Okay, so I am playing music with this guy, I really like him. He seems totally available, and is even very kind and friendly, but reserved. I feel so attracted when around him. I wrote him a nice, thoughtful email the other day in which I breezily suggested we should get drinks in the near futhure. I have gotten mixed signals from this guy, though, and don't know what to expect. He has been totally friendly, even subtly flirtatious the last time we saw each other, but again, now that he is not emailing me, I am having the same doubts. You can read what I wrote him in my last question. What is going on with him? He seems to run hot and then cold....maybe he is only interested in a friendship? I woould like to discuss the issue with him, but I don't even know how to create the space for the conversation. Please read my previous questions of yesterday and HELP!! I was once told that he had a girlfriend by another party, but he seems to go out of his way to avoid mentioning any such person
2006-09-26 21:04:05 · 10 answers · asked by calliope 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To me, the signal is very clear.
You need to relax and not try and rush anything. Doing so might cause you to miss even the obvious. Take your time with this. He already has the advantage...you have committed. Now is the time to be cool...do not let him think you are hanging around breathing hot and heavy waiting on him to pet you on the head.
Take time to get to know him. Don't let your emotions blur your vision...just in case he is not what he seem to be.
2006-09-26 21:20:09 · answer #1 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless he didnt get your email, he doesnt sound interested in anything but friendship. You don't want a guy whom you have to beg for anyway. Forget him and if he is interested let him come to you. It is always best to have a relationship with someone who wants all of you all of the time.
2006-09-27 04:08:41 · answer #2 · answered by Suzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He isn't sure about you and isn't available to you right now. If I were a girl, I would look for another guy and not get hung up on him.
2006-09-27 04:07:33 · answer #3 · answered by ftz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he only wants a friendship and now that you've showed him that you want more, he is backing off. move on if you are looking for a relationship because it doesn't sound like this guy is. good luck
2006-09-27 04:06:49 · answer #4 · answered by TNW22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dnt waste ur tym on guys like dat.. u'l just start hoping & den end up hurt in d long run..
they merely flirt & play around. not worthy of ur tym & emotions
2006-09-27 04:12:00 · answer #5 · answered by 2D1iLuV 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just playing. Don't waste your time. You deserve better.
2006-09-27 04:06:11 · answer #6 · answered by lette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he likes you. act uninterested. play hard to get. maybe that'll get his attention.
2006-09-27 04:13:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him time, maybe you scared him. if he likes you he will answer your email
2006-09-27 04:08:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He must be sending signals and tuning his frequency with some other gal ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
2006-09-27 04:07:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could he be gay?
2006-09-27 04:13:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋