me and my girl got into one to many fights/arguments. the same thing happens every time. she gets mad over somthing really stupid and ruins a great time. then i try to fix it just so that we will have fun the rest of the day. after trying for a few hours i then get pissed ( excuse the language but i dont know another way to truly express that emotion. really really really mad just dont fit) because its stupid to ruin a good time and be mad over really stupid stuff (example is that i saw my friends tatoo that is on her uper back, right below her neck). when i get this way i dont hold any feelings or thoughts back. i say what comes to mind and yes i know that this is a very bad thing. she says she is tired of it happining all the time. she hasnt kissed me or let me hold her or anything for 3 days. i aint ever seen it this bad. what could i do to fix this. sorry and promising to never do it again will not work. i tried. i wrote her a list of things i love about her and wrote her a poem.
2006-09-26 09:44:15 · 6 answers · asked by music man 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i gave her the list and the poem already. she dont want to see me if it requires any effert on her part. im also making her a "i'm sorry" cd.
2006-09-26 09:45:29 · update #1
Dude - stop being a p-u-s-s-y
Dump her and move on to the next vagina
2006-09-26 09:45:38 · answer #1 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
dont know what u should do know (a rose with ur poem or something really romantic will do the trick!!) but next time she is starting to pick a fight, started talking about something else or just go and leave for 10 min or so... my friend always does that and it works(most of the time:)) good luck, hope it works out for u!!
2006-09-26 16:50:34 · answer #2 · answered by Simone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont just do things to try to make it better, when it is not your fault. The more you do that, the less respect she will have for you. Of course if you do something wrong apologize, but if you did not then if she is not willing to talk to you about it, just walk away. Act like you do not care and after a while, when she is ready she will want to talk to you about it. (IF she really cares she would). Stand up for yourself and tell her exactly how you are feeling, but dont always try to fix things that you cant fix alone.
2006-09-26 16:49:33 · answer #3 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buddy, you need to walk away. Let her decide what it is she wants all by her lonesome. Leave and let her figure out if she likes you or not. All that stuff you are doing just makes you seem like a p*ssy-whipped whiney boy. Sorry but its true.
2006-09-26 16:52:06 · answer #4 · answered by hbennett76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i use to do that to my boyfriend too thats why hes my ex boyfreind now! but i had to figure out that its not all abotu me if everytime yall go out she ruins it then she thinksthis relationship is about her dont make no im sorry cd just let things ride because eventually like me she will miss you and recognize how good you are to her and that seh wont find no one like you
2006-09-26 16:47:38 · answer #5 · answered by BabyDoll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun, it seems to me that she aint all there for you. Have you considered leaving her? Maybe if its meant to be she will react- snap out of it or sumthing...
good luck
2006-09-26 16:52:20 · answer #6 · answered by [J3nn] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋