If a woman says to a single guy that her fiance is away and not back till December, and that she lives alone in her aunties house and that she's free in evenings and that it's boring for her, and that she hasn't made any friends yet cuz she's new in town, could she be possibly be asking, or looking to spend some time with that guy? I mean like could she be looking for some action with that guy?
And the experienced guys out there how do I go about asking her out or something in order for "that thing" to happen??? I really think she's trying to tell me that she wants something...
What you think UK ladies?? I'm in UK
2006-09-26 09:50:57 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry not fiance meant to say bf? what does it matter anyway she has a boyfriend!
2006-09-26 09:58:44 · update #1
Do you like her ? well if you do just ask her out to see a film or for a meal or drink, she can only say yes or no, after all her boy friend is away a long time and they have not made commitments to each other. By November you and her could be a couple and her boyfriend the ex. However take care, if she did this to him how secure would you feel ? !!!!!
2006-09-26 10:08:37 · answer #1 · answered by Dolly Blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she likes you enough to want to be friends. She sounds lonely. I wouldn't read any more into it. If you are attracted to her, ask yourself whether you want a fling that could end up in heartache for the both of you. Maybe you could go have a real good time without the action!
Maybe she is looking for a way out of the relationship with her boyfriend. There are alot of maybes and the only way to find out is to ask questions- she might just need a friend.
If she really wants you ,I'm sure you'll get the signals but take your time. But if "that thing" is all you want, be careful, you may get more than you bargained for!
2006-09-26 17:16:06 · answer #2 · answered by toni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not in the UK but is she is involved wih someone else you should leave her alone because if she isnt happy she should get rid of the other guy first before getting invovled with someone else even if it is only a fling . A situation like that can only lead to heartache and headache for anyone invovled
2006-09-26 16:56:48 · answer #3 · answered by Tears30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make too many assumptions. The lady could simply be saying what she's saying here and means no more. Don't try to read too many meanings into her words. She'll probably be more explicit if she wants some "action". Also, if she is easy, then she probably gets what she wants easily and needs not hint.
2006-09-26 16:55:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to be very careful, she has told you that she has a fiancee so the only thing you could get out of this is heartbreak. Offer to introduce her to people, give her a brochure, tell her to get involved in activities where she would meet people. Dont fall for her because she is in a sense already promised to someone else.
2006-09-26 16:56:31 · answer #5 · answered by confusedpatricia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think maybe u r just so interested on SEX that, it's all u think about and u missunderstood what she was telling u. And even if she was looking for sex, do u want to be the person who a woman cheats on her fiance???????
I hope u r better than that.
2006-09-26 16:55:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She Definitely wants company but weather its in the sack or just as a friend only you can find out. Go round with some cookies and see if they get eaten, if not put them in the biscuit tin and break out the condoms......GOOD LUCK
2006-09-26 17:13:06 · answer #7 · answered by fluffy bunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would see what she wants first, women are very hard to read sometimes!i would say if it is sex than i would not go there, would you want your fiance or gf to cheat on you like that? there is nothing wrong with a mutual friendship with the oppisite sex, some guys dont understand that when especially they are her boyfriend. meaning her boyfriend may not understand that. if she cheats on her bf or fiance, than she will cheat on you
2006-09-26 17:05:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my goodness
SHE HAS A FIANCE!
whether she wants you or not I hope you can summon your will power to walk away.
And if she does want you and you do get some "action" and you fall for her, where does that leave you? what if she goes back to her fiance? she'll just have used you.
she's clearly a whore, don't go wasting your time on someone who's already taken.
2006-09-26 16:55:08 · answer #9 · answered by don't stop the music ♪ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
look y do all guys assume thats what woman want all the time, maybe she's just looking for some company, some one to show her around seeing as she is new in town....im from the uk + thats all id be asking for if it was me....dont push your luck!!!
2006-09-27 06:36:03 · answer #10 · answered by lil niks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋