2006-09-26 21:16:25 · 10 answers · asked by Elizabeth C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are looking for long and everlasting love in only 4 weeks you are going to be deeply disappointed. Love has to grow and mature over the course of time. It has to come from a place of friendship first then continue to get stronger thru trust, communication, sharing of thoughts and ideas, experiences ventured and explored together. Too many times people think that if someone doesn't tell them "I love you" right away then either there is something wrong in the relationship or that person doesn't really care about them. Neither one of those is true. You should actually be happy he has not told you he loves you in such a short amount of time because if he had, it is very likely that it is not sincere or true. Just slow down and enjoy the relationship as it is if it is making you happy other than that. The I love yous and all those other expressions of feelings will come later.
2006-09-26 21:25:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geez, its a bit early for that!!!What is the problem with people these days. You use the word 'love' for anything!You dont love him, even if you feel like you do.You might be inlove with him, but trust me its not love, yet.
There's a huge difference between love and flirting or a crush. You only know if you love someone after about a year of being together!If you really really love someone you would you have the following:
1. Romance and love
2. Friendship and companionship
3. Trust and honesty
4. Respect and admiration
5. Mutual interests
6. Both of you are willing to sacrifice anything for the other person if you had to.
You have only been with him for 4 weeks!!!You cant possibly know if you love him or he loves you yet. You dont even know him as a person,what he likes and dislikes and his personality. Wait a while and if you see your relationship has the above, then you can tell him you love him and he will most porbably say it to you too, if he feels the same. Dont rush into a serious relationship. Use the words wisely.
2006-09-27 04:37:59 · answer #2 · answered by Jade22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, like most people here say; don’t expect so much out of only 4 weeks. And what do you want to hear from him? Sweet words for your ears that make you heady can be superficial. When he really loves you, he will show that he cares and concern about you. As the saying goes, the smallest deed is bigger than the greatest intention!
2006-09-27 05:00:43 · answer #3 · answered by Cool 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl' don't be so pushy. This early in the game if he says that to you it is a lie. Give it time. It takes longer than 4 weeks.
2006-09-27 04:23:01 · answer #4 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 weeks.......4weeks and he hasn't said i love u. no kidding.
well maybe its because he hasn't known u long enough to know if he does love u. just give it time my god whats the rush. not everyone is so quick to lay thier heart on the line after 4 weeks.
2006-09-27 04:25:43 · answer #5 · answered by jesse james 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly don't think anyone loves anyone after only 4 weeks.If someone said that to me,I would be doubtful because they are saying it too soon.
2006-09-27 04:21:38 · answer #6 · answered by T.Mack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes longer than four weeks to honestly say to someone that you love them. give him some time to get to know you because if he says that right now, i would question it's validity. give it time, good luck!
2006-09-27 04:20:24 · answer #7 · answered by TNW22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FOUR WEEKS?? WELL USUALLY SOMEONE DOESNT TELL YOU THEY LOVE YOU THAT EARLY UNLESS THEY REALLY DO YOU KNOW JUST GIVE IT SOME TIME AND WAIT IT OUT MAYBE HE WILL MAYBE HE WONT?? DO YOU LOVE HIM?? WELL IF YOU DO DONT SAY ANYTHING CAUSE THAT WILL SCARE HIM ECSPIALLY IF HE DOESNT LOVE YOU
2006-09-27 04:20:42 · answer #8 · answered by tip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its too early for that. wait a little bit and see
2006-09-27 04:18:05 · answer #9 · answered by hwall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he tells you that soon , he's lying.
2006-09-27 04:18:46 · answer #10 · answered by nobudE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋