Family & Relationships - 26 September 2006

I forgot to ask that in another question I just posted....cuz it kinda goes along with it. I like a guy, he doesn't talk about his gf at all. I tease him about it and he changes the subject. Once he mentioned he had one cuz we were thinking of when to get together and I mentioned a day to which he said his girlfriend was going to take him out and he had to catch up with her. It sounded like a chore. They have been on and off for a couple years. I asked him all of these questions and these were his answers. Then he changed the subject. He never mentions her. I have to literally ask him if he hung out with her or what not. It's kinda sad...but what's the future for this guy? What do you think about this? We are friends....I'd rather be his friend but this whole gf situation has me concerned about him.

2006-09-26 19:47:32 · 7 answers · asked by exoticdivinity26 1 in Singles & Dating

Call me crazy, I believe in love and when I found someone I love the most, I won't give up on her easily.

okay, I’m good-looking young man who likes to party, break-dancing and skate-boarding. I came from a small town, I say "wtf!" all the time and I don't have stable career. I fell in love with this amazingly gorgeous girl! she's half Japanese, beautiful, kind and she has a good career and a smile that melts!. she was born and grew up in NYC. I used to work in a cafe near her work place. seeing her everyday made me crazy. she's every man's dream girl. The craziest things is that she has a damn hot bf!

Okay, call me lame or ask me to getalife!, I don't care. but for those who know what love really is, pls answer my question, am I day-dreaming? should I wake up? or just give it a shot! else, shoot myself!
peace!

2006-09-26 19:47:15 · 12 answers · asked by Breakdancer 1 in Singles & Dating

ok we hang out in the group. last year there was 8 of us and we didnt lyk kay much and we were like b*ing to her, all except kris. me and emma were probley the meanest. i felt really bad after and she was a loner for a while then she rejoined our group.

she isn't allowed to go to our sleepovers (she was only invited once) and has to baby sit her really really really retarded sister who steals her hat and has this mental high pitch laugh. she has really frizzy hair. i have curly hair too but it isn't frizzy. she BRUSHES it!! and doesn't do ANYTHING else!! I tried mentioning it to her in a nice way but she won't listen.

i think she is putting off this really nice guy that likes me and i like him too. hes kinda shy but i overheard him saying that kaye is a bit odd..

our group has split in half and i wanna go in the half without k. but its kris and me and HER and k is totally obsessed with kris in a friend way and stays within 2 meters of her all the time. how do i tell her nicely???

2006-09-26 19:46:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have been dating my boyfriend for 1 year in October and want to plan something fun downtown Chicago, we will be there Saturday and possibly Sunday...any ideas????

2006-09-26 19:46:49 · 4 answers · asked by Brit 2 in Singles & Dating

I m bored, what do u expect other to responce?

2006-09-26 19:45:40 · 9 answers · asked by coolguy 2 in Singles & Dating

What if your husband/wife completely stop having sex with you because you refuse to give oral pleasures. What do you do. But when he/she want to have intercourse they take it while you are sleeping. Then when you are ready they don't want it no more. What actions should be taken?

2006-09-26 19:43:27 · 19 answers · asked by sweetlee725 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i decided to stay with him, but i feel so indifferent to him. i find myself starting to not think about what happened, then, like a slap in the face, i remember and feel angry....confused....hurt and i feel like i need to validate myself to the opposite sex. not have sex, but i need to know i'm attractive i guess. i'm so hurt by what he did. i don't trust him. we have three kids.

2006-09-26 19:43:15 · 9 answers · asked by ♥2323vsb 2 in Marriage & Divorce

key words: girl, 19 - 24, confident, intelligent, likes sports esp soccer,
has a goal in life, live in CA,..and....reading this post..

2006-09-26 19:42:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is the saying "once a cheater, always a cheater" really true? My boyfriend recently cheated on me. We broke up, but we eventually got back together. He tells me all the time what a mistake he made. Is it possible that he won't do it again? Have you ever known anyone who cheated once, but never again? Please give me some serious answers.

2006-09-26 19:41:30 · 12 answers · asked by Damon ♥ Elena 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

do you believe that the food that a pregnant woman eats affect the child personality or affect him in anyway?

2006-09-26 19:40:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-09-26 19:39:36 · 14 answers · asked by I wonder.. 1 in Singles & Dating

The couple is footing most of the wedding bill, but the Brides Mom (and family) is helping a little financially. Grooms family not even offering to help in any way (He's the "black sheep" of three siblings). We'd like to include Brides family in the invitation wording, but don't know how to make it sound proper, without insult to Grooms family.

2006-09-26 19:38:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My husband of 5 yrs cheated on me while I was pregnant with our child. I forgave him because I wanted us to be a family. He has been emotionally and even physically abusive at times. I just found out that he didn't end the affair when he said he did - although all this happened 3 yrs ago, I feel hurt all over again. The trust and respect is gone. I'm torn and don't know what to do. Being a single parent sounds scary to me. My son loves my husband dearly and I want him to be happy....I'm afraid that if I stay I will never love him the same again.

2006-09-26 19:36:56 · 26 answers · asked by caramelqueen 3 in Marriage & Divorce

should i take her and run away?pls tell me.

2006-09-26 19:36:34 · 16 answers · asked by sushant b 1 in Singles & Dating

my brother who's two and a half years younger than me constantly tries to overshadow me and succeeds..he's able to convince my mother that whatever im saying or doing is wrong and gets her to act all strict with me and has that wicked smile on whenever she's yelling at me...my elder brother who was never rude to me has lately started warning me not to bother him(the younger one) and sunbs me all the time..i could never harm anyone on purpose and i know i dont deserve to be treated like this..my father died last year and things were entirely different when he was around..i really really miss and have no idea how to deal with the whole situation...

2006-09-26 19:36:09 · 8 answers · asked by yellow 2 in Family

Pepsi or coke cola

2006-09-26 19:35:43 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well she told me to eat her out, but when I pulled out my knife, and started to make an incision in her chest she freaked out, and threatened to call the police. I don't get it. Why would she freak out when I tried to do something that she asked me to do?

2006-09-26 19:33:54 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I don't want to offend anyone here, I just want to know if this is common.
Do you find that your lesbian friends often encourage you to "meet a friend" of theirs?
Do you think they try to set you up with a lesbian date whenever you're feeling lonely?
Even knowing you are straight, does it seem like they keep trying?

2006-09-26 19:33:37 · 9 answers · asked by nn 1 in Singles & Dating

Believe it or not; I was comeing back to Colton from Pomona, very early in the morning, so I was sleepy; so I closed my eyes to rest, all of a sudden a young latina girl went and sat by my side, and she was getting closer closer to me, I felt the warmness from her body; she thought I was asleep, but I only had my eyes close, then all of a sudden I heared she was whispering to me twice f uck me f uck me, and I went mmm; she though I was asleep right, so when I open my eyes and look at her she smiled, and got off the bus...
do you Girls think she want it me to follow her? cause she kept looking back at me smileing...

2006-09-26 19:31:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-09-26 19:31:43 · 11 answers · asked by JCROSS_3 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Believe it or not; I was comeing back to Colton from Pomona, very early in the morning, so I was sleepy; so I closed my eyes to rest, all of a sudden a young latina girl went and sat by my side, and she was getting closer closer to me, I felt the warmness from her body; she thought I was asleep, but I only had my eyes close, then all of a sudden I heared she was whispering to me twice f uck me f uck me, and I went mmm; she though I was asleep right, so when I open my eyes and look at her she smiled, and got off the bus...
do you Girls think she want it me to follow her? cause she kept looking back at me smileing...

2006-09-26 19:31:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-26 19:30:36 · 14 answers · asked by Perfectly Flawed 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-26 19:30:29 · 5 answers · asked by I wonder.. 1 in Singles & Dating

I mean south african girl.
I just checked myspace.com , browsering profiles of girls from South Africa,most of Who i found are so pretty,so stunning, while most american girls are ugly or plain looking.
Why?

2006-09-26 19:30:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-26 19:27:39 · 9 answers · asked by . 1 in Friends

2006-09-26 19:27:36 · 15 answers · asked by Shelly Y 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-26 19:26:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-09-26 19:25:21 · 20 answers · asked by JCROSS_3 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have realized in my 20's that that everything we make plans to do when we are young almost tie us to the past. To move on I have had to change some dreams, make some compromises, and leave some things behind. I have not been worrying about how this will make me feel if my life ends before I am ready. What if all the worries I had about making it when I turn 60 and wondering what if regreat giving up on this or that?

I just wanted to ask a question and see if there is more like a statement than an answer to (when is it ok to just be happy in the moment and forget that tomorrow is a mystery we can't solve? When is it O.K. to accept that yesterday happened for a reason beyond your control?) This question should span across generation gap because we all have days we wish didn't happen and dreams of perfection that we wait-sometimes work-for on our own?

2006-09-26 19:23:03 · 6 answers · asked by Mark B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife and I were staying in a hotel, when I noticed that she was gone. At 2 am I went looking for her at the lounge. The lounge was closed, but our car was outside. I looked all around the hotel and could not find her. I went back to our room and waited a while and the went looking again. Now it is around 3:30 am. I go back to our car and another car pulls up at the stop sign accross the road. She gets out and the car drives in front of me, so I know it's a guy. Immediately she tells me a crazy story that I find out is a lie. Then she changes her story when I find she was lying. Even her new story doesn't add up. I have bank statements that show when she cashed out of the bar. It is about an hour earlier than when she left. She said she walked around the hotel for an hour drinking beer and then walked to gas station to get cigs. There a guy asked her if she needed a ride and she accepted. She said she lied b/c she was scared. Did she cheat?

2006-09-26 19:23:01 · 22 answers · asked by joshua t 1 in Other - Family & Relationships