2006-09-26 22:18:52 · 78 answers · asked by Googooposse 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A lot of people panic before their wedding because they feel like they're running out of time and are about to be trapped and tied to that person forever. And providing they go through with it, they view their partners differently after they're married. This is what changes everything and unfortunately it isn't always in a good way. You just have to remember that she is the same person now as she will be after you're married and the only thing you're changing is you're making it official in the eyes of the law. Just keep calm and remember why you're doing this...you love her and want to make a legal commitment to prove this. Have a lovely day and i hope you have a wonderful future together.x
2006-09-26 22:27:55 · answer #1 · answered by mother knowledge 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy the ceremony and be prepared to work hard to keep the love alive. Treat each other how you want to be treated....be patient- you will both be changing as you grow into married life. Enjoy the simple things. Do little special things for each other...surprises and little gifts. Learn massage and bless each other with non-sexual touch. Talk lots about stuff and really listen to each others joys and worries. Accentuate the positive, focus on each others strengths. Don't have too high expectations...you may be disappointed. Keep separate interests and keep your friends cos you will both need good positive friends. A wife cannot be everything to her husband and vice versa. Set goals....don't have children till you have cemented your relationship. Make decisions that will build your marriage. Have dates just like before you were married. Don't let work take all your time. Have holidays together and apart. Every blessing be yours.
2006-09-26 22:40:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congrats! just remember your spouse should be your best friend you should be able to confide in each other, comfort each other, support each others decisions no matter how frivilous they may seem. You are no longer walking down that path of life alone you have someone else to hold your hand never forget that. Don't let your spouse feel alone and left out toegther you can accomplish more at life then doing it alone. No matter how mad you might get at each other never leave the house or go to bed mad you never know when it will be that last time and words cannot be taken back once they are said. Good Luck!!!
2006-09-26 22:53:59 · answer #3 · answered by hubbys2ndbest2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live every minute with your new wife like it is your last. Never go to bed mad at one another no matter how bad you fought. Always respect you wife like she is your queen even if she does disrespect you. In the end it all comes down to the little things, like a touch on the shoulder as you walk by, a kiss bye before you head out the door. Most of all keep in mind that women are way more complex than men, never assume that you know her. Keep an eye on your friends, sometimes friends turn green with envy when they see you in love and may even secretly want to have what you have. Take this as you will but most of all enjoy one another.
2006-09-26 22:35:14 · answer #4 · answered by brazilman37 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in USA and a male.. DONT
The woman can ask for a divorce even if she finds a lover or is at fault and you will have to pay her huge amounts in alimony. Some states say that you have to pay half of all you earn. Right now all is well, but later you never can tell. If you have to go through will it, it is probably not too late to have her sign a prenuptial agreement which clearly states how much she will get in case of a divorce.
2006-09-27 00:16:40 · answer #5 · answered by Hysteria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
(gender changed for your reading ease...) The best advice I received was to talk to HER and not to every and anybody else when you all have an issue. In-laws do NOT need to be all in the business nor do other friends and relatives.
Pick up after yourself. Make it a habit to keep date nights on the calendar. Keep the promises you are making now, no matter what. And remember, the family that prays together stays together and I hope you two stay together forever!
Congratulations!
2006-09-27 04:14:31 · answer #6 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't Do It! Just kidding it will be great. Been married now 13 months, and let me say it is hard at times and is a big change in you relationship with your mate regaurdless of how long you have been together or lived together, but it gets better day by day
Congrats
2006-09-26 22:54:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to repeat some very wise words I heard said by a man who broke a record in the UK last summer for reaching his 70th wedding anniversary with his wife. He said the key to a successful and happy marriage comes down to only two words; "Yes, dear."
Congratulations and good luck!
2006-09-26 22:24:05 · answer #8 · answered by squirrellondon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shut out any unnecessary thought;distraction, or non ideal ANYTHING. This is a very special moment in time for the two of you, and you can focus on that. Nothing can get in the way of the wonderful intention that you both share: to spend your lives together. It's sacred, and divine. Two hearts being brought together in a unbroken circle of life.
Take her hand; and rejoice, because, you both MADE IT!
Congratulations; and many joyful wishes are coming to you both!!!
2006-09-26 22:42:44 · answer #9 · answered by Bluebells21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Book a flight to Thailand before Saturday!!
2006-09-27 21:45:46 · answer #10 · answered by Nigel H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋