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I have been married for 2 yrs.My husband is very controlling.He doesn't want me to go anywhere with out him.It makes me so mad. He is pushing me away. What do I do?

2006-09-26 09:48:52 · 13 answers · asked by moomoodr 1 in Family & Relationships Family

13 answers

tell him the way you feel about that....
and let him know that you don't like to be control...
tell him that even though you both married to each other, you can't control each other...
if he get mad at you, leave him alone he'll get over it...
if he keep controlling you.... and you can't stand it anymore....
divorce him...
but if you really love him try to work it out...
you both need to understand each other....

2006-09-26 09:55:10 · answer #1 · answered by nakitamaganda 3 · 0 0

all these people that think that leaving your husband will solve the problem they are fools! Call me old fashion but wedding vows a to be taken seriously. unless he's abusing you i see no reason why you can't just try talking to him and letting him know how you feel and what he's behavior is doing to the relationship. I'm sure he loves you so if the two of you talking together doesn't work try counseling. Marriage is for better or for worst, not when it's gets tough leave.

2006-09-26 16:58:03 · answer #2 · answered by Yolanda M 2 · 0 0

If you still want to be with him then you really need to talk to him about his control issues. He also needs to work on trusting you, because it sounds like he doesn't let you go anywhere alone because he doesn't trust you. And trust is one of the most important things in a relationship. If you don't wanna be with him anymore then don't. You can't let someone hold you back in life. Go out there and find somebody who trusts you and lets you live your own life. Have you done something in the past to make him not trust you? You have to think of that too. Maybe the reason he is so controling is because you did something to make him be that way.

2006-09-26 17:00:27 · answer #3 · answered by C-Baby 3 · 0 0

I was married for 3 years with some one like that as well. I got tired of the whole thing and finnaly left him. we got divorce 3 weeks later. come to find out he was ready for me to leave. I'm very sorry to here that this is happning to you and wish you the best of luck. I hope every thing works out for you and your husband.




Janet from OK

2006-09-26 16:58:45 · answer #4 · answered by janet t 1 · 0 0

You might need the sit down talk. I had the same problem w/my husband. I told him that it had to stop or I was leaving. I let him know that I loved him and would only leave him if he kept acting controlling. Good thing for me it stopped and we couldn't be happier. If he doesn't stop, then you need to get away because it could get worse.

2006-09-26 16:53:34 · answer #5 · answered by Cali Girl 3 · 0 0

Get a divorce. You obviously aren't happy and a leopard doesn't change its spots. Things aren't going to get any better. This is your life and you need to be happy with it!!! Get out and move on and find someone who loves you and respects you and will treat you as an equal.

2006-09-26 16:54:04 · answer #6 · answered by ????? 3 · 0 0

Get out now. It's a sign of abuse. He wants to control where you go...it'll get worse unless he admits he has a problem and you both seek counseling.

2006-09-26 16:56:34 · answer #7 · answered by gidget 2 · 0 0

Let him know how you feel. Try counseling. If neither seem to help, you may be seeking the advise of a divorce attny.

2006-09-26 16:55:43 · answer #8 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0 0

Do you really need someone to answer that for you?

Perhaps you should ask your self are you happy in this marriage? If you answer "no", think about how your life will be if you continue to allow him to "control" you.

2006-09-26 17:14:12 · answer #9 · answered by E 2 · 0 0

I sure hope you don't have any children. Get out of this marriage, it is only going to get worse.

2006-09-26 16:59:46 · answer #10 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0 0

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