In a Society more people look for (skinny) girls so why is it so hard to find BBW?
2006-09-25 07:55:04 · 18 answers · asked by Matthew C 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you wanna c a BBW than check out my bff dani..she is a very beautiful big girl....shes not that big but shes big...shes not skinny she is absolutley BEAULTIFUL!!!! its not that hard you just need to know where to look. go to www.myspace.com/urbndrk
send me an IM tell me what you think of her....
2006-09-25 08:00:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
A lot of BBW stay to themselves to prevent getting hurt by the cruelty of ignorant people who "open mouth, insert foot" too frequently.
You hear all the time of how overweight people were chided throughout their lives by insensitive "friends" and/or bullies who probably learned from their parents...!!!
Also, nowadays, BBW hardly believe it when a guy (handsome or otherwise) actually shows an interest in them, because of all the heartaches they've had in dealing with the insensitives.
My Uncle is married to a BBW, and I just wish he had an older brother just like him. They have been married since she was 13 --had to get her mom's permission -- then, while he went away to serve in the military, she stayed at her mom's to finish growing up. She has never had to work a day in her life! He worships the ground she walks on and drives her anywhere and everywhere she wants to go. He would wait on her hand and foot if she would allow him to... They have three beautiful children, and numerous grandchildren. She was the baby of the family, but I believe she had the best marriage of all her siblings. (She is the only girl in the family who has remained married to the same man throughout her life, and she recently turned 65!)
How I wish I still had my guy that was my first experience. He did not care about my size, and wanted me to be with him all the time. We broke up because of my family saying he was from the "wrong side of the tracks." (That was the last time I ever listened to my family about my personal life, too!!!) Lost him, and haven't found another one since...
So guys, if you truly are interested in BBW, and do not intend to do harm to them by making jokes about them, and so on, then you will have to prove it to the majority of the BBW before they will open up to you. But, we are out here for the asking...Just ask in the appropriate way, and be honest about your feelings!
2006-09-25 16:15:44 · answer #2 · answered by bundjean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beauty is a reflection of the soul and the skin. I believe there is beauty in everything.
Just look at such cases as Nicole Richie and Crystal Renn (opposite cases) But, I believe there is a balance. . . and it should be the person you love, not just their appearance.
Being tiny as an anorexic I was no more beautiful than I am today as a size 12. I love myself.
Look for women who love who they are and you'll find happiness.
2006-09-25 15:04:10 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its what you consider Beautiful, and tv, people, news ads, etc. are posting all this things about "lose weight" so you might have had BBW now they went to Little women because of an ad
2006-09-25 14:58:29 · answer #4 · answered by Become a better person 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We're out here.. check yahoo groups for your town for bbw /bhm sites.
BBW and proud of it.
2006-09-25 14:57:46 · answer #5 · answered by kimmi_35 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep looking there are bbw everywhere.
2006-09-25 14:57:44 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. Brown 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WE are all around,,,I am a big beatiful woman, just men I guess are to afraid to aproch me,,,Im 5'11" with an excellent hourglass figure,, And funny too,,,,Im a excellent catch!
2006-09-25 14:58:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are very easy to find. I've never had a problem.
2006-09-25 15:01:40 · answer #8 · answered by tbayxxxv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be blind then. 60% of all adult women are either overweight or obese. (And that is a fact, folks)
2006-09-25 14:57:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think they are hard to find, I mean how can you miss them?? I'm going to hell for this.
Hehe
2006-09-25 15:05:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋