My life is not rocking nowadays. i always wanna stay out of this love thing, coz im abitious in life. i think i hav started liking a guy but i wanna simple friendship. how can i make my heart control? pls suggest me something useful
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2006-09-26 21:11:47 · 19 answers · asked by life rocks 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think you have a sensible head on you pet. Your preference is your ambition and you should go out and go for it. You need to be strong and stand up for what you want and you , like everyone else, have the right to freedom of choice. You go for it girl I'm with you......
2006-09-26 21:16:41 · answer #1 · answered by pat.rob00 Chef U.K. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it seems now that you want to strive towards your ambition - but you cant put your whole life on hold to do it!
You cant fight feelings and it sounds like you're really smitten with this guy so I think you need to let yourself go!
Think about it years from now when you're a successful business woman - will you always have that "what if" question in you mind - what if this guy is the one?!
You just have to split your life and prioritise it - maybe try and be with this guy on the weekends - and continue working hard during the week - its just about comprimising!!
Dont deprive yourself of something that could be so wonderful - lifes to short!!
2006-09-26 22:49:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres one thing you cant control and thats your heart (two things for men). Just go with the flow, life works better that way , if you did get to the stage of being together you feelings about a friendship just might change , just chill out and let life happen.
2006-09-26 21:15:27 · answer #3 · answered by Ben C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There`s no truly good answer to this,but you should talk to him about how you feel,put your cards on the table,tell him you want to see him just as a friend for the time being,and share those ambitions you have with him ,you may be surprised at his reaction.If it`s not the answer you want,then it`s best to move on and for-fill the dreams you have.My own daughter fell heavily in love with a guy,but she too is very ambitious,they are both now teaching in china and will soon be moving on to teach in another country,so you can have it both ways as long as it`s what you both want.It also depends on what you want to achieve and if he wants the same things in life.Good luck and go for it,life is to short to worry about everything.
2006-09-26 21:33:44 · answer #4 · answered by AMANDA G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very hard to control yourself when you really like someone - if not impossible. You just have to take each moment as it comes and when you are with this guy, makes sure he gets a clear message that you are not interested in having a relationship. That should sort him out! As for you, if you find yourself losing control, remind yourself of your ambitions in life and keep focussed on those.
BUT, it is possible to be ambitious, and to pursue those ambitions with someone in your life to share the highs and the lows with. You do not have to be alone to fulfill your ambitions.
Good luck to you!
2006-09-26 21:17:28 · answer #5 · answered by Fluffy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 21:48:30 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make it as clear as poss if you dont want a relationship but if you do.... If you are that ambitious then love wont stop you doing what you want because all though there will be part of your heart that likes this person there will be part of your heart that wants to succeed in what you've always wanted.
2006-09-26 22:33:56 · answer #7 · answered by kk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well start things off with a friendship. don't rush into things. and you should always follow your heart. if you don't do something about this now you may live a life in regret wondering to yourself
" what if " you can't let life ambitions stop you from living.
good luck
2006-09-26 21:15:42 · answer #8 · answered by locowherto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep being ambitious in your life, and let him know how feel,
how to keep it as a friendship keep your space don't talk
to him as much, still do you own thing, then just wait and see
where it goes but pace yourself. you done it this far you can do
a while longer, Just take care. good luck, you will make the right
desion
2006-09-26 21:25:30 · answer #9 · answered by MISSIE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give your head a shake,just think of all you want from life and if you get into a relationship now all that will be lost,just think of number one and that is you.Ive been single for almost 2 years because i want to do things in my life that dont include anyone else no ones going to hold me back from my dreams and ambitions,be strong you dont need a man to make your life better.
2006-09-26 23:30:02 · answer #10 · answered by candyfloss 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋