Family & Relationships - 26 September 2006

A friend of the family's son, is only 18. He has been dating and living with a 45 year old woman since he was 17. They are getting married on the 30th of this month. The boys family are upset, and the first they new about this wedding was an invite through the post. We have tried talking the the lad and to the woman but both seem dead set on it.
This woman has made him skip work to babysit her kids!!!! He has re-decorated nearly the entire house for her. I just found out yesterday that she is a police woman??? The boy did have a really great relationship with his family, s he isn't searching for a mother fisgure if thats what you were thinking. Does anyone else see the problem with this and what can we do to help him see that he is wrecking his life. By the time he is 40 she will most likely be dead. Do you think she is a perv or a mental health case???

2006-09-26 22:28:56 · 17 answers · asked by zozbabez 2 in Family

I caught my wife cheating behind my back. She does not know this yet. Now i wants to teach her a lesson.

WHAT IS THE ACCEPTABLE WAY TO DO IT?
AND I WANT TO KNOW HOW WOMAN WANTS IT?
HOW CAN I STAMP MY AUTHORITY ON HER?
SHOULD I BE PHYSICAL?

Sorry for the caps. Im angry at the moment.

2006-09-26 22:27:16 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-26 22:26:25 · 37 answers · asked by jagshemesh 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it because they are shy? do the same rules apply to young men being interested as with older men? im quite confident and friendly does this make them nervous/unsure?

2006-09-26 22:24:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my 12yr old only eats cereal..ive tried everything to make him eat but he just wont..this is not a phase, its who he is, been to doctor many times but no help, no one seems to take it seriously but i worry he is gonna stunt his growth..any ideas welcome

2006-09-26 22:21:37 · 9 answers · asked by ginger 6 in Family

hi i m a 18 years old gal! i m very unhappy .. dunno the reason may be past and present life! i dun't share warm relatons with my family! i was in a relationship that also failed! never had any good friends.. now i m in a relationship and have a best budyy.. but things are not good.. they both have a better chemistry and also my best bud had once a crush on my present bf..but now they consider each other bro and sis! thigs are not good..basically i m very insecure person.. DEPRIVED of LOVE.. the more i get the more i want.. what should i do .. neither have good relations vid my family my siblings .. i do not even love my self.. my life has become a total hell.. sometimes i feel like killing myself .. my bf his attiutde is very cold sometimes.. and my best bud ,, even i feel no more staying vid her .. what should i do ? where am i wrong ?
my all relations are never successful .. feel like killing myself

2006-09-26 22:20:45 · 12 answers · asked by gorgeous girl . 1 in Friends

My mother and I can not get along, I try to talk to her but she won't listen, she hates my boyfriend who I've been with nearly a year now and I love him so much but she won't even allow him in the house and is always putting me down calling me fat and a slut and a tart and saying I have body odour but I shower every day and wear deodrant and everyone says if I smelled they'd tell me help me please

2006-09-26 22:20:02 · 5 answers · asked by xx_lush_xx 3 in Family

I work in a guys jobs,,, i am a little shy just because i have been hurt so many times.. im def not into myself,, just saying that im not ugly. i have heaps of guys friends but they alway *** to me as a mate and seem to forget that im available as well!!!

2006-09-26 22:19:29 · 14 answers · asked by DOTTY 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-26 22:18:52 · 78 answers · asked by Googooposse 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-26 22:17:51 · 5 answers · asked by ARNY 2 in Friends

you give a message to the young people, who doesn't have a faith in God...let's give them advice... tnx...
i'm a young people of the church...

so my aim is to get message from you...

to encourage the young people to have faith in God... the more fruitful message the more the message help the young people...specially for the students who suffer difficulties in thier studies...

please indicate your name after typing your meaningful message...

God BLeSs?!

please... help... tnx...

2006-09-26 22:15:21 · 7 answers · asked by BhEnhOy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and i adore eachother, we live together and love spending time together, but recently i have these feelings that the love is dying and is not as passionate - this kills me as i have had nasty realtionships before. He dosent seem to think anything is wrong and gets frustrated that i get upset all the time. I dont want to split up but i dont want to feel like cr@p all the time. What should i do? Is it just that the honeymoon period is over - I hope not.

2006-09-26 22:15:07 · 23 answers · asked by missh003 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-26 22:14:46 · 23 answers · asked by Nimeelitha Y 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm the kid of guy that hated that because the way we dance today is like dry humping and thats your girlfriend was i in the wrong?

2006-09-26 22:13:02 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive liked this guy since february, & i like him A LOT. the thing is, we're pretty good friends, & he knows me inside out, so he knows about all my past crushes, & he thinks im totally boycrazy.but he knows how much i like him, & he humours me cos he thinks its just a crush.
our parents are reallly strict, & they believe in being friends only wit ppl of the same gender. so its pretty difficult to see him vry often. he lives about 25 min away by walk. but just a few days ago, he came over when my parents were out. & he walked! hes never come over b4. then yesterday he invited me to his house. he also asked me to go to this club with him, & to go jogging wit him in the mornings, & 2 go 2 this concert he's going to. & this is all after he came over. its just really wierd, he's never been this persistent about seeing me before. it was just, ok we're frends, if i see you gr8, if idont, thats ok too. do u think hes finally starting to like me now? guys do u act like this when u have a crush?

2006-09-26 22:12:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like to get marry now but i am just 20 ...so i need to know wats the best age to marry....plz giv som suggestions.....

2006-09-26 22:12:39 · 11 answers · asked by subramanian 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm married with two kids and i love sex, so why is there always females hitting one me? are they trying to tell me something about myself? should i take the time to listen?

2006-09-26 22:12:36 · 7 answers · asked by poosweet1 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-26 22:11:44 · 22 answers · asked by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 in Singles & Dating

I had a friend whom i met just 2 months ago. We became so close that we used to share all our problems with each other. but for the past few days our peers are insisting that we have sumthing more than friendship. Can this be true as none of us can see the other as a life partner...

i feel that there is something between us. she from her heart feels that there is something there but doesn't want to agree to that. this i can feel from her talks. she still calls me up and asks about every minute detail. the biggest problem is we have just been face to face for 3 hrs at the max. Since then we have either been chatting or msging. Can this be love?

2006-09-26 22:11:06 · 20 answers · asked by AB 2 in Friends

My husband and I separated for a while and then got back together. While we were apart he met someone whom he CONTINUED SHAGGING after we got back together. Now he says he's completely finished with her but they are still friends. I say either she goes or I do. He reckons I'm being silly because they are really just friends now. (Should I mention that this chick has sworn to me that she will 'have him back'...) I can't help thinking they're still sneaking around behind my back. Am I being neurotic, is it okay for them to be friends? HELP!

2006-09-26 22:09:45 · 31 answers · asked by zweebob 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

He's now big enough to call him baby, he's a toddler, but why he still drooling? Particularly when he was really into something (high consentration)? Is it major?

2006-09-26 22:08:20 · 10 answers · asked by yanti b 2 in Family

I am living in a common-law marriage since 6 years. We are both previously divorced and have a son each from our marriages, both grown up and both accept our relationship totally. We are otherwise happy and share active hobbies and pastimes, go often on short holidays and have good friends. But we do not have any sex, although I would like to. I am attractive and my man is very proud of me, he says it is due to stress in his business etc.etc. But I found pills like Viagra & co. in his wallet and the car, obviously with some missing. When confronted, he said he was trying them out (while driving!!) to see the reaction!!! I also found the phone numbers of three women, whom he knows and has had affairs with before me. When I told him that I knew that he had the numbers saved on his mobile, he hid them under the names of men. I know that he meets these women, sometimes he gets calls when we are together during the week, but never on weekends and never after he gets home from work.

2006-09-26 22:05:56 · 13 answers · asked by tanamera 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hubby lays there with his hands at his sides orbehind his head burping and gargling his throat during intercourse.Acts like he doesn;t see where the turn off is...................What is his beef?.What should I do?

2006-09-26 22:05:41 · 16 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Who flew the planes if 9 hijackers turned up alive?
How did a plane hit the pentagon if its over 100' long and only made a 16' hole?
Why were the engines of the plane missing if they are made of steel and titnium with a combined weight of 12 tons, and stell and titnium has a melting point of 2700F, with the fire less then 1400F
Why was thermite dripping from the towers, How did it get there?
Why was there a 1200% Increase in AA put contracts on 9-10-01
Why was all the evidence sold to china before anybody can invegigate?
How did the cell phones work so well at such a high attitude?
Why was william rodreiez, a janitor in the building, offered millions of dallors to shut up, and to not tell people he saw bombs explosing in the basement?
Why did the towers fall at the speed of gravity?
Why did the firefighters see bombs going off in the building before they got out?
Why did Larry Silverstein admit Blowing up WTC7?

All the answers can be found at http://www.infowars.com

2006-09-26 22:04:47 · 16 answers · asked by infowars.com 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy I really like
I don't know why
lately everytime after we met up with each other
I feel very very down and sad
and now I am having a thought not to see him in a while
Am I just crazy?
This just feels so weird after we had to say goodbye
it was not like this before when I could actually keep on giggling for a long time
Weird
I hate this feeling I have now

2006-09-26 22:03:15 · 13 answers · asked by Natlay 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-26 21:59:46 · 19 answers · asked by Liz M 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Example like girls calling him first,smsing first,chatting.......

2006-09-26 21:57:43 · 13 answers · asked by ~*{Angel}*~ 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-26 21:57:15 · 26 answers · asked by pick p 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Always have plenty of comments of being attractive, pretty, easy going, everyones friend etc..... yet never seem to be able to find a guy that is interested in me as a girlfriend or more than a friend.... kinda makes me feel down....

2006-09-26 21:57:15 · 23 answers · asked by DOTTY 1 in Singles & Dating

It goes good and then all goes to crap.

2006-09-26 21:56:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating