guys.. do you like going to 3rd with your girl? my guy does it to me but im always very self concious becuase its wet and clammy and gross down there and i dont see why a guy would WANT to put his fingers there...explain why you like/dislike it please?
2006-09-26 09:53:18 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WHY do you love it when its gross?
2006-09-26 09:56:24 · update #1
ps OUCH ... i am 18
2006-09-26 09:59:43 · update #2
I love it, I love it, I love it... need I say more? What you are experienceing is normal and expected. We know what's going on and we love it.
2006-09-26 09:54:59 · answer #1 · answered by tbayxxxv 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Haha. This Is A Very Interesting Question. Though At The Time Being Ur Feeling All Weird .. Just Close Ur Eyes, Let Loose, And In No Time/Future, U'll Realize How Good It Feels. If Not, Then At Least U'll Know How It Felt To Be Finger'Banged. Just Let Ur Significant Other Know What YOU Want.
2006-09-26 09:57:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your checklist isn't outrageous nevertheless i'm effective for some human beings it could be unreasonable. I unquestionably have a BA yet i think of fellows that did no longer hassle with college might think of your standards are too severe. while it comes all the way down to it if a guy is particularly clever and can help grant a residing for his family participants it would be sturdy sufficient. i'm with you on #8. Who desires to marry somebody that is heavily in debt? that is an indication that they don't be attentive to a thank you to administration their funds meaning anticipate extra of the comparable in a dating. the only element i might have a controversy with is #4. That pronounced i will count extensive type the form of girls individuals i've got had intercourse with on one hand. For me as long with the aid of fact the dating is committed and monogamous i'm pleased with intercourse. the girl might could be something particular for me to look ahead to a 12 months or longer. meaning that she become spouse cloth, no longer in easy terms some woman i'm relationship. i do no longer in all probability have faith in purely having intercourse after marriage considering that could be a terrible time to make certain which you're actually not sexually like minded. intercourse is a huge component to a dating and if there is something dysfunctional there that could be a severe situation that ought to be resolved or worked out in the previous the dating is on the marriage point. purely my opinion.
2016-10-18 00:47:25 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys probably think this is something that you will find enjoyable, if you don't then let your partner know this by directing his hands somewhere else. There are other ways of being sexual and romantic without going to 3rd at all. The sheer excitement of being with eachother will often times be accomplished by kissing alone.
3rd base is the fore-runner to having sex- but who says you have to stop on every base and can't go for the homerun? I take it you have not done this yet. Learn the art of light touching, kissing, eye contact- you will have to teach your man how to respond to your needs as he will teach you to respond to his.
Best advise I can give is this: when you are with your partner, try not to think of the anatomy of it all and go with the sheer sensation- you will enjoy yourself more and obsess less on something that you might both learn how to enjoy more fully with some communication and some playful romance.
Enjoy!
2006-09-26 10:01:49 · answer #4 · answered by RHJ Cortez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, we like it, but only because it's one base closer to a home run. If your not willing to go all the way you'd be better to shut him down at second. If you don't mind him rounding the bases then feel lucky he's willing to take the time to get you warmed up because after a'wile he'll want you to get that going on your own.
That's just kinda the salad before the steak. If a guy had the option he'd skip right over it.
2006-09-26 09:59:18 · answer #5 · answered by Chad W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has a guy ever said don't give me oral sex or masterbate me because you might think its gross? Don't they even ask us to swallow? they will even push our heads/hands down there! This idea of your vagina being gross and clammy is in your head. Get comfortable with your body. It is only you that will miss out on the enjoyment it can cause. relax. He wouldn't go down there if he didn't want to. Also like you want him to enjoy being with you sexually he wants you to enjoy him.
Considering you call it 3rd base you probably shouldn't even be doing it until you can say vagina, penis, oral sex and masterbation outloud with your partner and you can openly discuss your sexual needs desires and safety without embarrassment. When a guy sticks his fingers in you he is trying to give you an orgasm and to make you feel good. Only you think that it is gross because its something you can't even do to yourself yet. Guys want to look at it, touch it, suck on it etc all day long. They can't think about it enough.
Wash it with soapy warm every day and you are fine. make sure to wash in and around your labia. Dont douche. Douching flushes out natural good bacteria that your body needs to keep it fresh.
Make sure anyone you are intimate with you could have a baby with or deal with pregnancy with and or STD's. Be sure you can talk about condoms and safe sex. If you can't and you aren't in love equally with each other then you aren't ready.
Get confident and love your body. This isn't about what men or women think its about it is about what you think of your body. Love yourself and your body.
2006-09-26 10:17:29 · answer #6 · answered by donyafs 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
We like it because it's the main sexual part of a woman's body and it makes us excited. Sex IS wet and messy and 'gross' and if you don't enjoy that, you shouldn't be going to 3rd base (or farther) at this point. Perhaps when you're 15?
2006-09-26 09:56:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dont know why they like to do that i guess the same way girls give guys blow jobs and handjobs it makes the guy feel good when we do these things so i guess they think it feels good to us.
2006-09-26 09:55:50 · answer #8 · answered by Britney B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the girl I suppose. Generally yes, I enjoy it and I let my partner know how much I enjoy it. Since she knows I like so much... it doesn't seem to be a problem for her anymore. If your guy enjoys it.... why let it bother you? Just relax and enjoy!
2006-09-26 09:56:12 · answer #9 · answered by spedtrap 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it causes my partner pleasure then Im fine with it. As long as your enjoying urself and hes quite happy dont worry about it and have fun
2006-09-26 09:56:26 · answer #10 · answered by Chris C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to stop thinking about how gross it must be to him. I let myself enjoy it! While it's not my favorite, it's nice to know that he tries. Through the years I've taught him some better techniques. :-)
2006-09-26 09:55:02 · answer #11 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋