My husband lies about EVERYTHING. And probably has all his life. He has been unfaithful since before we got married. I KICK myself for marrying him, but I really thought I was making a good choice when I did. I have confronted him so many times, found tons of evidence and EVERY TIME, he comes up with the most FANTASTIC lies, stories, oh and then he becomes angry, defensive, shifts blame, goes into a rage, and launches a full scale effort to get me to say..."ok, honey, I believe you". I do it because I struggle with low self esteem, fear of abandonment, and a desire to pray my marriage through (there are children involved and I was married before). I beat myself up for being so stupid and allowing him to lie and cheat and just take it. But each time I tried to get strong and confront the situation, it was hell for me and our kids...WHAT SHOULD I DO???
2006-09-25
07:56:03
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