why is it bad thing that i am getting this abortion...i KNOW i cannot take care of this child properly, it would suffer a life of poverty and depression and i would be stressed and his dad would be too. why put a child through that torment?!? if i know i cant take care of it, im being responsible!!! id rather bring in my baby to a world of proper financial care and fruitful-ness! **** you all who are calling em a"murderer" if YOU got in MY exact situation, you';d consider otherwise. as far as adoption..WHO THE HELL ADOPTS now a days?!? HOW MANY CHILDREN are being tossed around because no one wants them!? why bring another lost soul into this ****** up world?!? tell me why this is such a 'bad choice" how am i being selfish when im SAVING a life from sufferage!?!!
2006-09-27 07:55:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't let the Bible humpers on here tell you what to do. If men could get pregnant, abortion rights would NOT be challenged. What you do with your body is between you and God. And God understands.
2006-09-27 08:00:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
Many people believe in different things about abortion. I myself however do not believe in abortion. I think that if i could not support my baby in anyway what so ever i believe i'd have to take the choice of adoption any day. If i do become pregnant i'd do my best to raise the child even though i wasn't ready to have one. There are so many women out there who can not have children. If you knew that you wouldn't be able to care for a child then you should of kept your legs closed and not have sex. When you have sex your just taking a chance to become pregnant. So think before you do. If you do go on with this abortion rather than having someone adopt it i hope you never have children again in your lifetime.
2006-09-27 15:15:48 · answer #2 · answered by BadAssGirlINWV 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Abortion stops a beating heart. That is so sad!! Do you know any couples personally who really want a baby and can't have one?You don't have to give the baby to an adoption agency. Maybe someone you know knows someone who really wants a baby and can't have one. If that person wants to adopt your baby all they have to do is get a lawyer and it can all be legalized (even after the baby is born). That person would also be responsible for all the legal fees. It would cost you nothing. This has happened to someone in my family twice. She made 2 different families very happy and the children are happy and healthy. I would rather give it that life than have an abortion on my conscience for the rest of my life.
2006-09-27 15:09:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a tough situation I went through with my x-wife. We were told by Doctors it was a threat to her and the child if she continued. If we had the choice we would've had the child even though we were already slammed. Every life deserves a chance to live. We have all had our chance and some went good and bad. All I know is you never stop thinking about it if you do it. More so for the woman since the child is growing inside of her. Don't get me wrong it messed me up but was even harder for my wife since we already had 3 children and know the joy they can bring you along with the pain. Shortly after this we both seperated and divorced.
2006-09-27 15:07:54 · answer #4 · answered by ronniep17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The deal is what is perceived by some as a waste of human life for a frivolous reason.
The fetus/child is defenseless and should not have to suffer for your careless sexual escapades. If you are unwilling to be a parent, then don't have the sex.
[Please understand that I am not railing against this person, but acting like an individual who would take this kind of posture]
(Psst! Sufferage is not a real word and suffrage refers to giving one's vote, approval or support)
2006-09-27 15:11:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you completely. There are way too many unwanted children in this world already. I understand that pregnancy can be avoided but sh*t happens sometimes. I do however find those women who get abortion after abortion after abortion a little f*cked up but its our right. Dont listen to anyone and totally ignore any picketers when you go to the clinic.
2006-09-27 15:09:45 · answer #6 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think that u are looking to forward, if it happened to me (im only 18) i would keep it if i only had pennies. i could not live with myself knowing i lost the chance to have my own child. and ur kid would not suffer if u show them love , money is not the issue it is that u dont want a child, u should have been more cautious i think that u are trying to make urself feel better by saying this but u have to know that it IS killing a life not saving. u should at least have the child and find someone who does have the love to support it.
2006-09-27 15:02:40 · answer #7 · answered by â?¥CURiOUSâ?¥ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're making the right decision.
Listen people, this whole "OMG YUR TOTALLY KILLING A HUMAN LIFE" is bullshit. Last time I checked, we were not an endangered species.
Did you ever think that maybe the baby being born doesn't WANT to be here? That he or she doesn't want to be in a world filled with suffering, disease, poverty, suicide bombers and nuclear bombs?
You're forcing someone into this world whether they like it or not. If you do force them here, you better have a stiff upper lip if they turn out to be a junkie, or they kill themselves.
Personally, if I were your fetus, I would thank you. Seriously.
2006-09-30 06:04:23 · answer #8 · answered by Wren 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
A baby being aborted suffers and is tormented more than you realize. You're the one that has to live with what was done, not me.
2006-09-27 15:06:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a best friend who will take the baby today!!!!! I am not against abortion but I personally know people who want children and can't have them
2006-09-27 15:06:52 · answer #10 · answered by michelle w 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have two children that were a result of their birth mothers being raped. They fit in well with the rest of our children and no one can tel which ones are which. They are both wonderful children and we can't imagine life without them. No matter what, abortion is murder of a defenseless child. God loves all children, including you.
2006-09-27 15:04:14 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋