i've been in love with my teacher
he is now 37
i am almost 20
actually i wouldnt say i am gay
but this man i really couldnt resist
and somehow we had relation
for over than 4 years since i was 15
ok i was way too young to know the right from the wrong
but i never stopped loving him
evetually we broke up
then he got married a couple of weeks ago
then he called me telling me if i want him back
and he loves me though he got married (from a woman)
i know he just want to have fun
but should i keep that
or do what my heart and mind tells me to do
and that is to be wise
and realise he will just use me
and i shouldnt see him again
even if its not for me
but for his wife that havent done anything
need ur help
2006-09-27 07:46:21 · 10 answers · asked by alexandre 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you already know what to do.
He used you when you were young and impressionable. Don't answer his calls. Find someone who will love you and remain faithful to you. He just got married and is willing to cheat on his wife just a couple of weeks after the wedding?
He isn't worth it. You deserve much better than that!
2006-09-27 07:50:33 · answer #1 · answered by agentm006 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok first of all you are gay you are in love with another man so that makes you gay, second that teacher is only taking advantage of you since you guys started you were way too young for him and he didnt care he just used you for his pleasure, now he got married because he doesnt want the whole world to know that he is gay and he still trying to get with you, so you be a man and stand up for yourself and dont let this jerk use you like that, love yourself and tell him to stay away from you. thats the best thing to do, you will find somebody else somebody better! good luck!
2006-09-27 07:52:26 · answer #2 · answered by its_me 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This man is trying to cover up the fact that he is gay, he wants the cake and to eat it. You know this,he has used you in the past, so he can't see any thing wrong with doing it again. Learn from you mistakes
2006-09-27 07:51:30 · answer #3 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ok... let me tell you how it is. This guy is sick. He is living a big lie to you and his wife... If you were 18 and did what ever gay people do..then fine... But this guy is sick and maybe made you gay. Get a girlfriend and move on. I.m sorry you were molested as a child. Good Luck
2006-09-27 07:56:52 · answer #4 · answered by skankhater 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do what ur heart and mind say this is a little weird and if he is married that makes it that much weirder there's other people for u even when it hurts i think u should let go... i had to
2006-09-27 07:53:48 · answer #5 · answered by sweet18apparatus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even from a straight perspective, adultry (cheating on one's spouse) is wrong and only pain can come of it.
He exploited you as a kid. He's a user. He's a predator.
Dump him. Report him. Now.
2006-09-27 07:50:01 · answer #6 · answered by YRofTexas 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
haha, ok first of all, you are gay, dont try to say that your not. second, he doesnt like you back because if he did he wouldn't go marry someone ... especially a woman no less. move on man
2006-09-27 07:49:01 · answer #7 · answered by AndrewT.LEYKIS101 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say follow your heart and your mind. Good Luck!!
2006-09-27 07:57:31 · answer #8 · answered by clbinmo 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave it alone.. Don't be his yo-yo. Let him be happy with his wife.
2006-09-27 07:58:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WTF
2006-09-27 07:48:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋