Always have plenty of comments of being attractive, pretty, easy going, everyones friend etc..... yet never seem to be able to find a guy that is interested in me as a girlfriend or more than a friend.... kinda makes me feel down....
2006-09-26 21:57:15 · 23 answers · asked by DOTTY 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-09-26 21:58:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Nothing wrong with you.
Should tell him how you feel. Don’t feel scare if he would turn you down. If you're too shy to approach him, what i did last time is that i call my secret admire. Sometime i wrote letter and e-mail. But i can say, talk to him in person sure has the edge and more advantage.
Love is a lasting forever thing. So take your time. and no rush. Boys look at 2 things, prettiness and good personality. You know what pretty is. Good personality is the way u act and speak and how u behave yourself, also how u conduct yourself. They often look for good qualities. This is quite a tough area to improve. In other words, if they like u, means they really like u. If not, then, don't be sad and give up like others do, maybe there's still a chance u can improve.
All the best to u.
2006-09-27 06:40:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have trouble finding a guy because you are expecting too much of yourself.
You are pretty, attractive, (easy going - does that mean they can easily get you down to bed and have sex) or you mean naturally outgoing. If you are easy going for sex well that would be the reason why.. But if you are just naturally out going then there is no need to hurry.
Just be yourself,. be friendly to everybody yes,, just be what you are and soon love will come, because love comes from the most unexpected places at the right time.
Don't be in a hurry, enjoy their company, enjoy life, enjoy your blessedness and singleness it will not last a life time.
Good luck and God Bless.
2006-09-27 05:04:45 · answer #3 · answered by yulnores 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you allowing yourself to be approachable by men? Do you show interest in guys that you find attractive? Maybe you are not getting gentleman calling because either they assume you have a man in your life or you give off an air that you don't want to be approached. You might want to start by smiling and flirting more. Until a guy gets the balls to come up to you and ask you out, then that is really the best you can do. You also might want to give your mannerisms and dress a once over as well.
2006-09-27 05:11:54 · answer #4 · answered by davester1970 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am also attractive and what I could say is that lots of attractive people are into themselves and boring. I quit dating good looking guys and date nice clean, kind and thoughtfull , before I married the best man in the world. Dont always feel you need to keep up your looks with make up etc. get an interest or hobby. good luck
2006-09-27 05:05:16 · answer #5 · answered by spuds_suds 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont take this in a bitchy way but maybe you're too into yourself and come across as overpowering or intimidating when it comes to men.
Also perhaps the guys look at you and think - yeah shes hot and she gets on with everyone and they feel that if they entered into a relationship with you that they'd have to fight for your attention or be worried that you'd cheat - whilst its great to be popular - just make sure you dont slip into the catagory of "easy".
2006-09-27 05:08:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Low self-esteem? Based solely on the use of a small 'i' in your question, 2 of 3 times. Silly, huh?! Well, if, after a check of your fingernails, you aren't too insecure, get involved in a community theater or church singles group. Don't 'try' to find a guy. Just make yourself available for a guy to find you! Regardless of what the new age of women's liberals say, if you want a guy, quit keeping yourself from them.
2006-09-27 05:48:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some times happen that you are too friendly and guys and people in general see you with that label (friend material). But I guest someone will see you in the other way, GF material, I don’t know…
2006-09-27 11:51:27 · answer #8 · answered by Propeller Boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes good looking women imtimidate guys. Some men will think that because the woman looks so good that she must have plenty of guys around so they don't bother approaching her.
2006-09-27 05:05:43 · answer #9 · answered by d b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe your not attractive, maybe they are just telling you that you are to spare your feelings and to make you feel better about yourself.
Sorry sweetie but it's a possibility. Not to mention it's not always just the outside that counts. Sounds to me that you come off as concieded and stuck up. FYI your sh*t DOES stink!
2006-09-27 05:01:33 · answer #10 · answered by carebearashee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋