He looks like he walked right out of my imagination. I'm terrified to approach him but I can't let this opportunity slip away. There's got to be some way for me to break the ice without freaking him out. Any suggestions?
2006-09-26 21:08:00 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let me break it down for you. Any of these are good:
1. Hi. Ahem...what's your name?
2. What time do you get off work?
3. Hey, I like your _______ (anything he's wearing, or smile, etc).
4. Hand him a small piece of paper with your phone number and tell him to call you as you walk with your coffee.
And if nothing works, I would suggest you download Keri Noble's "Talk to Me," which pretty much explains your situation perfectly.
2006-09-26 21:15:12 · answer #1 · answered by Mario E 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you can find out where he hangs and show up there. Or go to the coffee shop alot and just start talking to him in an innocent way. Ask him questions about himself. People always like to talk about themselves. Be there at the end of his shift. Maybe one day he will leave with you! Just be careful tho to be patient you could push him away if you seem too obviously interested. If he acts interested wait till he mentions something you have in common and give him your phone number while saying that maybe you could go do that thing together sometime. If you first just be a friend then maybe you won't freak him out. There's always time to grow a relationship later. Good luck!
2006-09-26 21:22:41 · answer #2 · answered by Suzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be a regular customer. approach him first by complementing how good is the service in the coffee shop. It may take a few more visit to the shop before you can start a friendly conversation. Don't hurry, just take one day at a time until you get too acquianted to each other. Good luck!
2006-09-26 21:12:51 · answer #3 · answered by lette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-12 15:57:46 · answer #4 · answered by rocca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the coffee shop everyday and try to start some conversation with him and then date him out during his off day. Good luck.
2006-09-26 21:10:56 · answer #5 · answered by Raymond Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and slowly move the convo to personal questions. Ask him what he doing after work and if he would like to go get drinks and stuff after a couple of shots it will get easier. So do that and depending on the info act on it
2006-09-26 21:15:03 · answer #6 · answered by Chillin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't have a coffee addiction i suggest you pick one up real quick. keep dropping by and ordering coffee. drop commets specifically to him, hmmm, that sure was a good latte, or frappachino. just start up conversations while he's brewin your tea. if things are gonna happen, he'll catch on and things will work themselves out. good luck
2006-09-26 21:12:28 · answer #7 · answered by locowherto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, talk to him. The only way to conquer your fear is to face it. Just talk to him, everyone gets nervous when they talk to a crush. Just relax.
I started dating a guy from a coffee shop once. I got him to notice me by hanging out with the "after hours" crowd. When he came over to talk to us I flirted my cute little butt off and he bit.
2006-09-26 21:10:45 · answer #8 · answered by lisaaz29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start visiting Coffee house regularly . You might get a chance to grap him,
2006-09-26 21:25:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-26 21:10:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋