Family & Relationships - 26 September 2006

this situation is going on right now to close friends of mine. a 22 year old daughter of my friends had been (is) involved in an interacial relationhip, however this is not the problem. they had went as far as to allow the young man to move in with their daughter in their home when he lost his apartment. the young man stated that he wanted to prove himself to parents, and grandmother. however he could not keep a job, and would spend $300- $400 dollar paycheck on alcohol and crack cocaine in a days time on the weekend, and did nothing to help the household. when this became totaly intolerable and the young man was removed by sheriff. daughter stated it was over and things seemed fine for several weeks.then 4 days ago the daughter vanished without a trace, police reports were done. the daughter after 3 days called the police telling them not to look for her. that she did not want to see or talk to her parents as they were trying to ruin and run her life for her.when in fact the parents

2006-09-26 09:46:07 · 11 answers · asked by grim_reaper_69 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-26 09:45:59 · 8 answers · asked by Julia 2 in Family

She's always looking at me and I look back.

2006-09-26 09:45:43 · 15 answers · asked by avenger13 1 in Singles & Dating

Today I caught my 8 year old Son smoking 1 of my cigarettes. I am worried that the brand I smoke is too harsh for him. Can anyone reccomend a brand that is more healthy for minors?

2006-09-26 09:45:39 · 20 answers · asked by Steve l 1 in Family

2006-09-26 09:45:37 · 28 answers · asked by JusticeManEsq 5 in Singles & Dating

I know she likes me because she always flirts with me a bit, and sometimes I catch her staring at me. A few times we will go do little things together. What shoud i do.

2006-09-26 09:44:23 · 25 answers · asked by lucasban 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have lived together for 17 months now, I have a 15 yr old son in Freshman Football at his school. Tonight they are having a spagetti dinner fund raiser. Of course I planned for us to go. I just picked my b/f up from work and he got into the car and said "well we won't be having any fun tonight" and I said "why, you don't want to go to the dinner?" and he said "yeah it sucks"....I am PISSED OFF!! Aren't we supposed to be a family....he's known for a week and a half about going to this....am I wrong to think that he should be positive and supportive of me and my son and go and actually act like a family?? He talks about marrying me ect....well....doesn't that mean being willing to do these kinds of things...I don't mind he doesn't really like to go but atleast be positive about it and try to have fun. Am I wrong?

2006-09-26 09:44:16 · 7 answers · asked by Shae 3 in Family

me and my girl got into one to many fights/arguments. the same thing happens every time. she gets mad over somthing really stupid and ruins a great time. then i try to fix it just so that we will have fun the rest of the day. after trying for a few hours i then get pissed ( excuse the language but i dont know another way to truly express that emotion. really really really mad just dont fit) because its stupid to ruin a good time and be mad over really stupid stuff (example is that i saw my friends tatoo that is on her uper back, right below her neck). when i get this way i dont hold any feelings or thoughts back. i say what comes to mind and yes i know that this is a very bad thing. she says she is tired of it happining all the time. she hasnt kissed me or let me hold her or anything for 3 days. i aint ever seen it this bad. what could i do to fix this. sorry and promising to never do it again will not work. i tried. i wrote her a list of things i love about her and wrote her a poem.

2006-09-26 09:44:15 · 6 answers · asked by music man 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-26 09:43:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

that he doesnt sign in because he doesnt have an account which I know its bull. I has a tendency to cheat on me and I just want to cut his balls off. Can someone help me with an answer?

2006-09-26 09:43:20 · 19 answers · asked by hopeless flesh 1 in Singles & Dating

Nick (Nickson) was a friend of mine when I lived in San Francisco about a year ago, but I've lost touch with him since moving and really want to talk to him. He has red hair and turned 22 in August. Also, he was really into the MC-scene. If anyone knows where he might be now or how I could reach him that would be awesome. Thanks!

2006-09-26 09:41:12 · 1 answers · asked by Girl Face 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Earlier on tonight I told my 6 year old he had to get off the computer and go to bed. His excuse was that he had been forced to drink milk at school which had made his arms hurt and moving the mouse on the pc made them feel better!! Haha - nice try! What's the best excuse your kid has come out with for staying up late etc..?

2006-09-26 09:39:57 · 12 answers · asked by doodlenatty 4 in Family

I was thinking of getting my forbidden area waxed for the first time... Should I or Should I not??? But who needs hair down there..lol...

2006-09-26 09:39:56 · 25 answers · asked by Whitney 2 in Singles & Dating

Maybe I'm all screwed up, but if I had to choose my kids or my man...I'd choose my Kids. My sister would take any man over her kids anyday, (abusive Husband bouncer) And my brother thinks his wife should put him on a pedistal above all else, (except God)...I see women all the time, chase men, and give up their kids for a man, or deal with child abuse for a man. WHAT IS UP WITH THAT? Am I a freak for thinking my kids are the most important thing in my life? I'd die for them, I'd leave (or KILL) a man in a heartbeat that abused them...

2006-09-26 09:39:05 · 32 answers · asked by mslorikoch 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

if you were forced to cheat on your husband, do you think if the guy was hot and had a bigger penis than him that you might enjoy it?

2006-09-26 09:38:54 · 12 answers · asked by Eddie J 1 in Singles & Dating

I work with this really hot guy that is always telling me about his sexcapades. all it does it turn me on at work and make it hard for me to concentrate. i think hes into me but I'm unsure how to make "things happen." i tried suggesting a "nooner" in the bathroom -and he seemed into it, but hasn't taken me up on it yet. Any suggestions for how I can get this rolling? I just want to have a sex thing - no relationship necessary.

2006-09-26 09:38:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-26 09:38:11 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if you would NEVER get back with your ex and you told them that, would you do the following -
go out with them now and again and have a laugh shopping and stuff.
sit and talk to them for anywere from 30 mins to 2 hrs.
confide your problems in them.
phone them when someone has annoyed you.
when they deleted your number so they couldnt call you, you call them so they have it again.
respond to flirtatious comments which are obvious.


please just answer yes or no and maybes your views on why a women would do this?
we have 3 kids, things were bad but this has been going on now 7 months and even though i want to be friends the above just confuse me. i also get the feeling she still likes me but she denys that to but laughs at things like - you love the attention in a joking manner.
please help i want to walk away but cant when its like this.
if she ignored me or said just 1 word answers i would get the hint but come on this is ridiculous.
is she waiting or....

2006-09-26 09:37:52 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My mother-in-law is not the greatest mother. (see my other questions)

My wife (23 years old) cut her mother off for 6 months and spent that time in counseling. She did this when her mother found out we wanted to have a baby and said mean things to my wife.

The therapist said her mother was abusive and my wife was shocked to think she had been abused.

My mother-in-law has said the following:

Called my wife a *****, ungrateful, a snob, a miss-know-it-all *****.

She said my wife didn't deserve to have a mother who gave her so much.

She said my wife is spoiled and maybe she should have been beat up everyday and then she would appreciate her homelife.

She has told my wife that she is mentally ill and needs to be on medication daily.

She told my wife that she is a crap daughter.

She said she will be a bad mother and her children will be messed up.

She told her she regrets doing all the things she did for her.

Is this verbal abuse????

2006-09-26 09:37:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Especially in Asia the man has to live with his wife and his parents and there is always a fight between the mother and the wife.
Would you support your mother who with you all your years or your wife who is going to be with you for the rest of your life?

2006-09-26 09:37:13 · 6 answers · asked by Mr Business 3 in Family

my BF and I are going to eventually get married but are trying to think of ideas, that are not jewelry or tattoos, that privately we would both know would signify our commitment to one another right now. Whether it be an act or a material item I appreciate any response.

2006-09-26 09:36:46 · 7 answers · asked by blu_eyed_blonde1972 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Every realtionship i have been in the guy has always cheated on me and broke up with me after 2 years of dating me. Now i am in this realtionship with a guy for about a little over a year and because of my past i can't i can't trust any guy now. everytime he goes out with friends i get pissed because i dnt no what he is doing. i dnt no how to get over it and trust people again. I feel like I have a big wall up and i am afriad to let it down. Please can some one help me in changing my ways....

2006-09-26 09:36:43 · 9 answers · asked by Lucky Italian 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-26 09:36:03 · 20 answers · asked by Meg Kenny 2 in Singles & Dating

i have been going out witth this girl for a lil over a month and we are rely in love with each and we've been hittin around with the idea like she brought up how to put on codoms and sucks her pen in class as if she was givein it a ******** while looking at me sooo waht is a good age to start haveing sex

2006-09-26 09:35:51 · 21 answers · asked by monkeybutt3511 1 in Singles & Dating

im not scared but she sits all the way across the room and it would be really random if i walked over there to talk....
any ideas?

2006-09-26 09:34:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ever since I broke up with my boyfriend, his relatives (who are close to us), have been rubbing it in bcoz he is still upset about it. What should I do?

2006-09-26 09:34:24 · 10 answers · asked by daydream♥believer 4 in Singles & Dating

A friend of mine in America had an affair with another man a few years back and he has recently resurfaced demanding that she have sex with him otherwise he will tell her husband about them.

Her husband has a volatile nature, they have a young child together and my friend doesn't want to break up the family by telling him the truth.

She doesn't want the other man hurt (my first piece of advice!) and just wants rid of him without her husband finding out.

Any advice on who she could contact or go to for discreet help? Nothing illegal please.

2006-09-26 09:34:16 · 15 answers · asked by reaper8436247 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Mom says interracial couples are a crime against nature and she's making my life hell.Have you ever heard of such bullshit? **** her and her racist jokes and curses.Just because I'm under age .it doesn't mean that she has the right to stand between me and the love of my life

2006-09-26 09:33:57 · 35 answers · asked by Jazz 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

and what would you have done differently, knowing what you know now.

2006-09-26 09:32:21 · 14 answers · asked by Geronimo5 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-26 09:31:59 · 14 answers · asked by Deidra S 1 in Singles & Dating