Here is my situation. I met a girl a few years ago. We have only talked on the phone more than in person. We have only met a few times. Though we stopped talking (my fault) from 2004-5. We started talking again this year in june. I invited her to my house, we had a great time...with kissing and all. That night she sure seemed to enjoyed it. She later on offered me to go out with her, and dunno why but she said that she wanted to take a picture of us together. Currenty we can talk for hours oh yeah this was in the summer...right now I am in the states and she is from a forgien country. I confessed that I like her. In the reply (email) she said I am a super special person to her, someone she really appreciates. Someone she wouldn't want to hurt. She also mentioned that she is having emotional problems ever since she broke up with her BF. She also said she has been rejecting potential guys that are interested. We barely got to go out and all which affects the level of the relationship.
2006-09-26 21:16:42 · 8 answers · asked by FeverLust 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She said give it time to see what happens because life is so strange that one will end up where one less thought of.
I think I may have a chance in the future, I am not sure though. She has no idea how I feel about her....:( I am no pimp guy, I am a straight up emotional sensitive type of guy.
2006-09-26 21:19:29 · update #1
Long distance drama sucks ***.
I've tried meeting others down here but it's not the same...:(
2006-09-26 21:25:59 · update #2
I believe after she gets over her last b.f she will see what a great guy you really are. She will need a shoulder to cry on up until she gets over her feels for the last guy! If she says you are a special person to her she might have feelings for you! Let her have your shoulder and show to her that you really care about her she will relize what a great guy you really are and she will want you.
Give it time!
Good Luck!
Kimbo!
2006-09-26 21:26:15 · answer #1 · answered by ...♥BeautifullyBroken* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a boy, i think i can help you.
Should tell her how you feel. Don’t feel scare if she would turn you down. If you’re too shy to approach her,
What i did last time is that i call my secret admire. Sometime i wrote letter and e-mail. But i can say, talk to her in person sure has the edge and more advantage.
Love is a lasting forever thing. So take your time. And no rush. Girls look at 2 things, handsome and good personality. You know what handsome is. Good personality is the way u act and speak and how u behave yourself, also how u conduct yourself. They often look for good qualities. This is quite a tough area to improve. In other words, if they like u, means they really like u. If not, then, don't be sad and give up like others do, maybe there's still a chance u can improve.
All the best to u.
2006-09-27 06:38:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, maybe she is really going through an emotional time, if so just stick with her and be the friend she needs right now and you'll see it just might turn out for the better, maybe relationsship or a good friendship. But try broaden your horizon and go out and meet some other girls.....Good luck!
2006-09-27 04:34:39 · answer #3 · answered by Ocean 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you really like or love the girl?If yes then go on and whatever the result you have to accept that.Love is unconditional and you don't have to ask for anything in return. If you love her, show it and prove it.Maybe her experienced in her past relationship brought alot of pain and heartaches.Try to understand and let the time heals the wound.It's not easy to fall inlove and trust again especially when you've been to heartbreak.
2006-09-27 04:28:15 · answer #4 · answered by ress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she ask for some time, just give it to her .. she needs time to think and heal from her past relationship. obviously, she's not trying to play you by making u as a rebound boyfriend. but be there for her ... coz now only time could give u the answer. good luck
2006-09-27 04:38:10 · answer #5 · answered by Tartlettes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow talk about a long distance relationship. I'm not really sure but you should just ask her and if not just keep your mind open to the friendship that you two have
2006-09-27 04:23:49 · answer #6 · answered by blue_dragoness5695 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first it depends on your age if u r grown up u should make the correct dicisions usually girls like me like sentimental guys. not like love them.........there will be the perfect one for u
2006-09-27 04:26:17 · answer #7 · answered by sapphire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her time show ur there for her
2006-09-27 04:22:17 · answer #8 · answered by tinkerbell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋