We build up huge expectations of the day of our wedding. Unfortunately, things can happen to make it disastrous. Did that happen to you? (On my wedding day, my beautiful wedding cake was stolen!!) Did you have something unusual happen on your wedding day?
2006-09-27 08:18:04 · 25 answers · asked by Jo 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Well unfortunately we didn't have alot of money and I had had my first child already....not that having him was a bad thing...but we had no money and so we had to really try to pull things together with about 500 dollars....I was not the happiest bride because I had wanted the whole package every little girls dream....but what made it one of the most important days in my life is when my husband at the end of the ceremony looked at me and in front of all of our family and friends said that no matter if we had gotten married at a dump he was the luckiest man alive to have me for a wife...that is what made it the most wonderful thing..........and we are still very much in love now 15 years later...........
2006-09-27 08:23:11 · answer #1 · answered by busy_softball_mom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please don't tell me you let a stolen cake ruin your wedding day?!?! That is more funny than disastrous!
My wedding day was perfect...ok...not perfect...the florist used the WRONG color flowers...and ugly combo I might add!!! I cried for about 2 seconds and then got over it...Now it is something we laugh about.
I think the day was perfect because you have all of the people you love in once place to celebrate with you. And marrying the man of your dreams of course...that was pretty good too! We partied like crazy afterwards and had a great time. I wish I could relive that day!!
2006-09-27 08:28:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry to hear your day was bad too.... on my wedding day I was so excited I was marrying the most handsome man I ever saw & my dress was perfect then we got to the church.... My AUnt had turned the heat on by mistake ( it was October 9 & it was still warmish outside ) my cousin was picking my cake up for me ( I was running behind & didnt want to be late ) she took a curve to fast & the 2nd layer fell almost apart , my Dad fixed it ( great Dad ) the song was suppose to be played while our Moms & grandmothers were being ushered in & they played it when they had already been seated , my husband forgot my ring in his truck ( sent an usher out to retrieve it ) so after my make-up melting off , eating half ugly cake & wiping vulgar things off our car ( redneck friends gotta love them anyway ) we escaped without anyone being hit, pushed, or falling ... we have a great relationship & are about to celebrate our 7th anniversery & when we watch our wedding video I dont even notice the bad things because I see the man I love with all my heart marrying me & my grandmother passed away in 03 & she is on the video so I look at her & think what a good day it turned out to be.....
2006-09-27 08:30:17 · answer #3 · answered by AC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Our priest got transferred just a few days before our wedding and the new priest knew nothing about it. On the wedding day, he kept trying to change everything. The florist went across the street to where the nuns live and got the head of the order. She straightened that priest out in no time. You don't mess with 75 year old nuns. LOL
2006-09-27 08:27:18 · answer #4 · answered by cool_breeze_2444 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see: the candle in the church tipped over three times during the ceremony, burning the alter cloth.
My grandfather muttered loudly enough for the entire church to hear, "The whole damned church is going to burn down!"
The photographer's camera didn't wind the film so all photos had to be re-staged after the ceremony.
Nobody thought to decorate the car.
The top three layers of the cake mysteriously fell over while nobody was at the reception hall. The mess was cleaned up and all I ended up with was a partially smashed bottom layer with the broken topper sitting in the middle when we got there.
I stood in the front yard of my father's house and cried by myself later that night while my new husband was inside drinking because I knew I'd made a mistake: one that took me 11 1/2 years to correct through divorce.
But that's my story: I know others fare better than I!
2006-09-27 08:29:44 · answer #5 · answered by dragonwing 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-02 04:42:09 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was bizarrely wonderful! My bad thing was that my glasses broke the morning of the wedding, and there was nowhere to get them fixed at all. I went through the day fairly blind - could probably see clearly 10 ft. I was not amused, and I think people thought I was stuck up or something. --- but since I have had my son, I think that eclipses the wedding day. They are both awesome, since one got me my husband, and the other my son - so I guess they are truly equal.
2006-09-27 15:37:04 · answer #7 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a blast at my wedding, and I enjoyed being a bride. But it was definetely not THE happiest day. It will be one of many.
This wasn't "disasterous", but one of our guests asked if she could bring a date (she's 13) two days before the wedding. We said no. She brought him anway. We didn't have a place to sit him, or a meal for him. It was really awkward. But that was the worst that happened.
2006-09-27 08:31:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it was the happiest day of my life! We do build up big expectations. But, I was stressfree on my wedding day. The day before my wedding I was really stressed because my mother happened to cancel my hairdresser (who also happened to be my brother's wife) because she wasn't feeling well (her left eye had been bothereing her) but she didn't want us to cancel it. Anyways, I straghtened things out and I booked her again. But, the next day I wasn't going to let anything ruin my mood because I was getting married to a great guy whom my parents loved and I loved his parents!! The best thing about the wedding was seeing my dad's face he was so happy for me. My dad is an outgoing but very emotional man, he is the type of guy who cries when people get married on TV but he didn't cry because he knew that he wasn't losing his daughter he was gaining a son!! My dad was so excited that he took the microphone at the reception (unplanned) and just started to thank people for coming and told people to go back for seconds on the food. It was just a great day overall.
I am so blessed to have met such a wonderful man but not only that but that I have such great in-laws as well. My parents get along with his parents and it is one big happy family.
Our unity candle went out while we were standing up front but my husband just smiled and said well sometimes you jsut have to relight the flame. So, he took the lighter and lit it again. Nobody even knew it had happened except me and him!!! But, it was a true fact!!
2006-09-27 08:26:10 · answer #9 · answered by glitter3317 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are certain things that I wish I had done differently, such as, I wish I had remembered to bring the charger for the camcorder and also I wish had remembered to throw the toss bouquet to the female guests and finally, I was so busy that I did not have time to make my speech!!
Overall, it was the happiest day of my life and I could not stop smiling at my husband and thinking how lucky I really am!!! I love my husband so much...I truly married the man of my dreams!!!
2006-09-27 09:38:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋