whenever we try to have sex my bf has a hard time getting it up. once he is in its fine but before that its hard for him to get it up. what gives? is the condoms? how can i make this not happen
2006-09-25 08:02:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
foreplay
2006-09-25 08:03:52 · answer #1 · answered by ♫ sf_ca ღ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said once he's in he's fine so chances are it is not the condoms althought don't totally count them out. However, I would advise you to work more with the foreplay. Strip tease, lap dance. Recognize things that arouse him, and give it a try. Also let him know that when he has an orgasm, the nights not over, this may take some of the satisfiying pressure off him.
2006-09-25 15:09:26 · answer #2 · answered by Floss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be a symptom of a physical problem or it is psychological. Does he have that problem when he is by himself (if you know what I mean)? If he has trouble getting off the launching pad when he is alone there could be a physiological reason, such as low testosterone. Best to get him to the doctor.
2006-09-25 15:05:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl you need to play with him get him excited have an adventure with him and try again but if don't work you need to take his *** to the damn doctors or he's ******* gay like hell or something is mess up.get rid of him and find someone who can give you a nice ride,make you fell like your on a roller coster,lol.
2006-09-25 15:11:18 · answer #4 · answered by ANDREA R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try more play beforehand. Use rubbing oils, maybe a bj. If the problem persists, then he should probably see a doctor.
2006-09-25 15:04:26 · answer #5 · answered by Becky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a number of reasons for this. He should see his doctor who in turn may refer him to a Urologist.
2006-09-25 15:07:02 · answer #6 · answered by sselfcoug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm...your boyfriend seems to be guilty of something--it all sounds to be psychological. You better sit down and have a talk with him to find out what is going on...
2006-09-25 15:05:04 · answer #7 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Foreplay (Oral sex mainly), if this doesn't work for him take him to a doctor because there could be something wrong lol!.
2006-09-25 15:04:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might just be nervous. Try some foreplay to help him.
2006-09-25 15:05:26 · answer #9 · answered by vlg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmm play with him
BJ
maybe soem aventure
dont pressure him to much
maybe is he tired
or something is not working there
talk play do
2006-09-25 15:05:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT COULD BE TO MUCH MASTERBATION OR CONDOM
MORE FOREPLY AND GIVE HIM ORAL AS U PUT CONDOM ON LICK HIS BALLS TO AS U PUT IT ON
2006-09-25 15:12:07 · answer #11 · answered by jamietogood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋