Family & Relationships - 26 September 2006

2006-09-26 09:31:30 · 21 answers · asked by javier a 1 in Friends

My b/f lives 300 miles away. He works @ 3 am and gets off at differant times. But when i get off work he says he is sleeping and doesn't reply to my text messages. But he also hasn't been calling me back at night either. He will like twice a week. I really like him and I understand he is working really weird hours that are very differant then mine, but it is hard enough not getting to see each other but once or twice a month, but not talking too. I have just been getting really stressed out over it. He can get on the computer and check his myspace but can't call me.. Do you think it is time to say goodbye or am I jsut freaking out over nothing.. I would really like to try to work on things before breaking up.. any advice.. Plus i have a really hard time confronting problems cuase i have been talked down to in all my other relationships. please give me some advice.

2006-09-26 09:31:25 · 12 answers · asked by margiesue_84 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-26 09:31:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been going through a divorce for over 4 months now. I started having second thoughts about it (I wanted to reconcile) after the first 2 months. I tried to bring up the subject twice about 2 months ago, and her response was "I don't know". I tried to bring it up again last month (twice) and I was met with the same response. Now, she is telling me that she is leaning toward reconciling. I am wondering...why now? I gave her 4 opportunities to talk about it and I was blown off. I think she is having second thoughts out of pure fear, and I honestly don't think there is anything left of our marriage. What would you do in my position? I honestly believe that I am in a better position as far as the divorce is concerned, so that is why I think she is just fearing the unknown. She has done nothing for 4 months (and I mean NOTHING) and everything has been my responsibility. I will await your thoughts and take them to heart.

2006-09-26 09:30:58 · 24 answers · asked by Jim S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My little girl is not even 2 yet & she loves animals however, she's a bit rough on our kitten that we just got about a month ago for her. I guess we didn't really consider that she might be too young for a pet. We already had a yellow lab that is great with her. This kitten however, is a little more delicate & I worry sometimes that she might seriously hurt it. I think that she just dousn't realize that the cat is breakable and she just wants to love it like a doll or her teddy bear. She hugs it hard as if it is one of her many toys. Any ideas to get her to be able to understand that the kitten can't be hugged & laid on ? When the kitten meows for help she just thinks that it's funny. She really likes it & it is a really nice cat so I don't want to have to give it away. any suggestions?

2006-09-26 09:30:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We are going on our annual camping trip with my college friends. It is me and my girlfriend and 7 of my guy friends (two of them are bringing thier girlfriends: so total of 8 guys and 3 girls). This year they booked the trip to a nude beach. My girlfriend and I have never been to a nude beach before. I am fine with it but I have yet to ask her. Before I bring up the subject to her I want to see of any of you ladies would go.

So would you go to a nude beach where you would be one of 3 girls with 8 guys? All the guys will be getting nude for sure but the girls may or may not and my girlfriend does't have to. But she will see all of them nude whether or not she joins in. Would you go?

And how would you feel about see his friends naked?

2006-09-26 09:30:18 · 16 answers · asked by calidzyner 1 in Friends

Sister met up with old boyfriend she had when she was 18. She is 51 now. she is finacially broke, he lives in another state. they have been talking, he is moving back here. and he told her that he is going to pay for everything for her, that she doesn't need to work. he will buy her a ranch with horses, pay off her mortgage, etc etc..as long as he can stay at her house on his days off work. he is going to drive a tractor trailer 10 days on 4 days off. she has 3 kids 18, 16, and 15. is this situation good for them? they are all boys. Do you think it sounds like her will really come through with buying horses, ranch, car, and so much more. Should I try to talk to her about it or just stay out of it.

2006-09-26 09:30:06 · 8 answers · asked by zoe 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i just got my best friend a diamond necklace and bracelet for her 25th b-day do you think that its too much? the cost by the way was $1,695

2006-09-26 09:30:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i mean who is getting hurt here ??

2006-09-26 09:29:53 · 50 answers · asked by ozzysheeplover 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I found these dresses that I really want my bridesmaids to wear in my wedding, but they are like $350.00 each. And that is not including the shoes, and paying to have their hair done. Do you think this is too much. What if I pay $100 for each dress, then they would only have to pay like $250 or is that still too much. I really really really like these dresses. More than anything else that I have seen. And I really dont want to have to settle for something else.

2006-09-26 09:29:43 · 38 answers · asked by Lara 2 in Weddings

2006-09-26 09:29:24 · 30 answers · asked by the truth 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

When I was about 14, an intimacy grew with a university student. She took the lead. Her behavior with me seemed to be having a kind of s-x. After it went too far, my mother managed our parting. Now she is married and I’m enough grown up. She works in a bank and stays whit her hubby at a very nearby place but the moment I meet them, her behavior shows she feels sort of uncomfortable with me. How could I let her know it was nothing to be embarrassed today? I really want to mean it.

2006-09-26 09:29:17 · 3 answers · asked by BeEasy 1 in Friends

she makes fun that i like tall "men" and it really annoys me but she does not stop if i ask her to. i dont mind them being tall despite if we stand next to each other i litteraly look up to them. i like them as friends because of their personality and i dont like them in the way that i would want to be their boyfriend. what can i do to make my mom stop?

2006-09-26 09:29:07 · 8 answers · asked by Jewish Girl891 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Baaaaahh.....

2006-09-26 09:28:52 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't know if I love him any more...it had been 5 months since I had sex...I wanted to see if there was any old majic left....I think I can move on...it was real good but without love a little empty.....

2006-09-26 09:27:33 · 29 answers · asked by Lovely B 3 in Singles & Dating

We have a few details like cake, flowers, etc... and he does not "have the energy" or all I ever talk about is the wedding... But i need to! he never wanted to talk about it before- and now we are down to two weeks! he put it off- and now we have to make decisions and he still wont talk about it, he wants to just be married- he does not give a damn about a ceremony...
kinda a hippy (lately)
anyway, should I just do it myself? should I even try to include him anymore?

2006-09-26 09:26:48 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

like maggi she think that i'm some little boy just playing around on the computer but little do she know i'm really 22 and been engage once so i know alot about love and womens

2006-09-26 09:26:40 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-26 09:26:26 · 9 answers · asked by sandhya 1 in Friends

Does this sound kosher to you?
We really are not getting along.
No major issues like abuse, etc.

2006-09-26 09:26:00 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Someone who is into metal,is not metro by any means, has a job?
I m bored and want tochat.

2006-09-26 09:25:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Or is it always okay?

2006-09-26 09:25:40 · 10 answers · asked by alliekittie18 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I HAVE A 12 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER THAT HAS NO RESPECT FOR ANY ONE SHE LIES ,STEELS,FIGHTS WITH HER SISTER@BROTHER ALL THE TIME FOR NO REASON .SHE TALKS BACK TO HER STEP FATHER HAS A VERY BAD ATTITUDE.WHAT SHOULD I DO? IT DOSNT HELP WITH HER FATHER BEING MARRIED TO MY HUSBANDS SISTER.AND MY EX HUSBANDS WIFE DONT HELP MATTERS BY TRING TO KEEP HER AWAY FROM HER FATHER.SHES A REAL DRAMA QUEEN.ITS A VERY BAD SITUATION.HELP!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-09-26 09:23:43 · 39 answers · asked by Angel 1 in Family

Help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-09-26 09:23:22 · 3 answers · asked by babygirl 1 in Singles & Dating

I generally don't have much of a problem talking with women. Breaking the ice can be shaky, but once that's over, I do alright. What I don't understand is when I get their number, they won't call back (and no I don't keep trying and trying, I call 3 times then i'm done) or if they take mine and say that they'll call, they never do. Why can't women be upfront and tell me they aren't interested? Why the games?

2006-09-26 09:22:46 · 27 answers · asked by Ray 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-26 09:22:25 · 6 answers · asked by Mr Business 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-26 09:22:00 · 17 answers · asked by the buggster 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-26 09:21:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I asked out my good friend a yeat ago and she said no. i asked her this 5 days after she got out a very serious relationship an was an emotional mess. she said she wasnt interested in us like that but wanted to be friends. she also said it is too weird for her. What could she have meant by this? She dated my best friend almost 3 years ago. Its been a while since I asked her out. We hang out a lot more now than before I asked her out. Should I talk to her? Should I try kissing her?

2006-09-26 09:21:48 · 27 answers · asked by greg J 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my friend R bored and wanted 2 know how 2 french kiss?Step-by-step?

2006-09-26 09:21:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

5'5" 120lbs.

2006-09-26 09:21:09 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating