Family & Relationships - 27 September 2006

i love somebody but i am not sure about himself

2006-09-27 07:16:51 · 7 answers · asked by neo e 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-27 07:16:28 · 19 answers · asked by jbaryzgrl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-27 07:14:44 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want an honest female opion on something:

My friend and I were talking about this, and I'm convinced men lie more about the little things, but women tend to plot and scheme to lie about really big things.

What do you think?

2006-09-27 07:14:06 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Sometimes I wonder if I was even the right type of guy to date a woman. I loved her with all of my heart, but I had anger issues, and she had irrational jealousy issues. I think I may have been somewhat Narcissistic. I don't know. But we were together for 4 years, I had to have been doing something right all of that time, or we wouldn't have been. I remained faithful to her, though she believes falsely otherwise. My anger was a problem, though, and that may have been the root cause of our seperation, and my self-esteem dwindled as I put in so much effort at work, but never got credit for it, and saw people put in less effort and get praised more. I am going through a breakup, and I think a mid-life crises at the same time. I really wish I could have my ex back, but she is very stubborn and bullheaded and doesn't want to take the blinders off, and see that I only have the two issues. I have been trying to work on my anger for many years, even before I met her.

2006-09-27 07:13:59 · 15 answers · asked by The Lonely Skywolf 3 in Singles & Dating

i was married for 2 1/2 years before my wife asked for a mutual separation. its been a year since we spoke. i am regretting my mistakes now and trying get her back but she seems to have made up her mind. During our marriage she always doubted me and complained to me that i am not interested in socializing with people and i dont respect her family. She is a very social person. we have had arguments which has led to me physically abusing her when i am unable to cope up with her complaints. i took her to a counsellor but it didn't help. She complained about me a lot to my co-workers who were her friends when we were married. it has caused lot of gossip in my office about me. i feel depressed - but also i love her. i know its time for me move but couldn't move on...is it normal to go through these emotions or am i making things worse.

2006-09-27 07:13:56 · 16 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My dad loves my boyfriend,and i don't have a problem with that.....but is it a good thing that he spends almost all of his spare time with my dad rather than with me. He knows he doesn't have to win my dad over anymore because my dad loves him,but I feel like my boyfriend is dating my dad rather than me.

2006-09-27 07:13:39 · 11 answers · asked by Amber R 4 in Singles & Dating

He is 18....
Girlfriend who hates me.......
Lives close to me........
Secretly calls me......

2006-09-27 07:13:39 · 13 answers · asked by Katie C 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-27 07:13:09 · 35 answers · asked by the black crab 2 in Singles & Dating

And it feels great. I used to put the women in my life first, and they'd walk all over me. Now that I follow my own ambitions and put a smile on my face first the women can't get enough.

Why should I ever put a woman first when all they do is walk on you when you do?

2006-09-27 07:12:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

finish the sentence................

2006-09-27 07:11:53 · 27 answers · asked by *JC* 3 in Singles & Dating

if your man asks u to do something sexually do it. look at all the stories in yahoo answers about cheating. first of all a man will only cheat to get something that he has asked for or begged for from the woman he is with. 2nd what is the harm in doing something that only takes a little while to keep him satisified and at home. 3rd try using this idae, tell him that ok i will give u ?????? but next time i want ?????. i know cuz i used to be a cheater and im fighting the urge right now cuz my g/f is doing this to me. i want something that she used to do and now refuses, i have tried the compromise thing and she does not seem to care, but keeps reminding me that if i love her i will keep my promise and not cheat, even though she promised that she was a hot, sexually active woman in the beginning

2006-09-27 07:11:49 · 15 answers · asked by keithy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

on that day.

2006-09-27 07:10:14 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was just wondering, what does everyone think is the biggest age gap you can have? We have all heard about the sick ones, which do you think is the most sensible? (I need help for a friend so I apprieciate answers. Thank you. x)

2006-09-27 07:10:08 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I finally hung out with this guy I have been crushing on that was checking me out at the gym I work at. He's super shy around me, but not any of the other girls I'm friends with which leads me to believe he likes me a lil bit. We were out for a friends birthday and ended up spending the entire evening together holding hands, kissing and talking, flirting etc...when we were in the middle of making out afterward, he finally confessed that he has been intimidated by me this whole time and I told him I felt the same way. We fell asleep at his place and woke up with his arms still around me and his hand in mine. We did not have sex or anything else, just kissed all night. So that aside, he came in the other day and I know that he's still interested in me but he hasn't called me yet though..He's NOT the player type AT ALL and I know he's not seeing anyone. It's been 5 days since we hung out and stuff.. We are both professionals during the week, but see each other at the gym. What's up???

2006-09-27 07:09:50 · 4 answers · asked by trickyandmysterious 1 in Singles & Dating

If you are familiar with my questions regarding my daughters mother, here is another. I was on lunch one day taking a stroll thru down town Chicago. And I see a Guy holding my daughter, and my daughters mother standing next to him and they are carring on like 1 big happy family. The reason I got upset wasnt because they were all together but the fact that everytime I try to get my daughter on the weekend, her mother comes up with every excuse in the book on why she cant bring her to me or I cant come get her. Then to see my 7 month old being held by another man was emotionally disturbing. I didnt result to violence, however I did cause a sceen on a busy street at lunch time. The police stopped me and let he keep going. Her boyfriend ran up the block like Maurice Green in fear. (I wasnt mad at him). for about 3 blks I ranted and raved until the cops showed up. They asked me to calm down but I was just to out of control for them, so the took me to jail. Am I wrong for being mad?

2006-09-27 07:09:49 · 10 answers · asked by Dr. Love 3 in Singles & Dating

Do you find yourself playing with it for hours without wanting to come? Do you feel guilty about wasting all that time. Do you feel as if you cannot get on with your day until you finish?

2006-09-27 07:06:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If so, should that be off putting for me, even though Im can hold my own in that department......???
Advice please...

2006-09-27 07:06:39 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Alot of people ask themselfs : how's life after marriage ?

2006-09-27 07:06:38 · 19 answers · asked by citizen high 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-27 07:06:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-27 07:05:53 · 12 answers · asked by Cookie 1 in Singles & Dating

i really want to date some one with the nfl not for money just because most of them are sooo sexy and they say there single well how can i meet one to date or if any one knows or is any single out here want to hit me up

2006-09-27 07:05:40 · 5 answers · asked by gabby l 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm tired of all the pretty people who cheat on me and lie to me, I will go beyond looks from now on.

2006-09-27 07:04:25 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is an awkward situation. I fancied her a long time ago but nothing happened and I moved on. But now she (in my opinion, but i could be being paranoid) seems to be talking and flirting with me more than my mate.

I've already betrayed my mate over a girl by going out wiv her wen i knew he fancied her. she dumped me and he went out with her which was awkward for us both. i don't want to repeat the event again. I don't know what to do I hope my opinion is wrong and she doesn't fancy me but just in case.

2006-09-27 07:03:40 · 8 answers · asked by Highlander 1 in Singles & Dating

Mine are pretty hairy. Should I shave am afraid if I shave my legs I'll look less manly though.

2006-09-27 07:03:32 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have this amazing boyfriend who is so sweet caring and everything. when we first met he explained that he wanted a classy sophisticated girl with smarts and personality. he is older and hasnt found someone prior to me due to grad school and beginning a new career. I can't help but feel like he is settling for me b/c the last of his single friends got married the night we met and now he is the only non married guy. I am a sweet caring girl but at the same time I am 21 and I like to party still with my girlfriends and I smoke when I go out. He hates the smoking but said just not to do it around him. I just feel like he is settling for me...I'm not a suzy homemaker. I want to be oneday, but I want to finish out my crazy partying college years first. Any advice? You might say talk to him....but what am i supposed to say..."are you settling for me?" thats a turn off i think.

2006-09-27 07:03:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

wait till your father gets home.

2006-09-27 07:02:35 · 13 answers · asked by thekid2064 2 in Family

I hear alot of girls call other girls a slut, I think it's just because they don't like them. I want a number, a figure that you think makes a girl a slut, for example 10 partners, 20 partners. And I know the number increases as you get older so you can't really compare a 20 yr who's had 10 partners to 40 yr old who had the same. So for this sake let's say 23yrs old, right after you've finished college, you've had the chance to meet alot of people. What number makes a girl a slut?

2006-09-27 07:01:16 · 27 answers · asked by joe 3 in Singles & Dating

i am a 13 year old boy and i am in love with one of my best friends. she knows i like her. how do i ask her out. it will be my first date so i need some help please

2006-09-27 07:01:10 · 5 answers · asked by basher88888888 1 in Friends

my daughter has been caught several times popping pills. this time she got caught doing it at school and now is exspelled and

2006-09-27 07:00:56 · 15 answers · asked by brandiwolfe30 1 in Family