if it was the best thing in the long run to split with my fella of a yr and half why does it hurt soooo much? especially when i wake up and realise he aint there.ive never felt so c**p in all my life.
2006-09-26 20:51:54 · 26 answers · asked by spadgeroo2012 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have you ever bleached your hair before? If not, this analogy might not be the greatest in the world; so I'll keep my fingers crossed and assume that you have.
When you made that decision to bleach your hair, you made it because you think it makes your hair more attractive and vivid. You were excited and couldn't wait to have this entirely new look and feel.
Then you had to actually get it done. And it hurt, and it burned as they put the chemicals in your hair to bleach it. It stung and you felt like tearing at your scalp and ripping it all out because it hurt so badly.
But it was over before you knew it, and you had this wonderful new look and feel, and the pain that you couldn't bear to withstand was completely eliminated.
That's sort of what this is like: you're in that bleaching phase where the chemicals are in your hair and it's painful and agonizing. Just give it time and don't let your stance deteriorate. And eventually, the bleached hair of your new-and-single life will feel better than anything else.
Sorry, I know it was a little cheesy, but it doesn't hurt to laugh every once in a while. Good luck, and don't turn back!
2006-09-26 21:03:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is the best thing in the long run. No-one ever said it would be easy parting from a long-term partner. You become addicted to the other person and when you split from them your fix is taken away and you have to go cold-turkey to get over them.
2006-09-26 21:49:19 · answer #2 · answered by dnlrawson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my partner and i split five weeks ago after 2 and a 1/2 yrs and it does suck waking up alone in the morning .But after a while you get used to it and will like having the whole bed to yourself and realise that life goes on I was that bad with stress I got given anti dep but did not take them .Just be strong and one day u will meet someone new.
2006-09-26 21:04:05 · answer #3 · answered by stephy200125 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know it hurts but don`t invest too much time in feeling like crap. go out wiv ur friends, talk about it to them, do all the things u like doing. i promise things will get better for u. i know this because i`ve been there and wen i look back i wonder why i put myself through all that. life really aint that bad now and i feel stronger for it. all the crap that happens to u just makes u stronger in the long run.
2006-09-26 23:21:59 · answer #4 · answered by graham f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A year and a half is a long time to spend with someone - its only natural that you're hurting and missing him - but it'll get better in time I promise!!
If you know leaving him was the best thing to do then you had your reasons and you just gotta look to the future, you'll find happiness in time! xx
2006-09-26 22:33:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is the answer to everything. All you ever need is love,
communication and understanding. That's what I figured out so
far. If you are down, you need to get up and start doing something with
your life. Don't need to be shy, be straight forward and allways say what
you want and expect from the others.
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2006-09-26 21:56:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason u feel sick is because you where in love for a long
time, But that's life things in life sometimes are worse, But in time
you will not think about anymore, life goes on someone better
and will be there for you. Just ask god to help, I promise another door
will open for you and you will be happy again. just give it time.
good luck I've been there ok.
2006-09-26 21:00:23 · answer #7 · answered by MISSIE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you doubt yourself. Trust your instincts. If it wasn't working or you needed a change you did the right thing.
They are right, time does heal. Go out with friends, after a while the empty space beside you will get smaller as you learn to spread out again.
2006-09-26 21:01:24 · answer #8 · answered by natasha * 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just life really , get some shrooms down ya neck a giggle ya life away , works for me.
As for time heals all , tell that to the bloke who got killed by a grandfather clock falling on him .
2006-09-26 20:55:19 · answer #9 · answered by Ben C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i understand how you feel. it will take a while before you get over your hurtings. try to move on one day at a time. friends are a great help during this period of time. go out, visit new places, meet new people. life is short, so enjoy it. don't waste time.
2006-09-26 20:57:07 · answer #10 · answered by lette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋