Family & Relationships - 26 September 2006

i have a friend who i asked out a year ago. she said no. i think im stuck in the friend zone. what cani do around her to have her see me more as a lover rather than a friend?

2006-09-26 09:56:24 · 11 answers · asked by greg J 1 in Singles & Dating

I date this black guy and now my friends make throw up sounds when we kiss. They think it's so gross and tell me to stick to white ppl!! What should I do?

2006-09-26 09:56:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She always looks at me and I always look back she always looks then turns away then a couple of seconds later she looks agin.

2006-09-26 09:55:21 · 12 answers · asked by avenger13 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-26 09:55:04 · 7 answers · asked by msr.treysongz16 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We are planning on having a SMALL (immediate family) wedding. We need to know of GREAT places to get marriedpreferrably country/mountain/river/ outdoor wedding.
We would like for it to be relatively inexpensive. We live in Oklahoma and would like to travel somewhere close by...1 day drive max. Please send any ideas. thanks!

2006-09-26 09:54:57 · 14 answers · asked by johndeerechick 2 in Weddings

Do you like it more when a woman wears her heart on her sleeve and tells you how much she loves you all the time or when she's a little more mysterious and hard to get?

2006-09-26 09:54:29 · 15 answers · asked by ng 2 in Singles & Dating

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2006-09-26 09:54:08 · 11 answers · asked by jesus_freak_sm 2 in Singles & Dating

guys.. do you like going to 3rd with your girl? my guy does it to me but im always very self concious becuase its wet and clammy and gross down there and i dont see why a guy would WANT to put his fingers there...explain why you like/dislike it please?

2006-09-26 09:53:18 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is your opinion? Do you think that a relationship in which 2 people know very quickly after meeting that it's "right" have something that makes their relationship better than one in which it takes a while for the two people to realize they belong together?

2006-09-26 09:52:30 · 7 answers · asked by linafe7 2 in Singles & Dating

After high school, I went to college and studied Film. After I graduated I came back home and married the Best woman in the world. My Film jobs have been slim and slowy came to nothing. Now I'm working a Job that I'm good at, but it's a Job I could have gotten without a Degree and it does not pay as well as it should. I'd like to stay at where I work but not sure how often I'm going to get a raise. My Wife makes good money, but I don't know how long that will last. I make more than minimum wage, but I want to know if anyone has taken care of a Family with a minimum wage job? Every time I search for another job, I get stopped in my tracks because I all know is Film. What do you people think?

2006-09-26 09:52:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A woman who won’t financially support their child, isn’t interested in seeing them. Has only showed interest when they are in a relationship with the father. The kicker to this is that the woman I have run across like this arein their mid to late 30's. I mean is this a new trend I mean its common now days. I see it all the time.

2006-09-26 09:52:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-09-26 09:52:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

He'll ask how far I went with my man, etc. I tell him it is none of his business. So, he thinks there must be a lot happening. Anyway, he is telling me big stories about his sex life. I don't know if he is telling the truth or if he is just trying to make his life more interesting that mine. He never talked about these things until I started dating this guy. What do you think?

2006-09-26 09:51:23 · 10 answers · asked by just me 2 in Singles & Dating

i've been with my BF for 2yrs now and i do love him, he is like my best friend. he has cheated on me in the past tho and there are a lot of things i cant stand about him but we are doing ok right now at the moment.....on the other hand there is this guy, who i worked with like a year ago and had major feelings for but never acted on, lost touch with him but always thought about how much happier i would probably be with him because he is the most amasing guy i've ever met, i just ran into him again the other day after a year and he says he still really like me....now i can't stop thinking about him! i really really like him a lot but i do love my BF eventho he is not very good to me.......what should i do? please help this is driving me crazy!

2006-09-26 09:51:13 · 14 answers · asked by jnnybartos 2 in Singles & Dating

If a woman says to a single guy that her fiance is away and not back till December, and that she lives alone in her aunties house and that she's free in evenings and that it's boring for her, and that she hasn't made any friends yet cuz she's new in town, could she be possibly be asking, or looking to spend some time with that guy? I mean like could she be looking for some action with that guy?

And the experienced guys out there how do I go about asking her out or something in order for "that thing" to happen??? I really think she's trying to tell me that she wants something...

What you think UK ladies?? I'm in UK

2006-09-26 09:50:57 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is genuine question.........i would appreciatte no dickish answers thanks.

2006-09-26 09:50:57 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What do girls do when they firt? I mean they don't make clear to a guy they like them, we can't tell.

2006-09-26 09:50:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it because thay have much smaller brains than men and are not as intellegent?

2006-09-26 09:50:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm always at his place or he's at mine. It would benefit us both financially. The main potential hurdle is that he likes his private time away from me (I have no problem with this). He would be free to do the hiking, camping, galavanting just like he always has, lol. He also likes things to be his idea and his way. Any ideas for tactful, subtle ways to start dropping hints? No lectures about the sanctity of marriage and burning in hell due to sex out of wedlock, too late for both of us. Be honest with me but if you are just gonna be smart a.s.s. and mean, keep it to yourself, pretty please.

2006-09-26 09:50:19 · 5 answers · asked by smecky809042003 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Help! My mom was abusive and I don't want my little sister to go thru what I did. But you can't report something that happened years ago right? And.. would it do any good anyway? I also should add that I haven't seen or spoken to my family in years because of the abuse and she denys it and I am afraid would still treat me horribly. thanks!

2006-09-26 09:50:07 · 13 answers · asked by tina*21 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I think this is gross and can't do it. I tried and it just made me sick. He says that I am very selfish for not wanting to please him and that we should divorce. I just don't think of him in the same way anymore. Almost so grossed out that I can't have normal sex with him now. WHAT SHOULD I DO? I have 2 kids and I am so confused. I got married to stay married I hate for my marriage to end over somthing so dumb.

2006-09-26 09:49:34 · 41 answers · asked by sweetjennmill 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Its been 3 months, I still have feelings for my ex-fiance, but I'm lonely. I would love to find new friends, because I'm kinda new to the area, don't like the clubs cause I want to meet real people not someone pretending to be somone else. I'm in my 30's and seems like Salt Lake City is just not worrking out for me. I can't leave beacause I have 2 adopted children here. ?? Help??

2006-09-26 09:49:26 · 16 answers · asked by James M 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 2 yrs.My husband is very controlling.He doesn't want me to go anywhere with out him.It makes me so mad. He is pushing me away. What do I do?

2006-09-26 09:48:52 · 13 answers · asked by moomoodr 1 in Family

2006-09-26 09:48:21 · 11 answers · asked by Miguel G 1 in Singles & Dating

he verbal abuse me. please help me

2006-09-26 09:48:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

they have been dating for over a year now and i saw her, and its definatley her.. should i say something to him, and what?

2006-09-26 09:47:54 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-09-26 09:47:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know there are rhymes and such that you can use to make it fun and easy to understand for the child. He wants to do everything all by himself and I can't put this in words or actions that he can comprehend.

2006-09-26 09:46:36 · 15 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family

that he does'nt want to get married for a long time. Even though you have been together for two years. I have two children and i want to settledown sometime before i turn thirty and when my boyfriend said this it made me feel like hes either afraid of commitment or hes just not in to the whole marriage thing. I mean yeah i think it could wait but i dont wanna wait for ever on a stubborn ***. I wanna have someone that wants to pop me the question instead of staying in the whole (boyfriend/girlfriend) land kinda thing. what do you guys think am i right or am i being to overeacting in a way?

2006-09-26 09:46:18 · 27 answers · asked by kim_banning84 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Need to know a/s/a/p!

2006-09-26 09:46:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family