I'm the kid of guy that hated that because the way we dance today is like dry humping and thats your girlfriend was i in the wrong?
2006-09-26 22:13:02 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Champion U were not wrong at all...How dare she ask this stupid question?? I am 100 % sure u must have felt insulted . The question is did she go after u got mad...??? IF she did ..if I was in ur situation would say bye bye dont come back...
2006-09-26 22:26:18 · answer #1 · answered by mature_male_online 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just depends on who the guy was and what kind of dancing they would be doing. If it was dancing like you described, than most men would have a problem with any woman they cared about doing this with another man. If she can't understand why you would be pist, when she essentially asked you: "Mind if I dry hump another guy in public while you watch?" then she is an idiot and doesn't respect you much as a man.
2006-09-26 22:25:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe I am just an old Mom but I think it is wrong to dance that way anyway. It's like peeking at the presents before Christmas! (marriage) Unless you are engaged to be married or in a serious commited relationship,she can see whomever she likes. If she asked you if you minded something, just answer the question...no need to get mad. You can tell her how you feel though. Maybe you felt angry that she wanted to go dirty dancing with someone. In that case i would have felt angry too. But maybe she doesnt intend on "dirty dancing" with him. Talk to her and tell her how you feel and ask her what her intentions are. Don't however try to control her with your anger..that would be manipulation which is a form of witchcraft in my opinion. Don't worry sometimes you have to let go of people you care about BECAUSE we care about them. Love is not selfish. If she sees you care about her that will make her want to come back for more of you. Good luck.
2006-09-26 22:29:31 · answer #3 · answered by Suzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you weren't wrong. The more time a woman spends around other men (or vice versa), the more likely she is to start wanting the other men. Take this extreme hypothetical situation as an example. If you were the only man that your woman ever saw, she would not have anything else to compare you to, so she would love you and you'd have no chance of being left. You should be jealous if she is your girlfriend. She would not want you to go dancing with another girl either.
2006-09-26 22:17:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You were wrong to get mad but not wrong to say no. It's much more effective if you explain quietly, in a calm manner why you'd prefer if she didn't go dancing with another guy. She's more likely to respect you and your feelings and not go instead of storming out in anger and doing it on purpose.
2006-09-26 22:21:14 · answer #5 · answered by yes darling 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If was understandable that you got mad. There are different ways to look at it. She wanted to go to a dance. I suppose she likes to dance. It is understandable that you got upset. But it was probably not helpful to your relationship that you got upset. So now you are mad at her and she is mad at you. Your relationship with her is probably ending or close to ending. If you hadn't reacted to 'typically' she would have gone to the dance, had a good time and then thanked you for letting her go and have a good time.
2014-02-23 09:07:14 · answer #6 · answered by Thomas 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not wrong. See, that shows you are a bit possessive about her; which you should be. But she asked you. She could have gone ahead without your consent. That shows she does not want your relationship to go bad. Just go easy with it. Trust each other.. it will work no matter how many people any of you are friends with.
2006-09-26 22:24:33 · answer #7 · answered by noesis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It was only dancing. As long as she goes home with you, then everything is good. You are kinda acting insecure. If you don't or can't dance with her than let her have a little fun. It is dance for crying out loud. It isn't cheating yet.
2006-09-26 22:20:08 · answer #8 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well see its all about trust..you trust ur girlfriend, just let her go wherever she wants to.. your getting mad is justified too cuz she is ur gal and she just cant move around with anyone else but if we consider the other the other past its her life she can move around with anyone she likes.. see u cannot bind her if u do so she will feel may be you are hindering her freedom which may lead to more complications .. wat u shud do is to clear her the point calmly .. i mean tell her that u dont want her to feel bad .. just open ur heart that he doenot like her going around with other boys.. see al men are not the same may be someone has no problem with theis gals going around with aother guys but u do .. so just take her foe a drive and talk to her ;) hope it helps
2006-09-26 22:42:25 · answer #9 · answered by gorgeous girl . 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya u cut back in everytime u hear a style of songs or i say ask her to promenade rather or make her jealous with the help of booty dancing with a woman or if u extremely cant cope with it only dont bypass. she doesnt sound like gf fabric if she desires to take a wreck from u. locate somebody greater advantageous theres a great number of fish interior the sea and ladies in this earth. she doesnt love u if she desires to take a wreck have confidence me i be attentive to. shes basically a whore and desires to attempt human beings. my ex grow to be like that he stored asking me approximately threesomes or looks and chats with different ladies it made me cry yet finally weren't mutually and sooner or later as quickly as I did locate out he informed me he had a sparkling gf and didnt love me anymore. so for sure this lady doesnt be attentive to what love is. and its her loss not yours. locate somebody greater advantageous ok the swifter the greater advantageous than ull recover from her..
2016-10-01 10:13:29 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋