I generally don't have much of a problem talking with women. Breaking the ice can be shaky, but once that's over, I do alright. What I don't understand is when I get their number, they won't call back (and no I don't keep trying and trying, I call 3 times then i'm done) or if they take mine and say that they'll call, they never do. Why can't women be upfront and tell me they aren't interested? Why the games?
2006-09-26 09:22:46 · 27 answers · asked by Ray 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you could make a lot of $$$ if you actually figured that out.....
2006-09-26 09:24:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend woman were made not to be understood! I can honestly say that this is a common problem between people.
The best I can advise you is to say don't let it get you down, because it will break your confidence!!
Look at this scenario:
You go out for a night and decide that you want to approach 10 woman in the time, along the way you will score one of the 10 if its the last unlucky but if it's the first your game is on!
The lesson here is never to give up Bru, you will score on a scale of 1-10!!
Good luck
2006-09-26 09:32:34 · answer #2 · answered by Charming 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well they don't want 2 lead U on 2 think'n that they R despreat. They might even live a secrete life. U may think that thier single, but they might have 2 kids @ home w/ a husband. Chill'n S all U could do bro, I used 2 B like that, but then I realized that I'm over reacting. cool U'r self down w/ something 2 do. relax, 1 day miss right will come knock'n @ U'r door want'n 2 hang out some day after U jus' left a message once on her machine say'n lets go get some icecream.
2006-09-26 09:28:07 · answer #3 · answered by Patient NightShade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe some women just don't want to hurt your feelings, so they say they'll call, but they don't because it's easier than saying "I'm not interested." Or you may be coming on to strong to them. Do you talk to women a lot? Are you always the one to approach them and break the ice? Maybe you're trying to hard. I don't know, but there are definetly women out there who won't be upfront with you.
2006-09-26 09:26:21 · answer #4 · answered by gidget 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I agree. ... most of my friends do the same thing. Most of the time they do that b/c they feel bad for the guy and when a guy ask's for your number so suddenly you dont know how to react but to say ..here goes my number. I personally dont do that. I walk away but some of my friends are suckers. I tell them if you dont like him why the hell did you give him your number. All they can say is well I feeeeelt sorry for him! BLAH, BLAH, BLAH!! or else they will say something like ...well he brought me a drink. There is always a reason. REgardless I dont think you will ever get the truth...
2006-09-26 09:27:04 · answer #5 · answered by vanessa s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women are generally crazy...they don't even know what the hell they want...they say this..they want that..than eventually they change their mind..but this girl ain't really worth it...so why bother consuming about it?u need to find one of the few women that basically know what they want and wont f**k with your mind to much,,,
anyhow..don't call a girl right away..just once...u can tell by their voice if they happy to hear u or not...
if they happy..they'll call back
2006-09-26 09:28:46 · answer #6 · answered by Altheea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure of your age, but being a together person means saying "thanks, but I'd rather not give you my phone number". Maturity is a process we get as we go thru experiences. If you choose the right woman she will either call you back or tell you why she won't. Good Luck!
2006-09-27 11:36:28 · answer #7 · answered by Lovely &..... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes women just want to flirt and have nothing more. They also dont want to hurt your feelings so they just give it to you, then hope you'll get the point. Yeah they might be games, but I think some women just don't want to be mean and keep the friendship.
2006-09-26 09:27:51 · answer #8 · answered by Susa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from my point of view as bieng a woman. when guys confront me and if im really feeling them ill let them call me and i would answer. but you have alot of guys that grab a girls number and dont call. so when another one walk up to you it seems like a game of guess whos gonna call you. iits both sexes that does this not just women.
2006-09-26 09:30:30 · answer #9 · answered by lovelaungauge 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to be harsh my friend but obviously your a pathetic loser and they feel sorry for you . By taking your number they can reject you without doing it face to face. Keep your chin up snazz up your wardrobe, have confidence and keep trying. Just remember alot of girls are ho's and at parties they may give thier number to 50 guys , so within a few days they have no clue who you are.
2006-09-26 09:24:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
not all adult males think of like this.......have you ever heard that some adult males can seem and jack off later? that's what fantasies are for. whilst they are with their lady they are able to think of that warm lady they observed. comparable with us women individuals as quickly as we see a warm guy we are able to visualize him screwing us quite of our guy. It takes a solid guy to have self administration and adulthood. once you improve up you will learn that.
2016-12-18 17:28:36 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋