dangerous!!!
2006-09-27 08:01:26 · answer #10 · answered by Crystal_Grape 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋