OK, I dated a guy for a few weeks, and fell head over heels. He then got an offer for his dream job about 2 hours away. I didn't want to "shack up" with him that early in the relationship, so I told him to give me a few months and we'd see after that. Meanwhile, I still wanted to keep in touch and even visit each other as we could. Well, the job kept him busy, and we only got to communicate about every couple of weeks, and declined in frequency. Last year he arranged for me to visit, but then had to cancel at the last minute. We've still been talking about once a month, but the emotions to say the least have cooled. This year, he's invited me up again, but he had to postphone the visit by a day because of his work again. I keep asking why he doesn't call or email more often and he just says he's busy. Since he's postphoned this visit, I've told him it's over. If he isn't going to make time for me I need to move on. Haven't I been more than patient on him to make time for me?
2006-09-27
08:12:45
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