ive liked this guy since february, & i like him A LOT. the thing is, we're pretty good friends, & he knows me inside out, so he knows about all my past crushes, & he thinks im totally boycrazy.but he knows how much i like him, & he humours me cos he thinks its just a crush.
our parents are reallly strict, & they believe in being friends only wit ppl of the same gender. so its pretty difficult to see him vry often. he lives about 25 min away by walk. but just a few days ago, he came over when my parents were out. & he walked! hes never come over b4. then yesterday he invited me to his house. he also asked me to go to this club with him, & to go jogging wit him in the mornings, & 2 go 2 this concert he's going to. & this is all after he came over. its just really wierd, he's never been this persistent about seeing me before. it was just, ok we're frends, if i see you gr8, if idont, thats ok too. do u think hes finally starting to like me now? guys do u act like this when u have a crush?
2006-09-26 22:12:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like kiddy garbage.
2006-09-26 22:15:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Should tell him how you feel. Don’t feel scare if he would turn you down. If you're too shy to approach him, what i did last time is that i call my secret admire. Sometime i wrote letter and e-mail. But i can say, talk to him in person sure has the edge and more advantage.
Love is a lasting forever thing. So take your time. and no rush. Boys look at 2 things, prettiness and good personality. You know what pretty is. Good personality is the way u act and speak and how u behave yourself, also how u conduct yourself. They often look for good qualities. This is quite a tough area to improve. In other words, if they like u, means they really like u. If not, then, don't be sad and give up like others do, maybe there's still a chance u can improve.
All the best to u.
2006-09-27 06:45:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!
2006-09-29 00:46:23 · answer #3 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is having crush on you, and if u will response to him accordingly he will just fall for u, but i dont see, that u r interested in him as loving him, coz, as u said its ok, if u dont see him. Ok, just tell me, dont u want to see the person on whom u have crush. So make ur mind, that do u like or love him, coz, liking and loving someone is two different things. You can take time, and whatsoever is the answer just tell him. Best of luck.
2006-09-27 05:26:29 · answer #4 · answered by chippychap 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a tremendous crush on you. But you have a problem. I would not see him alone, either at his house or at yours because your parents and his obviously think you are both too young to date. Keep being friends but keep it all in the open to avoid any disastrous results.
2006-09-27 05:16:22 · answer #5 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys who walk 25 minutes to see you really like you. I really like girls I wouldn't drive 25 minutes to see, this guy's got a thing for you. If you have any doubt kiss him, worst case scenario he'll still be your friend.
2006-09-27 05:30:37 · answer #6 · answered by W0LF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sleep with him and the crush will stop.
it is gr8 if not ok says it all he wants you to feel for him but not he for you He knows you will forget this one too as all your other crushes before that he wants to sleep with you.
Good luck
2006-09-27 06:05:46 · answer #7 · answered by Loviingly_Yours 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i definately think he's coming round to your charms. you sound like you know what you want and the guy probably likes the fact that your laid back. good luck! x
2006-09-27 05:17:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he likes you. Every good relationship should have a good foundation of friendship, take your time. Have fun. (Not too much fun tho)
2006-09-27 05:15:46 · answer #9 · answered by Suzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im gonna be honest with you.. and im serious about this... with men its very simple.. either he likes you and is too shy to say it... or its just a ploy to get you to sleep with him...
2006-09-27 05:16:54 · answer #10 · answered by jaz o 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋