2006-09-26 19:39:36 · 14 answers · asked by I wonder.. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what I mean is that she said I'm not being a boyfriend enough, but I don't know what I'm doing wroong or missing. But she said she can't say it to me.
2006-09-26 19:44:08 · update #1
I know she doesnt mean she wants to be friends, but shes complaining bout me not doin enough as a boyfriend I think.. but I've tried everythign I could, from showing reassurance to gifts, to talking, to everything I could think of..
2006-09-26 19:47:07 · update #2
you are probably like a brother to her
2006-09-26 19:40:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not about Gifts it's about emotions. Woman needs to feel that there is a man who care & lean on when she needs that. Let her feel that you are her man. When she smiles let her feels like her smile light up your day. When she cries or feeling down give her your shoulder to cry on. Ask her about your things & tell her about your day....etc.
Maybe she didn't give you the boyfriend sensation so you can't give her back that feeling. Some women fail in doing this. So, don't blame your self as you are doing your best
2006-09-27 04:53:16 · answer #2 · answered by Elegy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is not satisfied with you, you really need to get rid of her. Period. The worst thing you can ever have in a girlfriend is for her not to appreciate who you really are and ask more of you than what's natural.
What's worse, she is playing a stupid game with you in regards to "not telling." If she isn't willing to tell you how she feels or what she wants from you, then she's just creating drama. You seriously don't need people like that in your life.
2006-09-27 02:55:35 · answer #3 · answered by يا حسين 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you are not being affectionate enough with her, and you don't do enough to excite her sexually.
People often are too shy to talk about sex and affection, and maybe this is why she won't explain to you why you don't feel like a boyfriend to her.
2006-09-27 02:52:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she is looking for more lover's fun & adventure. Have you been too nice & protective of her to the point that she feels you are his brother? Be passionate, be aggressive, be a lover in the right sense of the word.
2006-09-27 02:48:18 · answer #5 · answered by lette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she sees you more as a friend than a boyfriend. That doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you
2006-09-27 02:41:46 · answer #6 · answered by Sydney 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably missing a lot, find yourself another girlfriend !
2006-09-27 02:42:23 · answer #7 · answered by g_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your g/f should know and be willing to help you out of such minor predicament.
2006-09-27 02:42:54 · answer #8 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should start some drama with her BEFORE you falling into that FRIEND ZONE~~~
2006-09-27 02:44:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously... there is no chemistry!!! wake up she does not get the electrick shocks from having you near her!!! get another woman keep her as a friend!!!
2006-09-27 02:54:46 · answer #10 · answered by Ruby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋