Where have all the smart girls gone ? I hate it when girls play stupid and are in fact highly intellegent ! Those are the girls that gives the men the image that we are somewhat inferior to them. Why do they do that ?
2006-09-27 07:45:07 · 23 answers · asked by Elizabeth T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
GOOD QUESTION: I think some of teh smart ones play dumb bc people (esp dudes) will under estimate them. They then have control when others think they don't.
Evil but true.
2006-09-27 20:38:01 · answer #1 · answered by randompkp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are in fact, acting. They have learned that if they assert themselves, and show their strong independent self, this intimidates a lot of guys. If they act weak and stupid, the guys flock around. Men just to love to 'help out', or 'give advice', because you, as the weakling, will appreciate what they've done for you. Strong woman don't come across as needing this kind of help or advice. So they play the game. Young guys don't yet know how to feel comfortable with themselves without receiving these platitudes from their girlfriends.
2006-09-27 07:50:36 · answer #2 · answered by Arnold M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's like wearing a mask. Smart girls will play slightly stupid so that they can get the guy's interest. Sometimes I think they honestly don't even realize that they are doing it. However, they have experienced men being intimidated by intelligence and choose instead to hide theirs until its truely needed. It's like a secret weapon. You don't walk around brandishing your secret weapon to every person who passes you on the street.
When a bitter argument ensues, or the man (as men tend to do) wants to compete in a trivia game or a good round of Jeapordy, the intelligence will come out. You can't hide a secret weapon forever, but it's awfully fun to know that you harbor something that no one else around you knows about.
2006-09-27 07:50:20 · answer #3 · answered by A.R. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are guys who are intimated by smart successful women and it would make them feel let's say less then a man!
Being a secure individual I relish the opportunity to gaze beyond her chest and stimulate my mind since that is truly the largest sex organ!!!
But if you wanna play dumb blonde I'm game also but at least wear the costume of high heels and low rise jeans!!
2006-09-27 07:48:18 · answer #4 · answered by Paul M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because someone told them that men are intimidated by girls that are smarter then them. The truth is that a good man will match your own intelligence and be thankful he can do more with you besides talk about hair and nails so don't worry about these girls. Be yourself and you'll get a great man because of that.
2006-09-27 07:47:54 · answer #5 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
smart girls r overconfident in life. because of effect of mtv fashion movies western culture. they do this to gain temporary releif anme pass. these games r fun until some extent. it should not spoil boys real life. its more horrible r ready to expose perfumes sprays good dresses talking sexily watching into his eyes when nobody observing. touching allowing to sponsor movies in darkness. what for this any fun . this is negative subconscious provocation and titiliation which totally spoils their working mechanism. smart girls do really suffer alot internally even though side they does not look like that. purity is ultimately gives mental peace. according to saibaba who ever suffering get gods blessing. who tortures ohers dvps ego that one day pushes them into corner of the world where they cannot even express their sorrow cry which r comon feelings of any boddy.
2006-09-27 08:58:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isnt that what guys want, some hot, ditzy, bimbo...thats an easy lay? Could have foolded me. I see it all the time at bars....i just want to smack the guy. Oh well, i have a husband that loves me for me. I hate girls! Always have.
2006-09-27 07:49:49 · answer #7 · answered by Ember B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I'm with the man I love, that just comes out of me at times but I definitely am NOT inferior to him.
When you're in love, sometimes you just turn into putty.
2006-09-27 07:48:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LoL the first answer was funny . . . but I think some girls have the misconception that men like the helpless, damsel in distress . . . don't worry about it, girl . . keep being who you are . . hold your head up . . . somebody is watching you and appreciates the intelligent woman that you are!!
2006-09-27 07:48:15 · answer #9 · answered by ♥LoisLane♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they want to.
Maybe it's just to relax a bit. Maybe it's not easy dealing with the expectations of other less intelligent people.
Why not just accept people for who they are?
2006-09-27 07:57:38 · answer #10 · answered by A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋