I am kinda dating this guy, we had a few dates back in July and then we stopped talking because of a misunderstanding that we cleared up. He came over the other night and we were kissing and cuddling and he asked me what i wanted and i said him and he said you have me....we kissed some more and he said tell me what you want and i replied i did, i want you and he said you have me. so what the hell does that mean..i meant i wanted him as in I wanted a relationship with him...i just dont get what he meant.
2006-09-25 07:55:48 · 18 answers · asked by Paige 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, what DID you want? When a male hears, "I want you," in the situation that you two were in that night, to him, it means, "I am in the mood for sex." But, just in case he thought he might be misunderstanding what you meant, he was trying to clarify it by asking again, "What do you want?" No guy wants to be wrong in assuming that what he heard did NOT mean the girl was asking for sex... You had indicated that you had previously stopped talking "because of a misunderstanding..." This guy probably didn't want to screw things up again by "going for it" and being WRONG in his understanding of what he thought you meant...
But, trust me, he was trying -- nicely -- to confirm whether you were in the mood for sex based on the fact that you said, "I want you" after having kissed and cuddled with him all that time.
So, you said you "wanted a relationship with him"... Does that mean you want to have sex with him? After all, what you two were doing constitutes "foreplay" to a male, and any male would want to go to the next step, which is having sex. And when he hears it in that situation, his "little mind" (overriding his "big mind") naturally believes that's what he's about to get... Ha!
(Guys, am I correct?)
2006-09-25 08:46:17 · answer #1 · answered by bundjean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is thinking you want to be intimate with him and he is ready for you. You should let him know, what you meant when you said you want him, because its not very clear.
2006-09-25 22:42:32 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably wondering what the h*ll you meant by "I want you"...next time, you need to be more specific.
2006-09-25 15:01:49 · answer #3 · answered by Patricia 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what he meant is that you have him where you want him or where you need him to be, he knows you want to date him and he wants to date you.
2006-09-25 14:58:41 · answer #4 · answered by Male Sicilian Trauma Nurse 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He was basically asking you what kinda sex you wanted from him that night.
2006-09-25 15:04:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he already knows u want him in a relationship; now he wants to know if u want to take it to the next level.
2006-09-25 15:02:27 · answer #6 · answered by lady sixx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it meant you have him,he wants the same as you,so go for it girl.
2006-09-25 14:59:06 · answer #7 · answered by demi_lee7001 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He means he is YOURS.
The guy I'm dating now says that to me......
He'll say "can I get you anything" or "do you want something?"
and I say "you"
and he says "you've got me."
It means he want you in a relationship.
2006-09-25 14:59:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wanted you, that did not mean your mind at the time. It ment what is between you legs.
2006-09-25 15:01:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
AHHHHHHHHH I think he meant it in a dirty way. Trust me on this one I no what im talking about.
2006-09-25 15:01:15 · answer #10 · answered by mermaid 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋