I had a friend whom i met just 2 months ago. We became so close that we used to share all our problems with each other. but for the past few days our peers are insisting that we have sumthing more than friendship. Can this be true as none of us can see the other as a life partner...
i feel that there is something between us. she from her heart feels that there is something there but doesn't want to agree to that. this i can feel from her talks. she still calls me up and asks about every minute detail. the biggest problem is we have just been face to face for 3 hrs at the max. Since then we have either been chatting or msging. Can this be love?
2006-09-26 22:11:06 · 20 answers · asked by AB 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She likes me, but is stopping herself from admitting it. this came out of her own mouth during a normal chat, dat was when i even proposed her. she still is keeping me on a hold but tries to act like my partner....
2006-09-27 00:05:34 · update #1
Dear give this relation a little time to grow, before coming to any conclusion. If she has also some feelings for u she will speak out, may b after taking some time or knowing u better. Dont b in a hurry to decide. Yes it can b true love. ALL D VERY BEST TO U.
2006-09-26 22:35:49 · answer #1 · answered by misty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to ask urself about ur relation once. ask urself the following questions :
1- if she is hurted or is sad do u feel the pain ?
2- can u be without her atleast for an hour ?
3- when u close ur eyes whose face does appear?
4- when u r sitting idle about whom do u think ?
5- do u like company ?
6- do u bth think about each others welfare everytime?
if all the answera for the following questions come ina positive manner then u r in love. but don't do late and express ur feeling to her as soon as possible
2006-09-26 23:19:10 · answer #2 · answered by sweety 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think this is just but a crush. i dont think you can fall in love in 2 months,worse still spend only 3hrs to the maximum with that gal!also depends on how much you value your friendship.Are both of you sincere about it?i believe if you are true friends, and if you respect each other, then you wouldn't do anything intentional to defile your friendship.But then if you both feel for each other then go for it!But brother DONOT force yourself to love her.it wil be the biggest mistake coz you'll BOTH forever be frustrated coz no one is living to the other's expectations.Wait till the day she will admit !
2006-09-26 23:57:58 · answer #3 · answered by nesh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if you are extremely good friends. That is a good basis for marriage. Wait and see what develops. After all, you've only known each other for 2 months.
2006-09-26 22:13:38 · answer #4 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U both r very good frnds but still the relation u both have cant b told as "true love"
2006-09-26 22:50:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps she is scared of commitment. now i try to keep every gals as my friend, and take time to know more about them b4 plunging right into a crush as that hurts if it didn't work out well. keep her as a friend. 2 mths is just too short to get to know another. best wishes.
2006-09-27 01:07:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is called "wanting to be with each other" im going through the very same stage in my life... just one step ahead... that he has gone abroad now and just because we were sooooo close i fell for him and now i cant stop thinking about him....
becarefull!!
2006-09-26 23:43:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the hurry - just enjoy the ride & see what happens. I think it could develop into something further, you never know.
2006-09-26 22:16:40 · answer #8 · answered by shirazzza 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said:
"Can this be true as none of us can see the other as a life partner... "
So... no, it's not true love, sorry
2006-09-26 22:37:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anna-Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing can be said from this, see her intentions, feelings, truthness,faith test all these . love is a process and not miracle.
see your mind is driven by your body or by your soul. accordingly you can judge why your mind is thinking so much for her.
2006-09-26 22:19:01 · answer #10 · answered by KrishanRam(Jitendra k) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋