Family & Relationships - 26 September 2006

Here is my situation. I met a girl a few years ago. We have only talked on the phone more than in person. We have only met a few times. Though we stopped talking (my fault) from 2004-5. We started talking again this year in june. I invited her to my house, we had a great time...with kissing and all. That night she sure seemed to enjoyed it. She later on offered me to go out with her, and dunno why but she said that she wanted to take a picture of us together. Currenty we can talk for hours oh yeah this was in the summer...right now I am in the states and she is from a forgien country. I confessed that I like her. In the reply (email) she said I am a super special person to her, someone she really appreciates. Someone she wouldn't want to hurt. She also mentioned that she is having emotional problems ever since she broke up with her BF. She also said she has been rejecting potential guys that are interested. We barely got to go out and all which affects the level of the relationship.

2006-09-26 21:16:42 · 8 answers · asked by FeverLust 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-26 21:16:25 · 10 answers · asked by Elizabeth C 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-26 21:16:03 · 2 answers · asked by kYLE 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

lets assume they r in d middle of d walkway and totally passionately into it....is d reaction like eewwwww or aawwwww or if ur a sicko u simply letch...etc..lol.. my reaction wud be d second one cuz it shows both of them r proud of their affiliation wid each other, which is gr8..they r indeed lucky

2006-09-26 21:15:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am really intrested in a girl. But whenever I talk to her she says that she likes me because i am a good student, she likes the way i handle things, my way of talking etc. But she has not yet said given any direct signal although she keeps talking about me with her friends. One of her friend knows me very well but denies me to tell anything. She is a bit shy may be the reason why this confusion. how should i handle this thing?

2006-09-26 21:15:22 · 10 answers · asked by pat 2 in Singles & Dating

How much time should a you spend with your partner? I am starting to feel that I should just walk away as I cant really cope with her games.

2006-09-26 21:14:58 · 24 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years now today. We broke up for about 5 months because I felt as if I didn't love him anymore. During those 5 months, we weren't in contact and grieved so heavily for him because he left me even though I wanted to be friends still. I went into a major depression, got therapy, etc. When we finally spoke to each other again, I felt so happy and believed I was back in love with him. Lately I've been having irrational thoughts though that I might not love him. He doesn't give me any reason to NOT love him. He is the person I trust most with everything. I do believe I find him attractive still. I still stay on the phone with him for hours at a time. I call him everyday, send him emails, comfort him when he's sad, and try to care for him. When I say I love you now though, I don't feel anything from it and I'm starting to question whether if I am in love with him or am I just faking it? I think I still might be depressed because I want to love him

2006-09-26 21:14:31 · 7 answers · asked by mango lover. 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-26 21:14:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

would you give those birthday presents that you received from your friends/family to other friends eg. for their birthday? is it bad of you to give them away?

2006-09-26 21:14:17 · 10 answers · asked by mei mei 4 in Friends

My best friend has fallen out with me because he fnd out I've been sleeping with his mum & grandmum.
I am a 25yr old male stripper and ex-gigolo and both women have been very nice, so when they ask for a favour I couldn't let them down. Well both women are very good in bed and if you ask me............I'll do it again.

2006-09-26 21:13:40 · 21 answers · asked by adriano 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 20 Years old. I have been in a relationship for 2 years we recently split up and did our own thing for a bit, and i met someone that i really like. But my ex partner want to get back with me, he is so caring and treats me so well. But i have no sexual attraction to him. Can you stay together with out it? I feel like he is my brother and care for him but i dont find him attractive anymore, actually its been like that for about a year.

The guy that i have met i only see once a week maybe and he wil take me some where nice or will meet up with him after a night out. Think he is trying to play me though as he sometimes texts me then just ignores my texts for a couple of days. But then he tells me he cant stop thinking about me, and that i should go and see him when hes away. He's going to australia for 2 months. So i dont know what he wants from me...does he actually like me?

The question is which one do i choose, or do i stay single?

2006-09-26 21:13:19 · 25 answers · asked by star 1 in Singles & Dating

My life is not rocking nowadays. i always wanna stay out of this love thing, coz im abitious in life. i think i hav started liking a guy but i wanna simple friendship. how can i make my heart control? pls suggest me something useful

IF U CANT GIVE A GOOD SUGGESTION THEN PLS DON GIVE ANY RUDE COMMENT. IM IN A EMOTIONAL TROUBLE.

2006-09-26 21:11:47 · 19 answers · asked by life rocks 1 in Friends

He looks like he walked right out of my imagination. I'm terrified to approach him but I can't let this opportunity slip away. There's got to be some way for me to break the ice without freaking him out. Any suggestions?

2006-09-26 21:08:00 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-26 21:04:22 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Okay, so I am playing music with this guy, I really like him. He seems totally available, and is even very kind and friendly, but reserved. I feel so attracted when around him. I wrote him a nice, thoughtful email the other day in which I breezily suggested we should get drinks in the near futhure. I have gotten mixed signals from this guy, though, and don't know what to expect. He has been totally friendly, even subtly flirtatious the last time we saw each other, but again, now that he is not emailing me, I am having the same doubts. You can read what I wrote him in my last question. What is going on with him? He seems to run hot and then cold....maybe he is only interested in a friendship? I woould like to discuss the issue with him, but I don't even know how to create the space for the conversation. Please read my previous questions of yesterday and HELP!! I was once told that he had a girlfriend by another party, but he seems to go out of his way to avoid mentioning any such person

2006-09-26 21:04:05 · 10 answers · asked by calliope 1 in Singles & Dating

public opinion about no 1 & 2
1. over age unmarried woman ( over 40's)
2. over 40's still virgin

2006-09-26 21:01:08 · 10 answers · asked by 1111 3 in Family

I wrote earlier seeking answers. Per advice, I went to a lawyer for the next step. My mind say leave him. I found him in so many lies. How can you trust him? He came in this marriage with nothing and he will leave the same. My heart say I still want him. I invest half my life in him. One person wrote: maybe I was with this idiot so long that I don't know how stupid I have been for staying. I feel that was a true statement. Just the same how do I break that cycle. I love the other one, spend a few dollars and get my head examine and dump him. Again this idiot has been in my life majority of my life. I am a 43 and feel who would want me now. I am in the wrong time zone. I just feel that you don't have to be with me all day, but when its time to go to bed, I want you laying next to me. Have fun, but give me some, too. Do I keep the old comfortable shoes which I know how it feels, buy new shoes which I would have to get use too or go bare foot?

2006-09-26 20:59:30 · 11 answers · asked by Chyna R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If your interested in a guy but the date was boring, would you want to go back home?

2006-09-26 20:59:27 · 16 answers · asked by PandaDude 2 in Singles & Dating

I want to have sex all the time but he dosen't, what can we do?
He says it's not a large part of his life. I understand that, but I want to have sex so I know that he still likes to see me naked. I'm constantly horny but I don't know what to do. Does this make me a bad person? What can we do?

2006-09-26 20:59:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anjelica L 1 in Singles & Dating

i mean, masculine arms on girls?

2006-09-26 20:55:23 · 18 answers · asked by lori 1 in Singles & Dating

My best friend and her boyfriend of two years just broke up for good but have been on and off for a while. She cheated on him several times and treated him badly. I was there for her until I found out that she wasnt really my friend at all and was talking bad about me. Now her Ex is saying he really likes me and has for a while and I kinda like him I guess but i feel bad because he was with my friend and I feel that it would be wrong to date him but she really was never a real friend to me I guess after all but I still care for her even though she did what she did to me and I dont know if it would be right to date her ex. He is a really great guy but I dont know what to do. I dont want her to hate me but then again I dont know why I should even care. What would you do.

2006-09-26 20:55:23 · 17 answers · asked by kristen e 1 in Singles & Dating

if it was the best thing in the long run to split with my fella of a yr and half why does it hurt soooo much? especially when i wake up and realise he aint there.ive never felt so c**p in all my life.

2006-09-26 20:51:54 · 26 answers · asked by spadgeroo2012 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-26 20:50:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i cant sleep & i have school tomorrow. well i guess actually this morning! my parents overhead me on the phone tonight with my girl. they walked by my bedroom and apparently heard me call my dad a pale 5'6" penis head. then i used some other words like geek & nerd & i told my girlfriend i wish i could erase my dad. so then when i get off the phone my mom was mad and tells me that my dad heard every word that i said that i called him. these are the exact words that i used and i can't take them back or change what i said or the fact they were heard by my parents. i have been trying to treat my parents with respect but sometimes i get angry and have private thoughts and this time i happened to articulate to my girlfriend on the phone and they heard me. so what can i do to make up for it?the truth is i am ashamed of my dad because he is only 5'6".hes a tiny frail fussy little man.i didnt intend for anyone to hear all this except for stefanie my girlfriend.

2006-09-26 20:50:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok me n this guy have been chatting and we hung around and met many times..messed around sexually..but i dont understand ..after awhile he started talking less with me online(on yahoo)...and now he dont even message me like b4..b4 he wud mesage me all the time..asking when n where to meet n stuff...but now i think he jus puts me as offline on his settings and we dont talk properly for days...he once asked me why dont i message him..so maybe cud it be that hes jus waiting for ME to message HIm for once??.but i started liking him n hav feelings and i really really miss talking 2 him..but i knw hes the type to holler at many girls...but then it pisses me off the way hes acting..ignoring me and all..but wen he wants to meet he will talk..So what do i doo..shud i also jus take him off my yahoo list and completely forget about him....HELP ME PLZZ...i cant even sleep i feel so depressed..shud i leave it n drop it? ps - i have a bf who realy cares n it makes it worse...:(...

2006-09-26 20:49:39 · 10 answers · asked by Har S 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-26 20:49:18 · 2 answers · asked by Sweet 3 in Friends

i have a long distance gf and before i met her she used to do cam chat, which she doesnt do no more she says it was not her just her acting to make money to pay off her debts, but i met a guy who used to chat with her online like 4 yrs ago, and he said she used to do everything for him she was wild, but underneath she is shy and now with me as a gf, though she is not that sexual with me yet cos we long distance this contradiction worries me, she insists it was just an act to get the money we have discussed it alot, can i have your comments on how i can deal with this

2006-09-26 20:48:41 · 27 answers · asked by johnny 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-26 20:47:53 · 3 answers · asked by chill_fiee 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you actually know someone with such horrible children? I was absolutely appalled last night at the behaviour of the kids. I coulnd't believe the language the little boy hurled at his mother, besides the kicking and hitting. I felt so sorry for her - I know I would have slapped the little so-and-so and I couldn't believe she just sat there and cried. I felt like crying too! And the father sat on his computer and ignored it all. Surely this is something that doesn't happen often?

2006-09-26 20:47:30 · 13 answers · asked by True Blue Brit 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

i donnoe why i have some guy friends dat say before they know me they feel intidimated by me n up to now they still feel that way. for whatever reasons i have no idea..so anyone give me reasons why they should feel dat way. i mean im not an overacheiver person.. hmmm its a really bad thing rite..:( ..

2006-09-26 20:47:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating